My husband spends hour in bathroom what is he doing?

[Anonymous]

Every night my husband comes home goes to the bathroom sits on toilet for 45 min then takes a shower what is he doing and why does it take so long

[drpinky]

Did your husband always take showers at night? If yeah I wouldn't worry too much about it, he probably just uses that time to unwind and have alone time (we all need some alone time). If this is a new development and if he is not wanting to get intimate with you as much anymore then it could be something more serious and you guys should have an honest talk about what is going on with your relationship.

I highly doubt it's just to whack off, if it was just that he'd jump in the shower and get it over with quick.

[Asker]

Well we still have sex he just says he is tired during the week and so we do it maybe once a week and every night on weekend I even give him bj in middle of week and he has always taken shower as soon as he got home because he is covered in grease but just seems like it takes longer and longer each time

[Asker]

That's the only time he is alone and half the time he is in there one of the kids knocks on the door

[drpinky]

Yeah I wouldn't worry about this being anything other than he needs some time to relax and be alone. Something you can do maybe is talk to him ask him if something is going on at work that has him stressed. You also could maybe one day take the kids out and give him a day alone in the house, he might enjoy this too.

[Prof_Don]

The bathroom for men is a place of solitude... it's one of the few places you can go into the house, be isolated, lock the door, and be able to tell people to leave you alone without resistance.

He may be reading something and loses track of time, he may be answering work emails, he may be watching something on Netflix/Hulu, he may be watching p*rn.

Regardless, he just need some time alone (especially since u may not give him the quiet alone time every man craves).

[Prof_Don]

Glad I was able to help!

[Paris13]

Doing his Thing by 'Going Number 2,' and most likely also takes his 'Reading reference' with him...
My sister had a hubby who used to hide out in the boudoir, gawking and googling over his many hidden p*rn magazines, and Got caught One day by Detective Donna with his----Hand in the cookie jar.
I have always found that no matter what a man goes into the bathroom for, he is worse than females when it comes to Down time, Any time... xx

[Asker]

The thing is if that's what he is doing just tell me why hide it so what I watch p*rn and pleasure myself in the shower and I don't hide that from him

[Paris13]

I suppose whatever he is doing Or Not, he is feeling it is his little secret as he sits there does his----Business... My sister was very upset, even at one time got rid of the computer, however, it's back in th rehouse and things have calmed down some... Most of the time, I know from all the men in my life, my dad included, sits on the john and reds the paper, plays with their phone, Reads whatever, may even take a snooze... Don't sweat it, as long as it's in the bathroom and not outside of the house, you're fine... xx

[RaeBae]

he's either:
A. Beating his meat
B. Taking a dump
C. On the phone with someone
D. Beating his meat lol

[RaeBae]

Or he's either E. Shaving or F. Watching p*rn

[inamorata]

Lady you can't be serious. xD Let the man be.
Who cares what he's doing in there? xD

[jointhepatriarchy]

Probably jacking it.

cf.chucklesnetwork.com/.../...e-you-jacking-of.jpg

[arashmenalagha]

I usually read or play psp when I poo. I try to make sure everything is gone. In this day and age you can never tell when you're really finished. So, I like to take extra time to be sure. Then when it's all gone you can hope into the shower and be sure that you're clean inside and out.

I know some girls like to keep their poop but there is no need to feel like you have to be a private eye. Cool?

[matrix124]

He is unwinding & decompressing. I need to get away from everyone when I come home from work too. Just let him have this time, he will appreciate it.

[Asker]

He gets a break all day at work though I'm always with the kids and no one ever takes them off my hands so I can decompress not saying anything bad about anyone I know he works hard to take care of us but I need a break to

[BertMacklinFBI]

its possible to take 45 min shits. it depends on what he ate and specifically what he ate could make him feel constipated or give him long amounts of time on the toilet.

[Asker]

Well it has never taken me over two min to go but everyone is different

[BertMacklinFBI]

I feel you but I honestly wouldn't compare yourself to your husband in this matter, it clouds your judgment.

[AlexCab]

Does he take anything with him, like phone, laptop, tablet, magazine? Either taking a shit or masturbating.

[Asker]

He is always glued to his phone

[AlexCab]

There you go...

