why don't you ask him,. bc really he could be saying it bc he wants you to fall in love, or bc he doesn't, or bc he doesn't know what the hell he wants.
there's no sway of knowing unless you ask him directly. if he bullshits you then it doesn't really matter what he meant. he's a loser who doesn't respect you and you should walk. I'm tempted to tell you to just walk Anyhow. him winking after staying that doesn't make it look like he's dealing with any serious fears or abandonment issues. he's probably just an idiot. i don't think its a serious warning. not that he is reliable. i just don't think he's being 'considerate band honest' i think he's playing gases. but go ask him.
tell him you want to be free to love or not love w/e ends up happening And don't want to be limited by his fear. if he's worried about you falling in lover then its not going to work. not bc you want to fall in love per se but bc you want toy be free to do so if it comes to that.
see how committed he is to his 'warning' at the prospect of it back firing on him.
lots of people say don't bc they think it'll make you want them more. what it does is create resentment bc people don't like being manipulated destroy thrust and they lose the person anyway.00 Reply
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826 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I find that with many of today's toms, they do Not want the Big "C." which is Commitment, do Not wish to be hooked at the hip, and will either Tell you Straight to your face or Give you their run around. This one is this Honest John in warning you ahead of time to----Not wear your heart on your sleeve so he doesn't end up ripping it off at the arm.
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I've had a guy say this before.
Seriously, don't. He's probably a tool, and he'll most likely cheat on you.
He sounds like he just wants to mess around.04 Reply- Asker+1 y
Yeah he actually does want to mess around but I said no
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Good, don't.
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You both in college btw?
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He's 24 and I'm 20
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When i have told girls dont fall in love with me its because im really telling them not to fall in love with me. I dont see us together in the future. Its pretty simple really. The guys that try to use it as reverse psychology is just completely dumb. Be straight up with your girl and stop playing little kid mind games
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cause he's confident that spending time with him you will indeed develop strong feelings for him that can potentially lead to love. its like when Jamie said that to Landon. she made him promise to not fall in love with her lol. he broke that promise.
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He means exactly the opposite. Remember this line? "Don't think of a pink elephant!"
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Because he only wants to use you for sex, that's what men say when that's all they want.
10 Reply He doesn't want any commitment, or is bad at breakups.
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Yeah he hasn't been in a committed relationship in so long and he said everytime he tries to date someone it ends badly. And he doesn't want it to happen to both of us
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It's a pick up line, to attract stupid girls who go after "dangerous" bad boys. He obviously thinks you're one of those.
11 Reply because he wants you to fall in love with him... its a technique.. believe me
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He's just pussy teasing you.
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It's a warning.
Like caveat emptor.00 Reply
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