Why do fathers feel proud when their sons sleep around?

[Anonymous]

Why do fathers feel proud when their sons sleep around?

[JSharp]

In society there is this conflict.
Guys tend to be looked down upon if they don't sleep around with many girls.
If girls sleep around with many guys, she'll be considered a slut.

Now the conflict of SOME dads would be proud that their boy will be able to get a girl since it's traditionally the man's job to get the girl, but good thing that is becoming less of the case these days. If they know their child is able to sleep around, then they feel like they raise a confident guy. (I'm just guessing here).

But like I said, not all father's are like that.

[BlendedAmorosity]

That question is complicated because its of someone's own values. I personally wouldn't be proud and I'd be calling him a man whore like I do with some of my friends that "sleep around".

I was raised without a father so my views tend to not be what a typical guys' view would be I suppose. I usually look at females as equals because my mom has been through a lot and still going through a lot.

Promiscuous people in general men and women should be looked at the same.

[MsAnthropist]

Because they're sexist unless they'd be proud their daughters were sleeping around too.

Who do they think the guys are sleeping with? If girls are sluts for having sex and guys are studs, perhaps the boys should just screw each other. 😽

[SolitaireBond]

My God... If ever my father was to think that of my younger brother (who I hasten to add does NOT SLEEP AROUND) doing such a thing... Then I can assure you all hell would break lose!

[Rapunzel2490]

It really depends how they were raised. I've seen fathers give their son "props" for getting with multiple women, and I've seen fathers give their sons shit for doing that.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

My father slept around but you see he is the night and i am the day we are totally different people
i would never sleep around that is messed up big time and my mom (late) would support me
course i never inherited any of their personalities thank you MY LORD

[TheYellowBear]

I've never understood. My wanker of a Father was always telling me to go and sew my oats and get loads of experience with different tastes and I just shook my head. I never have and never will have the desire to sleep around. Such behaviour is immoral and is the behaviour of heathens.

[sexyasianboi26]

Name one President that didn't sleep around, or is not a natural charmer?

Sleeping around are like stepping stones that expose you to the alpha male path.

Back in the ancient ages, some royalties had concubines and sex slaves. Even princesses and queens had male sex slaves. They use them for gaining knowledge.

[HorrorFan]

I don't know about sleeping around but it seems that both parents are proud when their son is at least sexually active and not a social outcast.

Meanwhile, most fathers seem to want to slap a chastity belt on their daughters.

[Asker]

Just because a guy is not sexually active doesn't mean he's a social outcast.

[HorrorFan]

I agree. It's still a typical viewpoint, though.

[koko124]

Because a male who attains sex with many females is very reproductively fit, while a female who attains sex with many males is less reproductively fit than a female who does so with only one male.

Sleeping with many women is equivalent to fathering many children. Sleeping around with many men is reflective of having multiple children by different men, meaning that fewer men will commit to you, which translates to less provisioning for the woman and her children, and ultimately less fit offspring.

[Asker]

WTF are you talking about? neither the father or the son want to be responsible for a bunch of kids from different women and most young men hate children.

[Josh3235]

It's how they were raised. I'm 21 and still a virgin. My mom raised me through my teenage years and I think thats one of the reasons why I have trouble with girls.

[Modernhippy]

Cuz you want your son to be a winner and winners get laid a lot

[BertMacklinFBI]

some do some don't. it depends how the father's were born and raised to believe.

[evenlift]

I'm not sure they do, but, if they do, that's because it's quite an achievement!

[Shyguy_1988]

My father would not be proud and my mom would be extremely disappointed in me. How I was raised.

[Ihav2fart]

I'd feel proud if he was a scrapper and won most of the scraps too.

[BlendedAmorosity]

way to dodge the question :P

[Ihav2fart]

@BlendedAmorosity I have no idea why. I think I'd be proud though.

[hayhurst]

Bad fathers have always existed. They are usually sexist too.

[I-Am-Bored]

Those are the bad fathers.

[myspacemybroke]

Because they know how much effort it takes on a guy's part to get laid, and that it's an achievement

[Asker]

It takes a lot of effort to rob banks and don't get caught, you know
By your logic we should celebrate all things that are morally wrong as long it takes some effort.

[myspacemybroke]

You know there is a bit of difference between a natural, biological process necessary to breeding, and stealing from someone right? Just throwing that out there...

[SaltandVinegar]

Thats my boy! LOL