I think it's best to just walk away from that situation. Male or female. I know, oh fucking trust me, I KNOW how hard it is to ignore a dumbass talking shit. But I like to be as peaceful as possible. The only time I've hit someone or fought is when they hit me first, I couldn't restrain them, and had to hit them back. Literally self defense. It was usually outnumbered fights aka getting jumped. Me walking home from work. Dumbass gang banging low life GROWN MEN picking fights with anyone. And sometimes women gangbangers too.
I think it's better to walk away. If not, only use necessary force to restrain them. And as a last resort, you gotta hit them back for self defense. Male or female.
Distance yourself from these annoying people or women you seem to be coming across.
But remember we're still transitioning from traditional to more progressive views. There are some antiquated thoughts that still carry on. Somethings benefit men, while others benefit women. This just so happens to benefit women at the moment. But other things tend to lean favorably towards males (slut shaming being one). Each gender has stereotypes and social stigma to fight against.
P. s. I don't know why, but these types of questions seem annoying and really bothersome cuz they keep coming up. It's like some guys are waiting for full equality between the sexes to finally be "free" to hit women. That's the vibe that for some reason these questions give off. (And I'm not talking about self defense, it seems like some guys are just waiting for it to be ok to hit females)
Are guys really becoming that desperate to smack women around like the good ol' days or something? wtf. . .
Waow baby! Ur infinite words make ma brain-go-round
Some would deserve it on a conceptual level, but I am not a fan of violence, in fact, I don't think I have ever hit anyone.
@Mesonfielde I don't like violence either. I'd honestly rather just walk away. If someone talks shit to me and keeps "egging me" like @asker says women seem to be doing to him, I'd walk away. I never do the first hit. But even then I've only hit people cuz it's me against like 3 or 4 gangbanging dumbasses. I kinda have no choice.
Self defense is the only time I'd agree with hitting, for whatever gender. Taunting, shit talking, "egging on", etc. Just walk away.
If they slap me though, no guarantees that I won't slap back. I might do so merely out of principle.
@snowangle that's what it seems like sometimes. Sadly.
I don't really support violence, and I'd prefer if everyone refrained. But I can understand in circumstances of self defense. But it seems like asker just wants to hit someone for talking shit (or "egging him on"), or hit women particularly for that without the social repercussions like if he were to hit a man for that same reason. I think that's childish and unnecessary even if it was against a male. I only see hitting justifiable if in absolute necessary self defense. That's not what @asker seems to want though.
@snowangle We can't wait for you to stop fucking screaming in our ears from an inch away, kicking our balls, breaking our fingers, noses, spitting at us, then blocking our way if we want to fucking LEAVE!
There's NOTHING I would like to do less than hit a woman, but I am NOT a fucking punching bag or doormat! And a bruised cheek doesn't compare to a broken fucking nose, even if you are a woman! I AM SCARED to hit ANYONE, because I expect retaliation! That kind of respect for other people would do an amazing amount of women and everyone who has to deal with them nothing but good! Stop fucking pretending that women are ALWAYS the victim! Stop downplaying female violence! Did you know that women commit the overwhealming majority of child abuse and child murder? If they started recognizing what they do as full fletched VIOLENCE, the world would not only be a better place, but it would give them self respect and a sense of power! DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
@snowangle I am so sick of this. There are women out there who make peoples lifes' a living hell, don't you get that? There's no innocence or warmth in them, and they deserve a good slap just like any man who is like that! Fucking little victim. NOONE is advocating to knock a woman out for being slapped! People who say that are just loudmouthing and trying to express their anger! A slap is just a slap, and it won't hurt any woman more than any man! How come that a man deserves a bigger punishment for the same crime? Maybe you should look into yourself a little more often, and see if you're not biased too...
If you are hitting someone becasue you are angry at them and you just want to make them suffer then that is wrong. A woman should not just go up and spontaneoulsy hit a man just like a man should not just spontaneoulsy hit a woman.
All hitting should be in self defense. So if a woman does happen to spontaneously hit you becasue she is an angry psycho bitch, then you should be able to hit her back.
However it should be fair. If a woman just slaps your face and thats it, then you have every right to slap her face back or do nothing if you want.
Pummleing her to the ground and bashing her skull in is not equivilant to a slap to the face. If a woman is actually boxing you, and continuously kicking you like she is really trying to pummle you to the ground and bash your skull in, then it is verry acceptable for you to use the same force to defend yourself.
I feel like once the person is down and weak, or is not even trying to fight you anymore, then there is really no need to keep trying to fight them because at that point you are no longer defending yourself. Defense implys that someone is attacking you so if no one is attacking you then you would just be beating someone up becasue you are a sicko who enjoys beating people up and watching them suffer.
Yeah, hit anyone in self defense. That's fair. If you hit someone because they taunted you into it... well... then you're just a dumbass who can't ignore the words of an idiot.
*cough* abuse can be verbal and psychological too, just saying.