[Asker]

Yeah but he glued to it even out of bathroom not like I care but if ur watching p*rn so be it no big deal just let me in on it

[AlexCab]

do you guys watch p*rn together? if you don't, what does he think about you and p*rn, I mean, does he think you like it or hate it? if it's p*rn, maybe you need to show him you're ok with it. If it's not porn... maybe he needs to go see a doctor?

[shi-shi]

Honestly he's probably sat on the toilet playing angry birds or something, guys are weird and they do weird things but it's nothing to be concerned about

[broadsword]

Could it just be that he is relaxing after a stressful day. You could Allways ask him or better still try offering to join him.

[Shyguy_1988]

Escaping getting yelled at what isn't getting done at home after he already worked all day... XD :D

[Asker]

That could be true

[Anonymous]

has a second cellphone hidden in the flush tank and making calls to drug dealers or he finds peace in there or you are a paranoid wife who keep doubting

[Fireguy17]

he could be reading, texting, checking his phone, enjoying the quiet time, rubbing one out, all sorts of things.
This may sound dumb, but have you ever asked him what he is doing in there?

[Anonymous]

My guess is you are smothering him and he just needs some time alone.

[Hornyhubby]

Just chilling… watching fun videos, May be in mood and watching pton or watching a game or reading through current affairs. In short… just having his peaceful time. Definitely nothing to worry about.

[RingOfFire]

I agree with some of the other comments. He probably just needs time alone and to unwind from work. A lot of times that is the only place he can find some peace!

[Apple1996]

Why bother questioning what he's doing? Just walk in there and see what he's up to

[abundantlyrich]

He is sitting in the toilet seat, wanking to someone in omegle.

[abundantlyrich]

*on the toilet seat.

[Anonymous]

Having *me* time. It's the one room in the house where he doesn't have to deal with your presence...

[Asker]

Oh well that's nice sorry I'm so annoying to be around

[Opinion Owner]

No need to apologise to me. I'm not the one hiding from you just to get some peace.

[tfan1]

He’s masturbating probably. 😎. I do it and I’m not ashamed of it or even admitting that I do masturbate 👍😎

[ariadneR]

You'll have to ask him. In anycase, let him unwind.

[Orchidia]

I’m really sorry to say this but he’s definitely cheating on you how do I know is because I've been through all that eventually he admitted everything he said that it’s the only and safest place to do that

[Anonymous]

A man alone can do many things. Masturbation, maybe.
But, I think in every case, if he really needs to be alone and feel free some moment then, he goes to the bathroom.

[Anonymous]

Masterbating, playing a game on his phone, reading a news paper lol it's just a man thing they all do it

[Christoff92]

He's afraid that you wouldn't trust him in something. Assuming. Maybe you should talk with him about it 🙂

[Anonymous]

You should harass him about it since it is probably his only alone time.

[Anonymous]

he's straightening his hair. and jacking it right after.

[msc545]

Probably escaping you, but ask him - not us.

[WelshOrigins]

Is there really any point in speculating? Ask him if you are concerned.

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for me to spend 30 minutes to an hour on the toilet. My bowel movements are usually messy and hard to clean up... :(

[Anonymous]

A peaceful place to sit and relax after a day at work

[jgarcia]

Who cares , he's not in there with someone else

[legalboxers]

masturbating.. sexting.. IBS..

[Asker]

He says he has to poop but I have never in my life had it even take me five min to do that in and out

[legalboxers]

IBS.. Constipation..

[Anonymous]

Probably flirting with women on his phone.

[Anonymous]

Have sex with him if you haven't in a while.

[Awantika03]

You need to perform better in bed 🛏️

[SandyKandy]

I don't know.

[Jonzor]

Masturbating.

[Anonymous]

Reading a book

[Asker]

Maybe the trade winds lol

[LavLavLuv]

Summoning demons

[Anonymous]

He's masturbating

[Asker]

OK well why every night and why if I'm willing to fuck

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he's bored or sick of always doing the same thing.

[TwistedLogic]

@Asker
Ask him! You need to confront him. There is no other way around this.

[Asker]

I have he says he doesn't do that and that he is pooping but really it doesn't take that long to poop and if he is doing that it doesn't bother me but why hide it from me maybe I would like to watch him do it