Our culture measures the worth of a man based on his willingness to sacrifice for women. Unfortunately men are still stuck in this gender role, while women reject their own gender roles. It is clear that more and more men are rejecting their gender roles in response to this unfair double standard that so many women take advantage of. So progress is being made. I suspect in a few decades striking a woman after she has attacked a man will be acceptable behavior. Soon men like Ray Rice, could be celebrated instead of demonized.
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Just look at the down votes and you will see what I mean. Women have a big problem with equality.
got to agree. The moment she picks a weapon (ladies, this DOES include large handbags, chairs, and so on) i'm not holding back. Because pickgin up a weapon means your goal is to hurt me. And i care less about you than i care about myself.
There's no reason for any person to hit another person. Also consider men are biologically build different and most are bigger than a female. There's NO justification under any theory that a man should hit a woman. I phrased my reply towards men because your question was regarding why men shouldn't hit women. Any man who hits and woman and then blames it on her because she 'provoked' him or, 'pushed his buttons' is a COWARD and an ABUSER. ( I also think no female should abuse males either )
The point is there are more often than not other options than to hit back. If you're cornered and have zero chance of getting away then of course you would defend yourself.
Yes, but imagine you're in your own home. Girl is over and gets physical. She needs to leave. I'm not going to vacate my house where she can be left alone with all of my stuff and calling the cops will do literally nothing.
Most times, defending yourself physically isn't the only option. But to act like it's never should be an option is silly
Then you call the police and state you have a person in your house that refuses to leave. There are very few situations in which a person has zero options, but if you choose the behavior you choose the consequence. That's really all I have to say on this question.
All women want to be treated equally but don't think men should hit women back. It doesn't make sense but they're just being hypocrites. Sure, in self defense it's fine. They started it. But remember women are usually weaker so don't just punch the shit out of her. If anything shake some sense into them.
Well the idea is that men are significantly stronger than women on average so girls wouldn't be able to defend themselves. You know how they have weight categories in boxing? Same idea
Which is not to say that you can't defend yourself if attacked. But egging? How old are you.
The crying works in their favor because a lot of men are very responsive to that
I am currently playing Gaelic Football in PE. My teacher said that the girls and boys had to be put into separate teams-we were doing an abbreviated version of the game where you had to tap the person with the ball and they would pass the ball on. Our teacher thought that the boys would hurt the girls so we all started arguing with her until she agreed to put us in the same team. And guess what? It was the girls who did most of the shoving!! You should never hit anyone... whether they are a boy or girl. Obviously, if you are in a threatened position then you will have to perform self-defence.
Yes, see it before and I hate it. It's when man-ginas was raised or brain wash and told to protect the weaker sex. Some feel they will get her respect by beating or shooting the guy that aggravated assaults her. guys will go as far as that just protect the opposite sex. But as I recall politically there equal but yet they step down when the steaks get too high. Either way man , girls are trouble and us guys got to deal with them. That's why I never befriend a crazy bitch.
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I can't ever hit a woman. I don't know why, but I remember when a girl started punching me, I just shoved her away and ran off. All my friends were like "you should have nailed her between the eyes" and I just couldn't do it.
My problem is if I lose my temper and start throwing punches I lose self control and I don't want to be in a position where I have inflicted a load of pain on someone.
Seriously, I also think it's kinda unfair because then the girls think they can do anything... BUT it's also kind of unfair to girls too because, well, they're feminine and weaker compared to boys so we could easily inflict more damage to them... another thing is the psychological factor,, girls get affected more than boys.. we forgive each other just minutes after a fight.. but girls, LOL
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Because for the most part, women are physically weaker then men (no offense ladies). If a man hits a woman, it would be difficult for her to retaliate effectively, therefore he would be taking advantage of her.
well, let me turn it the other way. If you purposely poke a giant who WILL defeat you then i'd say that's a stupid move. You don't pick a fight you can't win.
yes i have read a lot about abuse, especially in relationship. And i think you should shut the fuck about that argument , because women ain't the big victim they claim to be! 40% of donmestic abuse in relationships are suffered by men! It's true, look it up!
Furthermore donemstic abuse isn't about who hits the hardest, who can do the most damage and blah blah blah. It's about power, controll, need to be in charge. So knowing my statistics about men being the victim 40% of the time, i claim that the right to hit a woman is legit, simply because he should have the right to defend himself too! Just like you!
So don't come here and play the "donmestic abuse" card on me! Because that shit does not work anymore! It's proven that it's not about "men abusing women", it's also equally about "women abusing men".
Sure, men can be victims too, I never said they weren't. I don't think it's right for men to hit women, or vice versa. It just creates more problems.
But if we must talk about statistics... 40% vs 60%.. since domestic abuse surveys are done over the course of several years and include millions of people (1.3m women assaulted annually, 835k men annually), 20% is a pretty wide margin. And if we're talking abot nonfatal violent crimes (yeah I know same thing)... the ones committed by a partner make up 20% in female cases, and 3% in male cases. Again, wide margin. Therefore, it is much more common for a man to hit a woman. No, I am not saying it is ok for a woman to hit a man. It is equally as wrong. The bottom line is that domestic violence is wrong no matter how you cut it.