But if someone won't back the fuck down when shouting me in the face, and in other ways insulting and invading my personal space, then i will make them. But from single case insults, yes i agree. But this isn't about single case insults, it's about egging.
To put your logic to the edge; a person at a part decides to insult another person by calling him shit, then proceeds to stand right in the face while shouting verbal threats and taunting. Would you just stand there and take it, or would you throw the punch?
Answer me that, HONESTLY.
No I would not throw a punch. I would give them the shit right back and if it gets to be too much I would walk away, if they try to come at me and touch me then I would DEFEND myself.
If someone is always "egging you on" then why not just leave them instead of becoming a fucking abuser?
@dartmaul15 no. I would just leave the situation. Only morons resort to fighting when walking away is so much easier.
you wana know what your "walking away" got me? A fucking concussion and stitches!
I've seen my share of crazy people, but NOTHING is more unpredictable than a woman. No, i preffer to make sure she can't do anything more. If i can, i simply pin her down. If that won't work, well, rather her than me.
@pandagirl17 did you know that the one closest to being an abuser there is the person egging? Because punching someone isn't abuse, it's violence. Abuse demands something happens repeatedly.
@Elsa2ne1 or a very smart one. Violence doesn't solve anything, but sometimes there's nothing to solve. Yes, i agree you should try to avoid it, but there's a line and after that line is crossed and i feel like she'll legit try to harm me then i'll act in self defence.
Let me ask you girls directly. "do you want equality?"
@dartmaul15 did you call the cops? did you back away? self-defense isn't related to my views on equality so let's not mix topics. i stand by my opinion. people who feel the need to fight people instead of running away, walking away, or calling the authorities are stupid.
@harakiri i don't pick fights, i try to avoid them. But what would you do if someone were being extremely provocative and were clearly not mentally balanced (be it lost in anger, or anything else)?
Would you
A. Turn your back to the person and walk away with nowhere to walk to.
B. call the cops and wait for at least one hour (yeah, that's the response time for the cops here)
C. Tell the person that if (s) he does not calm down and stop you will have to take actions to ensure your own safety, and actually do it if necesary.
D. Just beat the snot out of the person.
I know i would've picked C if it got too bad. And frankly, if the person provoked me to do so it's no longer about being stupid or not. It's about ensuring you're safe. Because I want to live, and i've seen what seemingly harmless objects can do.
@dartmaul15 if i'm dealing with a mentally ill person, i would run the fuck away. if there's nowhere to run and this person attacks me, then of course, i will defend myself. i would not hit him or her if he or she did not try to hit me first. again, you can say whatever you want to me. words are words. sure, some people can be abusive about it. but if it's a random person, who i don't even care about, they can say whatever they want, i'm not looking to start a fight. that's a pretty good way to NOT ensure your safety.
EXACTLY Thing is, random strangers who randomly decides to target you.. they're more often than not looking for a fight, and if that means they will have to throw the first punch then they will!!
If you run, you're playing one game... who runs the fastest? You may be lucky and live in a town where you can run out into the streets, but i don't. Where I live there won't be a bunch of people ready to be white knights in an atempt to score brownie points. You know why? 1. because i'm a man, nobody cares if a man gets into a fight, you simply leave them alone to settle it. 2. It's on the countryside, where the laws of the country is in act.
Sure, if it would've worked to just skedaddle the fuck out of there i would've just left them, but for me... it don't.
The option left is to stand my ground. Maybe you being in that position would give you a new perspective?
@dartmaul15 no. my views remain unchanged. i'm not going to hit someone first. i would wait to see what they do or attempt to do. their intentions would have to be clear to me. i don't live in an area where random strangers target people. if you really live someplace like that, then i suggest you move the fuck out of there.
i'd love to know where you leave. Becaus i've yet to hear of one country, one town without random violence, drunken brawls, assualts...
Avoiding confrontation is the best option until it becomes impossible. After that, you're just running away from your problems.
The people here are lauding themselves for their civility, and their ability to walk away; apparently they never look out of the window, turn the TV on, even venture out, or perhaps even ponder on how they address family members. How little do we know ourselves? :)
I hate violence, and always advocate walking away. But clearly, we're all in denial about the violence we're all capable of, and the depraved aspects lingering in the darkest shadows of our respective subconsciousnesses. If someone gets in your face, fair enough, one may hope to be rational. Had a shit day, the one that broke the camel's back? Been bullied for years? Had Traumatic experiences? Are you then so confident? And I should say, thank fully, I've never hit anyone, male or female, in my adult life. I'm not stupid enough to profess to be perfect though.
I deplore all violence. But be violent to anyone, irrespective of gender, and be hardly surprised when you get it in return. We're not as civilised as we all claim. Least people who actually physically hit one another have something going for them; they are being honest. How much underhand violence and nastiness, perhaps psychological, is going on in our apparently civilised world.
The idea of the red mist is scary, isn't it?
