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I think it's best to just walk away from that situation. Male or female. I know, oh fucking trust me, I KNOW how hard it is to ignore a dumbass talking shit. But I like to be as peaceful as possible. The only time I've hit someone or fought is when they hit me first, I couldn't restrain them, and had to hit them back. Literally self defense. It was usually outnumbered fights aka getting jumped. Me walking home from work. Dumbass gang banging low life GROWN MEN picking fights with anyone. And sometimes women gangbangers too.
I think it's better to walk away. If not, only use necessary force to restrain them. And as a last resort, you gotta hit them back for self defense. Male or female.
Distance yourself from these annoying people or women you seem to be coming across.
But remember we're still transitioning from traditional to more progressive views. There are some antiquated thoughts that still carry on. Somethings benefit men, while others benefit women. This just so happens to benefit women at the moment. But other things tend to lean favorably towards males (slut shaming being one). Each gender has stereotypes and social stigma to fight against.
P. s. I don't know why, but these types of questions seem annoying and really bothersome cuz they keep coming up. It's like some guys are waiting for full equality between the sexes to finally be "free" to hit women. That's the vibe that for some reason these questions give off. (And I'm not talking about self defense, it seems like some guys are just waiting for it to be ok to hit females)
Are guys really becoming that desperate to smack women around like the good ol' days or something? wtf. . .
If you are hitting someone becasue you are angry at them and you just want to make them suffer then that is wrong. A woman should not just go up and spontaneoulsy hit a man just like a man should not just spontaneoulsy hit a woman.
All hitting should be in self defense. So if a woman does happen to spontaneously hit you becasue she is an angry psycho bitch, then you should be able to hit her back.
However it should be fair. If a woman just slaps your face and thats it, then you have every right to slap her face back or do nothing if you want.
Pummleing her to the ground and bashing her skull in is not equivilant to a slap to the face. If a woman is actually boxing you, and continuously kicking you like she is really trying to pummle you to the ground and bash your skull in, then it is verry acceptable for you to use the same force to defend yourself.
I feel like once the person is down and weak, or is not even trying to fight you anymore, then there is really no need to keep trying to fight them because at that point you are no longer defending yourself. Defense implys that someone is attacking you so if no one is attacking you then you would just be beating someone up becasue you are a sicko who enjoys beating people up and watching them suffer.
Yeah, hit anyone in self defense. That's fair. If you hit someone because they taunted you into it... well... then you're just a dumbass who can't ignore the words of an idiot.
The people here are lauding themselves for their civility, and their ability to walk away; apparently they never look out of the window, turn the TV on, even venture out, or perhaps even ponder on how they address family members. How little do we know ourselves? :)
I hate violence, and always advocate walking away. But clearly, we're all in denial about the violence we're all capable of, and the depraved aspects lingering in the darkest shadows of our respective subconsciousnesses. If someone gets in your face, fair enough, one may hope to be rational. Had a shit day, the one that broke the camel's back? Been bullied for years? Had Traumatic experiences? Are you then so confident? And I should say, thank fully, I've never hit anyone, male or female, in my adult life. I'm not stupid enough to profess to be perfect though.
I deplore all violence. But be violent to anyone, irrespective of gender, and be hardly surprised when you get it in return. We're not as civilised as we all claim. Least people who actually physically hit one another have something going for them; they are being honest. How much underhand violence and nastiness, perhaps psychological, is going on in our apparently civilised world.
Yeah, agreed. Some people think that being female grants you the privilege to be invulnerable, and not be taken responsible for your actions. News flash, someone will eventually lose their temper and slap you in the face if you keep on being a bitch. And people will cheer. Because you will have deserved it.
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I think it's okay to hit a woman in self defense, but people need to understand that self defense, legally and morally, is not meant to mean justified revenge. Self defense is for you to do as much as you need to do to stop the person long enough to get out of the situation. If a woman slaps you, you don't get to pummel her in the face until you knock her teeth out. Just kind of the way it is. I don't think anyone should hit anyone for arguments or whatever though. That's just childish no matter who does it.
