What does it mean when a guy says idk?

[Anonymous]

I told this guy could we ever be more then friends he said I don't know what the hell is that suppose to mean guys. i just want a straight answer from this guy and he won't tell me. but we already have had two sexual encounters with eachother

[flingflame]

Sounds like you're already more than friends. Also sounds like he wants you as a fuck buddy, not as a girlfriend.

[Asker]

He doesn't even wanna have sex yet thought which i dont get. we do other stuff. could he just be scared to be in a relationship qith me

[Jonny_]

Either disinterested or exploring options... either way it's not a good reason.

[Asker]

But could he like me but not be sure about dating me?

[Jonny_]

Doubt it, why would you be on the fence? You either like someone or you don't, it really shouldn't be much more complicated than that.

[Asker]

He said I don't know about us dating.

[Asker]

He probably doesn't really know if does want to date me.

[Asker]

And u know how i can tell that he's suspect also his guy friend that im friends with also he found out from me we did stuff to gethwrr he didn't tell anybody what happened betweenus.

[Jonny_]

How could you not know? You will know, saying I don't know is just avoiding answering.

[Asker]

So there's no possibly of him wanting to date me.

[Jonny_]

Very little...

[SheWhoShallNotBnamed]

Probably not, if he wanted to, he'd probably have just said yes.

[Asker]

Why didn't he just say no then. all guys just say no when they dont like me not just idk?

[SheWhoShallNotBnamed]

He probably thinks you're a nice person so doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying it bluntly. I think people should be more upfront about these things though, because this is how people mistakenly lead people on sometimes.

[Asker]

But could he like me. cuz I've heard of guys reallly not knowing if they like girls

[Asker]

Like the girl*

[SheWhoShallNotBnamed]

I think in general, guys or girls, if you like somebody, you'll know you like them. You can't really not know you like somebody if you do actually like them. Maybe people can change their mind and begin to like somebody, but if somebody likes somebody, they would know they like them.

[genericname85]

has it ever occured to you, that he might just in fact not know? guys are not allways certain about everything.

[VulcanHades]

He doesn't love you. He just likes having you around as a fuck friend.

[VulcanHades]

Then again it depends how he said it.

[Keyspirits]

He juz want u as a fack buddy and nothing more. U seriously think dat sex will change the mind of a man? Lel dont make meh laugh. They will happily take advantage of such easy chix like u. Toughluck!

[Asker]

We didn't have sex just messed around a lil. he didn't wanna have sex with me yet.

[Keyspirits]

But u mention y'all have two sexual encounters.-.

[Asker]

Oral sex is a sexual encounter right lol:/i dontthink he's using me cuz times i would text him to come he would say not tn or would bt respond.

[Keyspirits]

I think he exploited ur body alrdy and was disinterested in any further. That is what cause him to become distant. U let'em explored ur body so thats perrty much it. Thats what guys this generation is doing anywayz so its no surprise.

[Asker]

I only gave him a bj twice he never explored my body. before all this happened he always wanted to do stuff with me and hangout but i was always paying attention to another guy. now im paying him attenttion before i never really liked him like that. also a few months ago i told him i liked him no answer still but we still hung out and had fun. now we did sexual stuff and this happened him saying I don't know about dating me.

[Keyspirits]

Yas cuz y'all alrdy have done sexual stuffs together. He alrdy get to feel u and stuffs. Guys get any oppurtunites that they can get wventho if they are not attracted to her. They juz want pleasures and thats it.

[GoldCobra]

It probably means no