Yeah, agreed. Some people think that being female grants you the privilege to be invulnerable, and not be taken responsible for your actions. News flash, someone will eventually lose their temper and slap you in the face if you keep on being a bitch. And people will cheer. Because you will have deserved it.
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I think it's okay to hit a woman in self defense, but people need to understand that self defense, legally and morally, is not meant to mean justified revenge. Self defense is for you to do as much as you need to do to stop the person long enough to get out of the situation. If a woman slaps you, you don't get to pummel her in the face until you knock her teeth out. Just kind of the way it is. I don't think anyone should hit anyone for arguments or whatever though. That's just childish no matter who does it.
I have asked this question a couple of times to some guys and girls I know and they helped me come to the idea that it is ok to hit a woman in and certian rare situations you may find yourself in. For example in self defence for what ever reason if you know a woman is about to do you some kind ogf great bodily harm you would have the right to preserve your own health and wellbing if she did try to attack you not as a man but as a human being defending yourself from another human beings attack.
As for domesitc violince no i dont agree with hitting a woman in that way, if she is at the end of the day ticking you off all the time or cheating withher why dont you just leave her, would be a waste of time in my eyes.
You're right about one thing: You really don't get it. Let me ask you this: If, say, a 7 or 8 year old boy were to hit you, would you hit him back? Hey, the kid could be the biggest brat in the world. It may even have hurt a little bit when he hit you. But would you hit a 7 or 8 year old? Same thing with hitting a girl. It doesn't matter if she's a very unpleasant human being. It doesn't matter if she's in your face. You don't hit somebody who has the strength of probably what an 8 year old boy has. You can restrain her, hold her arms down, and do other things to protect yourself (like turning your body at an angle to protect your crotch), but you don't hit her.
So what... you want to be able to yell and argue with a woman to your heart's content and then smack her the moment she disagrees? Unless you are actual need of self-defense, there is no reason why you should be hitting a lady. Hell, even with another man you should leave violence out of the equation unless absolutely needed. You sound like a fucking grade schooler making excuses to his mother. "It's not my fault, he started it by calling me stupid." Someone pisses you off, you walk away. If you can't manage that, then you have much bigger issues than your bruised ego.
Same answer as this one:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1228661-if-a-woman-hits-a-man-is-he-allowed-to-hit-her-back
All I know is both of them would be people I don't want to have as friends. Seems like self-defense is confused too often for retaliation. Hitting or hitting back in anger is hitting either way.
Hitting because someone (regardless of gender) is seriously threatening your life or hurting a loved one, then by all means do do it.
If your GF treats you like crap, you dump her ass you don't hit her.
If a random girl is harassing you in public, you can use some physical force to make the harassment stop but not in a violent or harmful manner. There's no need for slapping or punching, you're a man. You could just take her handbag and throw it or whatever or hold her arms/push her away.
If all fails, give her the Mexican Surfboard.
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Revenge has as much effect as saltwater on thirst. Be wise. Just leave her alone. If a person does that, they are just frustrated and are trying to seek attention. Don't let them have the honour of having it. Be more logical than their own primal minds. Look towards your future, If you hit a girl, she can just be a bitch and get you in for sexual harrassment. Don't give in to your urge. Just turn back and leave. Believe me, it will be more awesome to watch that person just squirm and yell when you leave them standing there. Only resort to fighting when there's no other option left, and it takes a lot to find yourself in that rare situation. Hope this helped.
Were you watching the NY Subway video by any chance?
If you are basing it off that video then I would say YES you can hit a female when it's in self-defense. Public defamation for no apparent reason other than his jacket was weird looking, not only that the chick had the nerve to hit him.
If you are not basing this question off of that video then I would say, yes, you can hit woman. However, it has to be justified. Which means self-defense, life threatening situations, and not just because she was yelling at you and you lost your cool and you decided to lay one on her cheek just because she made you feel bad.
Fair game.
I am starting to get very annoyed at these topics, Hitting a woman is wrong. That's all there is to it. Idc if she hits you harder then you are capable of hitting her, or if she's stronger then you, and honestly if a woman hits you, you probably deserved it. Get lost.
What an ignorant view
My view comes from the fact that most guys treat girls as objects, They are not, if anything the average woman deals with more stress, and is smarter then the average guy. My view comes from how I was raised, what I learned, how I chose to be, and who i am, If you have a problem with my view, then kiss my ass.
Lol most guys treat girls as objects? Care to back that up with statistics? ^~^
just because you treat em that way, doesn't mean MOST guys do lol
and the simple fact you state "dont like it, kiss my ass" just proves ignorance :3
also, if you put @ then my name, i see your comment faster
@Hephaestus kiss my ass, I say it because I don't like you. I have every reason not to like you, because by disagreeing with me, you think it's okay to hit a woman. Statistics are a way to explain anything with numbers regardless of truth. I know from what I have seen. I know enough to know you are trash who thinks women are toys because you defend the right to hit them. That's all I need to know.
