Did your husband always take showers at night? If yeah I wouldn't worry too much about it, he probably just uses that time to unwind and have alone time (we all need some alone time). If this is a new development and if he is not wanting to get intimate with you as much anymore then it could be something more serious and you guys should have an honest talk about what is going on with your relationship.
I highly doubt it's just to whack off, if it was just that he'd jump in the shower and get it over with quick.
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The bathroom for men is a place of solitude... it's one of the few places you can go into the house, be isolated, lock the door, and be able to tell people to leave you alone without resistance.
He may be reading something and loses track of time, he may be answering work emails, he may be watching something on Netflix/Hulu, he may be watching p*rn.
Regardless, he just need some time alone (especially since u may not give him the quiet alone time every man craves).
Doing his Thing by 'Going Number 2,' and most likely also takes his 'Reading reference' with him...
My sister had a hubby who used to hide out in the boudoir, gawking and googling over his many hidden p*rn magazines, and Got caught One day by Detective Donna with his----Hand in the cookie jar.
I have always found that no matter what a man goes into the bathroom for, he is worse than females when it comes to Down time, Any time... xx
he's either:
A. Beating his meat
B. Taking a dump
C. On the phone with someone
D. Beating his meat lol
Lady you can't be serious. xD Let the man be.
Who cares what he's doing in there? xD
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Probably jacking it.
cf.chucklesnetwork.com/.../...e-you-jacking-of.jpgI usually read or play psp when I poo. I try to make sure everything is gone. In this day and age you can never tell when you're really finished. So, I like to take extra time to be sure. Then when it's all gone you can hope into the shower and be sure that you're clean inside and out.
I know some girls like to keep their poop but there is no need to feel like you have to be a private eye. Cool?He is unwinding & decompressing. I need to get away from everyone when I come home from work too. Just let him have this time, he will appreciate it.
its possible to take 45 min shits. it depends on what he ate and specifically what he ate could make him feel constipated or give him long amounts of time on the toilet.
Does he take anything with him, like phone, laptop, tablet, magazine? Either taking a shit or masturbating.
Honestly he's probably sat on the toilet playing angry birds or something, guys are weird and they do weird things but it's nothing to be concerned about
Could it just be that he is relaxing after a stressful day. You could Allways ask him or better still try offering to join him.
Escaping getting yelled at what isn't getting done at home after he already worked all day... XD :D
he could be reading, texting, checking his phone, enjoying the quiet time, rubbing one out, all sorts of things.
This may sound dumb, but have you ever asked him what he is doing in there?My guess is you are smothering him and he just needs some time alone.
has a second cellphone hidden in the flush tank and making calls to drug dealers or he finds peace in there or you are a paranoid wife who keep doubting
Just chilling… watching fun videos, May be in mood and watching pton or watching a game or reading through current affairs. In short… just having his peaceful time. Definitely nothing to worry about.
Why bother questioning what he's doing? Just walk in there and see what he's up to
I agree with some of the other comments. He probably just needs time alone and to unwind from work. A lot of times that is the only place he can find some peace!
He is sitting in the toilet seat, wanking to someone in omegle.
Having *me* time. It's the one room in the house where he doesn't have to deal with your presence...
He’s masturbating probably. 😎. I do it and I’m not ashamed of it or even admitting that I do masturbate 👍😎
You'll have to ask him. In anycase, let him unwind.
I’m really sorry to say this but he’s definitely cheating on you how do I know is because I've been through all that eventually he admitted everything he said that it’s the only and safest place to do that
A man alone can do many things. Masturbation, maybe.
But, I think in every case, if he really needs to be alone and feel free some moment then, he goes to the bathroom.
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