And if you keep beating someone who is not allowed to retaliate, you're not taking advantage of him? More women than not find it funny to see a guy kicked so hard in the balls he collapses, or think he deserves it for slapping a girl. Yet there's nothing a girl can do to even get slapped? Then why does the man deserve a punishment? Why can women do WORSE THINGS, yet get a SMALLER or NO punishment, unless men are less worth?
Two of my past boyfriends thought they'd pull that shit and hit me, thought I was a small girl who they could push around. They hit me across the face and I fucking laid them out. I'll beat any guy's ass who tries to lay a hand on me.
I think it depends on the girl. If she crazy and keeps hitting u I think they have a choice to slap them and tell them to leave them alone or they will get there ass wooped. If they just hit u once there is no need to make it into a huge fight. If the girl is huge and keeps hitting u. I might need to hit her back. But if she is pretty small and u could easly kill her I think u shouldn't.
I mean if anyone gets PHYSICAL with you till the point where there aren't any alternatives then yah hit them. You should DEFEND yourself unless you'd prefer to be hospitalized/dead! But here is the thing, defending yourself aND hitting someone just because they verbally say things to hurt your pride are completely different. I mean picture a police officer shooting a person 10 times in the head and then claims self-defense... I mean that person had to be something else for that to be right.
If the female is all up in his face disrespecting him hitting him and all that shit in my opinion the man should be able to hit back self defense I just don't understand why men get in trouble for it
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Our culture measures the worth of a man based on his willingness to sacrifice for women. Unfortunately men are still stuck in this gender role, while women reject their own gender roles. It is clear that more and more men are rejecting their gender roles in response to this unfair double standard that so many women take advantage of. So progress is being made. I suspect in a few decades striking a woman after she has attacked a man will be acceptable behavior. Soon men like Ray Rice, could be celebrated instead of demonized.
Just look at the down votes and you will see what I mean. Women have a big problem with equality.
You have to come to terms with how much stronger you are than a woman.
You can usually just restrain her or move her out of your way.
However, if she picks up a weapon, all bets are off.
got to agree. The moment she picks a weapon (ladies, this DOES include large handbags, chairs, and so on) i'm not holding back. Because pickgin up a weapon means your goal is to hurt me.
And i care less about you than i care about myself.
There's no reason for any person to hit another person. Also consider men are biologically build different and most are bigger than a female. There's NO justification under any theory that a man should hit a woman. I phrased my reply towards men because your question was regarding why men shouldn't hit women. Any man who hits and woman and then blames it on her because she 'provoked' him or, 'pushed his buttons' is a COWARD and an ABUSER. ( I also think no female should abuse males either )
As long as you're leaving the opening for self defense then yes I agree that men shouldn't hit a woman.
The point is there are more often than not other options than to hit back. If you're cornered and have zero chance of getting away then of course you would defend yourself.
Yes, but imagine you're in your own home. Girl is over and gets physical. She needs to leave. I'm not going to vacate my house where she can be left alone with all of my stuff and calling the cops will do literally nothing.
Most times, defending yourself physically isn't the only option. But to act like it's never should be an option is silly
Then you call the police and state you have a person in your house that refuses to leave. There are very few situations in which a person has zero options, but if you choose the behavior you choose the consequence. That's really all I have to say on this question.
All women want to be treated equally but don't think men should hit women back. It doesn't make sense but they're just being hypocrites. Sure, in self defense it's fine. They started it. But remember women are usually weaker so don't just punch the shit out of her. If anything shake some sense into them.
We absolutely can. Watch this video and it will make you feel better. ( the best one starts at 2:58)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-Gve6PT838Well the idea is that men are significantly stronger than women on average so girls wouldn't be able to defend themselves. You know how they have weight categories in boxing? Same idea
Which is not to say that you can't defend yourself if attacked. But egging? How old are you.
The crying works in their favor because a lot of men are very responsive to that
I am currently playing Gaelic Football in PE. My teacher said that the girls and boys had to be put into separate teams-we were doing an abbreviated version of the game where you had to tap the person with the ball and they would pass the ball on. Our teacher thought that the boys would hurt the girls so we all started arguing with her until she agreed to put us in the same team. And guess what? It was the girls who did most of the shoving!!
You should never hit anyone... whether they are a boy or girl. Obviously, if you are in a threatened position then you will have to perform self-defence.
Yes, see it before and I hate it. It's when man-ginas was raised or brain wash and told to protect the weaker sex. Some feel they will get her respect by beating or shooting the guy that aggravated assaults her. guys will go as far as that just protect the opposite sex. But as I recall politically there equal but yet they step down when the steaks get too high. Either way man , girls are trouble and us guys got to deal with them. That's why I never befriend a crazy bitch.
I can't ever hit a woman. I don't know why, but I remember when a girl started punching me, I just shoved her away and ran off. All my friends were like "you should have nailed her between the eyes" and I just couldn't do it.
My problem is if I lose my temper and start throwing punches I lose self control and I don't want to be in a position where I have inflicted a load of pain on someone.