Lol Na, i disagree with your ignorant attitude and the pathetic "if a woman hots you, you probably deserved it"
that is the single most retarded thing i have heard in a long time.
you are giving women a pass to hit men because you think they deserved it? Ahah
lol im trash?
you have bullshit theories ^_^
most men treat women like toys? As i said... back it up :3
If a woman hits* you
Back it up? ever listen to other guys talk about women? enough to make me wanna slug em. You can think I am ignorant all you want, you are stilll trash.
By slug em, I mean punch the guy so hard with a left jab, then right cross, then loeft hook, he doesn't get back up.
Little news flash for ya here, not every guy treats women like that ^_^
and just as many women treat men the exact same way.
i can say that from MY experience ^_^
i don't think it fella, i know it, you're the walking definition of ignorance.. basically saying "this is what i think... dont agree? Kiss my ass and you're a bad guy" hahaha
It would take a real psycho to try and defend his right to hit a woman. call me ignorant all you want, I call you a woman beater.
See this is why i call you ignorant :3
you have no idea on my stance on this subject.
but because i disagree with you're horseshit "if a woman hits a man he probably deserved it" claim... you think you know how i view it all ^_^
pathetic
I think he deserved it because he made a topic trying to justify the right to hit women. So if a woman hit him, he probably deserved it. You jumped to his defence, so I think you probably agree with him.
No, he made a topic questioning it. And the social stigmata that comes with it.
the simple fact you state "if a woman hits you, you probably deserved it" is plain fucked up.
i ain't come to his defence at all hahah, just disagree with your logic
My logic is based off of the fact he made a topic like this, It didn't apply to everyone, just to him
@Hephaestus
So why state that most men treat women like objects, if it was directed at just him?
Because you made it look like you were defending him, which made me get defencive. You looked like you took his side, So I moved to prove my point against his side.
Na, i stated it was an ignorant view. Primarily the fact you said it was deserved.
then you decided my opinion could kiss your ass and said you didn't like me... lol
i never sided with him.
just disagreed with your point.
I misunderstood the context of your statement, because I didn't realize you didn't comprehend the simple fact it was only directed at him because he made this thread. It seems like common sense if you have any social skills at all, to associate my remark would likely be directed at him because he made the thread, and not at everyone in general. I didn't make it a broad term, i specifically mentionned him, not all guys deserved it. But ofcourse you chose to only see a small part of the statement, not broaden your view on the topic @Hephaestus.
Lol see it would be common sense, till you claim most men treat women as objects.
And claiming any man deserves to get hit by a woman is fucked up
Same way as saying any woman deserves to get hit by a man.
In my life I have met 2 guys who don't besides myself, and over 200 that do treat women as objects, It has become the social norm too. If that does not qualify as most, what does?
I also stated that to you, because you appeared to be defending the right to hit women.
And you knew these 200 chaps did absolutely nothing bar treat them as objects?
you know they were dicks and therefore represent "most" men?
that is you assuming, not me, and I know they treat them as objects, from the way they order women around to the way they ignore what the women say. And most is because it has become the social norm for men to be dicks, show no emotion except rage, and treat women as sex objects. Bother keeping up with current us culture reports?
@Hephaestus, it's pretty clear you think you are cunning and try to twist my words, but you're not cunning, nor all that intellegent. The moment i calmed down I noticed what a word twisting, manipulative jackass you really are.
Im not the one assuming anything lol those were questions so i can know.
nope as im not from the US
care to link me to said reports?
I'm done feeding the trolls, if you really want the reports, look them up yourself. I'd say have a nice day, but that would be insincere.
Lol so now in a troll for asking for reports that you claimed? Grow up little boy ^_^ have a splendid day hah
Your a troll because your a troll. Deliberately trying to piss people off for the sake of nothing but you find their reactions funny, Have a good day, social reject.
Then that would make you an ignorant man-child who when questioned about his beliefs, cannot back them up hahah you ain't a man, you're a joke :3
social reject?
better than whatever the fuck you are lol or try to make out you are :3
now keep replying, im laughing at you
An remember little fella, put my name on ya next laughable reply :3 makes it easier
My last reply of the night, For someone named after vulcan, god of the forge and fire, you really don't have a clue. I am replying to you because I now find your foolish attempts to save faith, laughable. I am talking to you because I've been laughing at you ever since I realized you are just a whiny little dick who thinks he's cunning, xD You fail at duplicity kid.
I refuse, you are not worthy to call yourself the greek god of fire,
of all the gods, why would you choose vulcan, I don't get it xD. minerva is wiser, neptune and jupiter are stronger, neptune is wiser, Uranas is ungodly stronger and wiser, why vulcan.
I won't reply... he replies haha
you really are pathetic :3
get questioned, then curl up and get defensive haha
you're a disgrace
lets see if you live up to what ya say and not reply this time ^_^
You have made my night, never knew children like you were allowed on the internet... thank you for the laughs <3
I'm sorry , i can't stop laughing, I'm sitting here trying to leave work and go home, but this debate suddenly became fun when I realzied you ahd a god complex xD Look say what you want about me, call me a kid, downvote me on every post, it's worth it all to hear your nonsense , goodnight mr godcomplex xP Have a very good rest of your night.