I have asked this question a couple of times to some guys and girls I know and they helped me come to the idea that it is ok to hit a woman in and certian rare situations you may find yourself in. For example in self defence for what ever reason if you know a woman is about to do you some kind ogf great bodily harm you would have the right to preserve your own health and wellbing if she did try to attack you not as a man but as a human being defending yourself from another human beings attack.
As for domesitc violince no i dont agree with hitting a woman in that way, if she is at the end of the day ticking you off all the time or cheating withher why dont you just leave her, would be a waste of time in my eyes.
You're right about one thing: You really don't get it. Let me ask you this: If, say, a 7 or 8 year old boy were to hit you, would you hit him back? Hey, the kid could be the biggest brat in the world. It may even have hurt a little bit when he hit you. But would you hit a 7 or 8 year old? Same thing with hitting a girl. It doesn't matter if she's a very unpleasant human being. It doesn't matter if she's in your face. You don't hit somebody who has the strength of probably what an 8 year old boy has. You can restrain her, hold her arms down, and do other things to protect yourself (like turning your body at an angle to protect your crotch), but you don't hit her.
So what... you want to be able to yell and argue with a woman to your heart's content and then smack her the moment she disagrees? Unless you are actual need of self-defense, there is no reason why you should be hitting a lady. Hell, even with another man you should leave violence out of the equation unless absolutely needed. You sound like a fucking grade schooler making excuses to his mother. "It's not my fault, he started it by calling me stupid." Someone pisses you off, you walk away. If you can't manage that, then you have much bigger issues than your bruised ego.
Same answer as this one:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1228661-if-a-woman-hits-a-man-is-he-allowed-to-hit-her-back
All I know is both of them would be people I don't want to have as friends. Seems like self-defense is confused too often for retaliation. Hitting or hitting back in anger is hitting either way.
Hitting because someone (regardless of gender) is seriously threatening your life or hurting a loved one, then by all means do do it.
If your GF treats you like crap, you dump her ass you don't hit her.
If a random girl is harassing you in public, you can use some physical force to make the harassment stop but not in a violent or harmful manner. There's no need for slapping or punching, you're a man. You could just take her handbag and throw it or whatever or hold her arms/push her away.
If all fails, give her the Mexican Surfboard.
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Revenge has as much effect as saltwater on thirst. Be wise. Just leave her alone. If a person does that, they are just frustrated and are trying to seek attention. Don't let them have the honour of having it. Be more logical than their own primal minds. Look towards your future, If you hit a girl, she can just be a bitch and get you in for sexual harrassment. Don't give in to your urge. Just turn back and leave. Believe me, it will be more awesome to watch that person just squirm and yell when you leave them standing there. Only resort to fighting when there's no other option left, and it takes a lot to find yourself in that rare situation. Hope this helped.
Were you watching the NY Subway video by any chance?
If you are basing it off that video then I would say YES you can hit a female when it's in self-defense. Public defamation for no apparent reason other than his jacket was weird looking, not only that the chick had the nerve to hit him.
If you are not basing this question off of that video then I would say, yes, you can hit woman. However, it has to be justified. Which means self-defense, life threatening situations, and not just because she was yelling at you and you lost your cool and you decided to lay one on her cheek just because she made you feel bad.
Fair game.
Because women have been victimized since the dawn of time, and seen on as weak.
Just make sure you stand near a surreveilance camera and got witnesses, then let her throw the first punch (not like it's going to cause any harm anyway). Suddenly you can act in sef defence, beat her to the ground, and hold her there (because she might attack if you let her go), then press charges for assault (you got it on tape that she hit first, and witnesses confirming this. It's a case she can't win).
Basically just ensure she's the agressor, then you go for it.
But it'll change. Women demand equality, and i give them 20 years before they either figure out it's convenient to be the victim with no real voice in societ, or before we have achieved gender neutrality to such an extent that nobody cares if it's a boy or a girl you hit.
I think the sad truth is that with all this equality crap, ladies aren't ladies anymore and so therefore we can't expect men to be gentlemen. We are our own worst enemy and have confused men so much about how we expect them to behave. It's hard to know how to behave as a woman too. We are told we are all equal, but we aren't and I don't want to be. I liked the boundaries of society where we all knew what to expect of each other. Now its just a mess. It makes it hard for genuine victims of domestic violence to be recognised too. I never once egged on nor provoked my ex and I most certainly did not deserve what he did to me and our children. I don't condone anyone hitting. Male or female. Just walk away with the upper hand knowing you are the better person and if it gets physical call the police
Many girls are going to be hit with a harsh reality when they see how many cops have caught onto the tricks girls play with the law and their abusive behavior.