Seriously, I also think it's kinda unfair because then the girls think they can do anything... BUT it's also kind of unfair to girls too because, well, they're feminine and weaker compared to boys so we could easily inflict more damage to them... another thing is the psychological factor,, girls get affected more than boys.. we forgive each other just minutes after a fight.. but girls, LOL
Because for the most part, women are physically weaker then men (no offense ladies). If a man hits a woman, it would be difficult for her to retaliate effectively, therefore he would be taking advantage of her.
well, let me turn it the other way. If you purposely poke a giant who WILL defeat you then i'd say that's a stupid move.
You don't pick a fight you can't win.
Not all men who hit women have been 'poked'. Ever read anything about domestic abuse? Majority is unprovoked.
@dartmaul15 ^
@dartmaul15... Lol... I didn't know that you knew my husband who just so happens to stand 6' 7" and weighs around 250lbs...
Of course to me he is just a very gentle GIANT!!! :)
yes i have read a lot about abuse, especially in relationship. And i think you should shut the fuck about that argument , because women ain't the big victim they claim to be! 40% of donmestic abuse in relationships are suffered by men! It's true, look it up!
Furthermore donemstic abuse isn't about who hits the hardest, who can do the most damage and blah blah blah. It's about power, controll, need to be in charge. So knowing my statistics about men being the victim 40% of the time, i claim that the right to hit a woman is legit, simply because he should have the right to defend himself too! Just like you!
So don't come here and play the "donmestic abuse" card on me! Because that shit does not work anymore! It's proven that it's not about "men abusing women", it's also equally about "women abusing men".
Sure, men can be victims too, I never said they weren't. I don't think it's right for men to hit women, or vice versa. It just creates more problems.
But if we must talk about statistics... 40% vs 60%.. since domestic abuse surveys are done over the course of several years and include millions of people (1.3m women assaulted annually, 835k men annually), 20% is a pretty wide margin. And if we're talking abot nonfatal violent crimes (yeah I know same thing)... the ones committed by a partner make up 20% in female cases, and 3% in male cases. Again, wide margin. Therefore, it is much more common for a man to hit a woman. No, I am not saying it is ok for a woman to hit a man. It is equally as wrong. The bottom line is that domestic violence is wrong no matter how you cut it.
And if you keep beating someone who is not allowed to retaliate, you're not taking advantage of him? More women than not find it funny to see a guy kicked so hard in the balls he collapses, or think he deserves it for slapping a girl. Yet there's nothing a girl can do to even get slapped? Then why does the man deserve a punishment? Why can women do WORSE THINGS, yet get a SMALLER or NO punishment, unless men are less worth?
Guys can hit me if they want. A fight is a fight.
Two of my past boyfriends thought they'd pull that shit and hit me, thought I was a small girl who they could push around. They hit me across the face and I fucking laid them out. I'll beat any guy's ass who tries to lay a hand on me.
I think it depends on the girl.
If she crazy and keeps hitting u I think they have a choice to slap them and tell them to leave them alone or they will get there ass wooped.
If they just hit u once there is no need to make it into a huge fight.
If the girl is huge and keeps hitting u. I might need to hit her back.
But if she is pretty small and u could easly kill her I think u shouldn't.
Why does a guy need self defence from girl lol :)
I've seen some huge girls...
I mean if anyone gets PHYSICAL with you till the point where there aren't any alternatives then yah hit them. You should DEFEND yourself unless you'd prefer to be hospitalized/dead! But here is the thing, defending yourself aND hitting someone just because they verbally say things to hurt your pride are completely different. I mean picture a police officer shooting a person 10 times in the head and then claims self-defense... I mean that person had to be something else for that to be right.
I'd just block their attack, and walk away. Restraining=/=attacking
The only reason to ever throw a punch in any situation NO MATTER THE GENDER is if they throw the first one.
This is only regarding fist fighting, my policy changes completely when you are threatened by a weapon.
Or if you're about to fight 3 people or more. You should always strike first or run in that scenario
You run unless your sure that confrontation is inevitable.
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i dont hit my baby anymore now she hits me @His_Baby i tried to fight her but i lost
she snu snued the hell outta me LMAO... and now im her little bitch "times are tough"
snu snu from the tv show futurama
A little snu snu doesn't hurt anybody. Besides you step outta line. Snuing eventually takes effect! It's all love tho lol
i think my dick is broke though lol LMAO @His_Baby
You play with it too much $2 hoe lol
hey at least im not giving it up for free like the rest of the hoes @His_Baby
LOL well a little coco butter won't hurt
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yx6pqP5j_0 @His_Baby this how i felt after getting used and abused by you last night from 8-14 secs on that video
Liberated?
@His_Baby see how that nigga was laying there like "bruh that was some good ass snu snu" but more or less wrecked ,,, he was done
Lool I saw his spandex also
because girls are consindered physically weaker perhaps?
but what if the guy is weaker than the girl and gives her a slap?
he won't do a shit on her LOL
If the female is all up in his face disrespecting him hitting him and all that shit in my opinion the man should be able to hit back self defense I just don't understand why men get in trouble for it