@hephaestus all might god of fire and forge, Lawl, i can't stop laughing, do you worship vulcan or does it go so far that you think you are him xD I haven't laughted so hard in a week.
Check your messages @Hephaestas, I can't link the report here cuz im xp1, so I sent it to you via message, xD
Haha knew it! What a silly little boy you are :o can't even commit to what ya say lol
and really talking about usernames? Lol how old are you? 12?
its the same as me saying "omg you're not born from a raven!!"
but know why i don't say stuff like that? Because i don't have special needs ^_^
seriously, thank you... ain't laughed this hard in ages
silly little kid can't back his ignorant claims up.
then calls me a troll for asking about it hahahahahahaha
as i said, pathetic
insult me all you want, you made me laugh, seriously, check your messages, you earned that report and I linked it xD
Still living in the land of dead chivalry I see.
Because women have been victimized since the dawn of time, and seen on as weak.
Just make sure you stand near a surreveilance camera and got witnesses, then let her throw the first punch (not like it's going to cause any harm anyway). Suddenly you can act in sef defence, beat her to the ground, and hold her there (because she might attack if you let her go), then press charges for assault (you got it on tape that she hit first, and witnesses confirming this. It's a case she can't win).
Basically just ensure she's the agressor, then you go for it.
But it'll change. Women demand equality, and i give them 20 years before they either figure out it's convenient to be the victim with no real voice in societ, or before we have achieved gender neutrality to such an extent that nobody cares if it's a boy or a girl you hit.
I think the sad truth is that with all this equality crap, ladies aren't ladies anymore and so therefore we can't expect men to be gentlemen. We are our own worst enemy and have confused men so much about how we expect them to behave. It's hard to know how to behave as a woman too. We are told we are all equal, but we aren't and I don't want to be. I liked the boundaries of society where we all knew what to expect of each other. Now its just a mess. It makes it hard for genuine victims of domestic violence to be recognised too. I never once egged on nor provoked my ex and I most certainly did not deserve what he did to me and our children. I don't condone anyone hitting. Male or female. Just walk away with the upper hand knowing you are the better person and if it gets physical call the police
Many girls are going to be hit with a harsh reality when they see how many cops have caught onto the tricks girls play with the law and their abusive behavior.
A huge reason the girls get away with their stunts is because they phone the police and build up a "record" against him. By the time it hits the court she's gotten so many police records that she can use as "evidence" in court. The thing is a lot of cops are catching onto this. Some are very dumb about it.
There was one case on judge judy where this angry ex-girlfriend busted into a guy's house causing a ruckus while he was in a bed with his new girlfriend. She broke a door. She then called the police and got a restraining order against him when she was the one breaking into his house. The judge obviously saw what was going on.
just walk away. my ex was violent and one time she tried attacking me with a kitchen knife. I just dodged her and walked outside quick. calling her after on the phone and said "we are done". Anyway, hitting someone who is weaker than you is an abuse of power and a sign of cowardice. Just walk away, leave the person to their own anger and guilt. They have to live with the shame of having done something extremely stupid. In most cases staying calm defuses the situation.
i think self-defense is acceptable but i think it is actually not civilized to hit a person back whether it is a girl or a boy... what are we 8 years old? there are a lot of ways in which we can solve abuse, and hitting the abuser is certainly not a solution... and i don't know about this sexism or society rules thing but i would NEVER hit a woman never ever... why? because i am a real man and i was raised this way by my dad... so what if she hit me.. did i die or something? it doesn't matter if she stabbed me with a knife or anything hitting her back won't do anything i can simply go to the cops and let them do their job
I've seen women beat men till they broke the man's nose and him not hit back once. But if she punches you hard, don't retalliate with a harder punch. Fact is men are USUALLY stronger than women don't hit harder but I see no difference in a man hitting a women or other way around.
I get the whole equality argument, and I understand the right to defend ones self, but I think the problem is in how severe it can be. A lot of people feel if someone attacks them they can go all out, passed what is considered self defense, they try their best to "neutralize the threat", I'm all for standing up for your man hood and not letting anyone push you around, but putting someone in the hospital because they slapped you is a bit excessive I think.
Some girls are bitches and like to take advantage of that. I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone, but I always find it messed up when they go off crying if a guy hits them back. I know a girl who used to smack her boyfriend all the time. The one time she just started beating on him, and so he grabbed her wrists and shoved back. She started bawling her eyes out about how he hurt her wrists. He had a bloody nose from the beating he got from her! She went complaining to her brother, who went after him.
I have never hit a guy out of anger and I never will. I don't get why some girls find this okay?
You have to come to terms with how much stronger you are than a woman.
You can usually just restrain her or move her out of your way.
However, if she picks up a weapon, all bets are off.
got to agree. The moment she picks a weapon (ladies, this DOES include large handbags, chairs, and so on) i'm not holding back. Because pickgin up a weapon means your goal is to hurt me.