A huge reason the girls get away with their stunts is because they phone the police and build up a "record" against him. By the time it hits the court she's gotten so many police records that she can use as "evidence" in court. The thing is a lot of cops are catching onto this. Some are very dumb about it.
There was one case on judge judy where this angry ex-girlfriend busted into a guy's house causing a ruckus while he was in a bed with his new girlfriend. She broke a door. She then called the police and got a restraining order against him when she was the one breaking into his house. The judge obviously saw what was going on.
I am starting to get very annoyed at these topics, Hitting a woman is wrong. That's all there is to it. Idc if she hits you harder then you are capable of hitting her, or if she's stronger then you, and honestly if a woman hits you, you probably deserved it. Get lost.
I get the whole equality argument, and I understand the right to defend ones self, but I think the problem is in how severe it can be. A lot of people feel if someone attacks them they can go all out, passed what is considered self defense, they try their best to "neutralize the threat", I'm all for standing up for your man hood and not letting anyone push you around, but putting someone in the hospital because they slapped you is a bit excessive I think.
Some girls are bitches and like to take advantage of that. I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone, but I always find it messed up when they go off crying if a guy hits them back. I know a girl who used to smack her boyfriend all the time. The one time she just started beating on him, and so he grabbed her wrists and shoved back. She started bawling her eyes out about how he hurt her wrists. He had a bloody nose from the beating he got from her! She went complaining to her brother, who went after him.
I have never hit a guy out of anger and I never will. I don't get why some girls find this okay?
just walk away. my ex was violent and one time she tried attacking me with a kitchen knife. I just dodged her and walked outside quick. calling her after on the phone and said "we are done". Anyway, hitting someone who is weaker than you is an abuse of power and a sign of cowardice. Just walk away, leave the person to their own anger and guilt. They have to live with the shame of having done something extremely stupid. In most cases staying calm defuses the situation.
If you can't deal with her in any other ways than hitting her back, then sure go ahead, but how much of a man are you then? There are other options, like pinning her down or holding her hands, or simply yelling and walking away. I think it's sexy when a guy says "I don't hit girls" I come across that a lot and I love it.
Some times some bitches are so crazy, and thinks they are the shit, so they need to be proven otherwise. But you don't hit her otherwise. Girls should never men either, but we are (often) weaker and smaller than you, and you can hit harder.
i think self-defense is acceptable but i think it is actually not civilized to hit a person back whether it is a girl or a boy... what are we 8 years old? there are a lot of ways in which we can solve abuse, and hitting the abuser is certainly not a solution... and i don't know about this sexism or society rules thing but i would NEVER hit a woman never ever... why? because i am a real man and i was raised this way by my dad... so what if she hit me.. did i die or something? it doesn't matter if she stabbed me with a knife or anything hitting her back won't do anything i can simply go to the cops and let them do their job
Every single day there is at least one question here from guys frustrated that society frowns upon men hitting women. Sure, it's wrong for ANYONE to hit anyone, but I wonder why guys on here seem to be so eager to be able to hit girls. Maybe I live a very sheltered life but I don't see girls hitting men all that much in real life (in fact I don't see it at all) yet just by reading all these questions it would seem that men get beaten up all the time and are not allowed to defend themselves. It all seems so strange to me.
I've seen women beat men till they broke the man's nose and him not hit back once. But if she punches you hard, don't retalliate with a harder punch. Fact is men are USUALLY stronger than women don't hit harder but I see no difference in a man hitting a women or other way around.
If a girl slaps you and it's because your being disrespectful or something along those lines then it's kinda like when your mom spanks you because of whatever reason she's just putting you in your place and then being a gentleman you are not supposed to hit a lady it's just something that's been told to all of us for generations and then women take so much shit as it is I think that if is out of self defense and it's not something that you deserved (be honest) then maybe push her away but I don't think slapping or punching her is the right decision
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