And i care less about you than i care about myself.
If you can't deal with her in any other ways than hitting her back, then sure go ahead, but how much of a man are you then? There are other options, like pinning her down or holding her hands, or simply yelling and walking away. I think it's sexy when a guy says "I don't hit girls" I come across that a lot and I love it.
Some times some bitches are so crazy, and thinks they are the shit, so they need to be proven otherwise. But you don't hit her otherwise. Girls should never men either, but we are (often) weaker and smaller than you, and you can hit harder.
Every single day there is at least one question here from guys frustrated that society frowns upon men hitting women. Sure, it's wrong for ANYONE to hit anyone, but I wonder why guys on here seem to be so eager to be able to hit girls. Maybe I live a very sheltered life but I don't see girls hitting men all that much in real life (in fact I don't see it at all) yet just by reading all these questions it would seem that men get beaten up all the time and are not allowed to defend themselves. It all seems so strange to me.
Yes, what's up with the ''hitting back women'' questions every day. I've been on other online forums and they don't repeat that question there every single day.
Sometimes it makes me even want to ask them ''Where are you located at that you keep running into ratchets and one-eyed female monsters''.
I know right... it's crazy :D
If a girl slaps you and it's because your being disrespectful or something along those lines then it's kinda like when your mom spanks you because of whatever reason she's just putting you in your place and then being a gentleman you are not supposed to hit a lady it's just something that's been told to all of us for generations and then women take so much shit as it is I think that if is out of self defense and it's not something that you deserved (be honest) then maybe push her away but I don't think slapping or punching her is the right decision
Our culture measures the worth of a man based on his willingness to sacrifice for women. Unfortunately men are still stuck in this gender role, while women reject their own gender roles. It is clear that more and more men are rejecting their gender roles in response to this unfair double standard that so many women take advantage of. So progress is being made. I suspect in a few decades striking a woman after she has attacked a man will be acceptable behavior. Soon men like Ray Rice, could be celebrated instead of demonized.
Just look at the down votes and you will see what I mean. Women have a big problem with equality.
There's no reason for any person to hit another person. Also consider men are biologically build different and most are bigger than a female. There's NO justification under any theory that a man should hit a woman. I phrased my reply towards men because your question was regarding why men shouldn't hit women. Any man who hits and woman and then blames it on her because she 'provoked' him or, 'pushed his buttons' is a COWARD and an ABUSER. ( I also think no female should abuse males either )
Yes, but imagine you're in your own home. Girl is over and gets physical. She needs to leave. I'm not going to vacate my house where she can be left alone with all of my stuff and calling the cops will do literally nothing.
Most times, defending yourself physically isn't the only option. But to act like it's never should be an option is silly
I am currently playing Gaelic Football in PE. My teacher said that the girls and boys had to be put into separate teams-we were doing an abbreviated version of the game where you had to tap the person with the ball and they would pass the ball on. Our teacher thought that the boys would hurt the girls so we all started arguing with her until she agreed to put us in the same team. And guess what? It was the girls who did most of the shoving!!
You should never hit anyone... whether they are a boy or girl. Obviously, if you are in a threatened position then you will have to perform self-defence.
I can't ever hit a woman. I don't know why, but I remember when a girl started punching me, I just shoved her away and ran off. All my friends were like "you should have nailed her between the eyes" and I just couldn't do it.
My problem is if I lose my temper and start throwing punches I lose self control and I don't want to be in a position where I have inflicted a load of pain on someone.
Seriously, I also think it's kinda unfair because then the girls think they can do anything... BUT it's also kind of unfair to girls too because, well, they're feminine and weaker compared to boys so we could easily inflict more damage to them... another thing is the psychological factor,, girls get affected more than boys.. we forgive each other just minutes after a fight.. but girls, LOL
All women want to be treated equally but don't think men should hit women back. It doesn't make sense but they're just being hypocrites. Sure, in self defense it's fine. They started it. But remember women are usually weaker so don't just punch the shit out of her. If anything shake some sense into them.
We absolutely can. Watch this video and it will make you feel better. ( the best one starts at 2:58)
Well the idea is that men are significantly stronger than women on average so girls wouldn't be able to defend themselves. You know how they have weight categories in boxing? Same idea
Which is not to say that you can't defend yourself if attacked. But egging? How old are you.
The crying works in their favor because a lot of men are very responsive to that
I'd just block their attack, and walk away. Restraining=/=attacking
Yes, see it before and I hate it. It's when man-ginas was raised or brain wash and told to protect the weaker sex. Some feel they will get her respect by beating or shooting the guy that aggravated assaults her. guys will go as far as that just protect the opposite sex. But as I recall politically there equal but yet they step down when the steaks get too high. Either way man , girls are trouble and us guys got to deal with them. That's why I never befriend a crazy bitch.
Guys can hit me if they want. A fight is a fight.
Two of my past boyfriends thought they'd pull that shit and hit me, thought I was a small girl who they could push around. They hit me across the face and I fucking laid them out. I'll beat any guy's ass who tries to lay a hand on me.
I think it depends on the girl.
If she crazy and keeps hitting u I think they have a choice to slap them and tell them to leave them alone or they will get there ass wooped.
If they just hit u once there is no need to make it into a huge fight.
If the girl is huge and keeps hitting u. I might need to hit her back.
But if she is pretty small and u could easly kill her I think u shouldn't.
I've seen some huge girls...
I mean if anyone gets PHYSICAL with you till the point where there aren't any alternatives then yah hit them. You should DEFEND yourself unless you'd prefer to be hospitalized/dead! But here is the thing, defending yourself aND hitting someone just because they verbally say things to hurt your pride are completely different. I mean picture a police officer shooting a person 10 times in the head and then claims self-defense... I mean that person had to be something else for that to be right.
Because for the most part, women are physically weaker then men (no offense ladies). If a man hits a woman, it would be difficult for her to retaliate effectively, therefore he would be taking advantage of her.
well, let me turn it the other way. If you purposely poke a giant who WILL defeat you then i'd say that's a stupid move.
You don't pick a fight you can't win.
Not all men who hit women have been 'poked'. Ever read anything about domestic abuse? Majority is unprovoked.
@dartmaul15 ^
@dartmaul15... Lol... I didn't know that you knew my husband who just so happens to stand 6' 7" and weighs around 250lbs...
Of course to me he is just a very gentle GIANT!!! :)
yes i have read a lot about abuse, especially in relationship. And i think you should shut the fuck about that argument , because women ain't the big victim they claim to be! 40% of donmestic abuse in relationships are suffered by men! It's true, look it up!
Furthermore donemstic abuse isn't about who hits the hardest, who can do the most damage and blah blah blah. It's about power, controll, need to be in charge. So knowing my statistics about men being the victim 40% of the time, i claim that the right to hit a woman is legit, simply because he should have the right to defend himself too! Just like you!
So don't come here and play the "donmestic abuse" card on me! Because that shit does not work anymore! It's proven that it's not about "men abusing women", it's also equally about "women abusing men".
Sure, men can be victims too, I never said they weren't. I don't think it's right for men to hit women, or vice versa. It just creates more problems.
But if we must talk about statistics... 40% vs 60%.. since domestic abuse surveys are done over the course of several years and include millions of people (1.3m women assaulted annually, 835k men annually), 20% is a pretty wide margin. And if we're talking abot nonfatal violent crimes (yeah I know same thing)... the ones committed by a partner make up 20% in female cases, and 3% in male cases. Again, wide margin. Therefore, it is much more common for a man to hit a woman. No, I am not saying it is ok for a woman to hit a man. It is equally as wrong. The bottom line is that domestic violence is wrong no matter how you cut it.
And if you keep beating someone who is not allowed to retaliate, you're not taking advantage of him? More women than not find it funny to see a guy kicked so hard in the balls he collapses, or think he deserves it for slapping a girl. Yet there's nothing a girl can do to even get slapped? Then why does the man deserve a punishment? Why can women do WORSE THINGS, yet get a SMALLER or NO punishment, unless men are less worth?
The only reason to ever throw a punch in any situation NO MATTER THE GENDER is if they throw the first one.
This is only regarding fist fighting, my policy changes completely when you are threatened by a weapon.
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cause there not equals yet
because girls are consindered physically weaker perhaps?
but what if the guy is weaker than the girl and gives her a slap?
he won't do a shit on her LOL
i dont hit my baby anymore now she hits me @His_Baby i tried to fight her but i lost
she snu snued the hell outta me LMAO... and now im her little bitch "times are tough"
snu snu from the tv show futurama
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yx6pqP5j_0 @His_Baby this how i felt after getting used and abused by you last night from 8-14 secs on that video
Self defense yes. Her egging you on, heck no. She shouldn't be smacking you either if you goad her on. You aren't children. If the relationship is abusive call the police and leave them.
If the female is all up in his face disrespecting him hitting him and all that shit in my opinion the man should be able to hit back self defense I just don't understand why men get in trouble for it
It's ok to hit a girl back if she hits you. Just try not to fight them. And if they're like 10 times smaller than you don't bother. But it's just a lot of men turn out to be women abuser. You almost rarely find out a girl beat on a man
actually, 40% of the victims of abuse are men. So you are wrong.
I said rarely. And you said 40%. There's another 60%. And women are the main ones they mention. Men are usually physically stronger than men.
20% is not a big difference.
We have a problem today in society in which women think they can hit men and get away with it because men have been taught not to hit women. We're seeing the beginnings of a backlash to that issue.
Most of the answers to this question are something along the lines of "it's never OK for a man to hit a woman". The real takeaway should be "women: don't hit a man or there's a good chance you will lose some teeth and no one will have any sympathy for you because you're an IDIOT".
If you seriously have to ask this question, you disgust me. 'Little man syndrome', much?
Hence your chosen personality trait, Macho Man.
Lmao.
The better question is why do you WANT to hit a girl?
And it's because GENERALLY speaking, guys are stronger and can seriously hurt a girl by hitting her and it's just kinda wrong
He doesn't want to hit a girl, he wants to be equal in value to a girl. I a man slapped you, noone would bat an eye if you kicked him in the balls.
If you kicked a man in the balls, people would shred the man to pieces if he so much as slapped you, although a kick in the balls is in both cases much more hurtful and dangerous than a slap.
I agree that the same punch will have far more severe consequences for a woman than for a man.
But when the consequences are the same, why is it better if a man suffers them?
Why does a man deserve a severe punishment for slightly hurting a woman (which means he used neither his size nor his strength), but a woman doesn't even deserve the SAME punishment, when she obviously takes advantage of HIS weakspot, causing him severe pain and the prospect of injury, unless the man is less worth?
Kicking a guy in the balls is just as wrong. That can seriously hurt and injure him too. But to that we don't say "it's kinda wrong" but "it's kinda funny". Why is that, unless it matters less when a man is seriously hurt or injured?
Its the feminazis. They demand equal rights, then special treatment. I think it should be an open battle field
Notice the feminazis down voted me. Lol
As a man you should never hit a lady under any reason because they are gifts from God and should be treated with dignity and respect.
Guys can hit girls. Society deems females the weaker sex so they aren't 'supposed' to get hit. The consequences aren't fun when a physically stronger person hits back. But humans either react as fight or flight. So if a girl, no anyone hits, they should expect something back.
For me, guys can't hit girls because we are a bit more weaker than you expect.. maybe you already know that but if you haven't experienced being a girl and having so limited things to protect yourself is very annoying. You would be the bad guy if you hit a girl, that's for certain but no one ever told you that you're bad if you tell one or two bad things to her right... just do it in the right moment or if the right moment doesn't come... make it come. :)
Not just guys, violence should not be allowed unless it is a self defence. I would never hit someone or be violent with someone. It is just wrong 😨😱😰
You can hit anyone you like in self defense. If she's egging you on, leave, don't say a word, leave her to rant and rave.
Girls should NOT hit guys. That is just as bad. But men are naturally stronger than women and can do more damage. Self-defence is another story completely though.
"egging us on" wow its people like you that make me lose any hope in humanity bettering itself.
Because its bad to hit people in general and I personally believe in turning the other cheek
Legally, you can only hit anyone out of self defense. Being angry isn't justifiable. Walking away is a better option.
If she's swinging at him, he can and should defend himself. Women shouldn't be hitting people, either.
Its the double standard and sexism of our society. If a person attacked me I would defend myself justly. No matter what.
But being yelled at doesn't require physical defense. This guy is saying that he should be able to hit women who are "egging him on"
Yes, they can those that think they can't, are little mommy babies that live in the world of Never-land.
LOL your point is completely irrelevant. Some women use their gender as a shield. Most people go mental when they see a man hit a woman, but stay quiet when they see two men fighting or a girl hitting a man. It's a massive double standard.
You wouldn't be saying the same thing if you would get hit by a man. Or if a man would hit another man, would you be saying what you just blabbed here? no. HYPOCRITE.
EPIC FAIL.
Never hit a girl. Unless it's a complete stranger and COMPLETELY out of self defense, never hit a girl,
What if it is someone you know and out of self defense
Some girls just kick guys in the balls so hard they collapse just for annoying them, being an asshole, cheating or "deserving" it.
I just don't see why this is any less despicable than a guy punching a girl in the stomach so hard she collapses for the same reasons, unless guys are less worth than girls.
She can do the same or even worse damage there. Being small is your weakness. Our balls are ours. If you take advantage of mine, I won't feel a shred of regret over taking advantage of yours. That is the one exception.
1. Is a womans worth equal to a mans? Yes.
2. Is kicking a guy in the balls so hard he collapses equal to punching a girl in the stomach so hard she collapses? Yes.
3. Does a man deserve to be kicked in the balls for violating a womans value
by punching her in the stomach so hard that she collapses? If the answer is yes, then a woman deserves to be punched in the stomach for kicking a man so hard in the balls he collapses.
Seriously. You can punch me in the face, break my nose, my fingers, spit on me, break my stuff, scream in my ear, key my car, burn my clothes, stop me from fucking LEAVING by blocking my way or holding on to me, and that grants you a thousand times more than I would grant any man before retaliating. Isn't that fucking enough?
But when you kick my balls (really hard) you cross the same line a man crosses when he punches a woman in my book, and I don't care anymore. And even then I'll only punch her in the stomach.
And if you don't understand that, then it's not me having a problem with respecting the value of a woman, but you not respecting even the last boundary to a mans' worth.
What are your thoughts on this?
The strength of guys is greater than girls one blow from them the girl might suffer more bruises. Neither gender shld use violence.
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