Do guys lose feelings easily or fast?

[Anonymous]

If you had a crush on a girl, but nothing really happened between you two, would you still have feels months and months later? by the way she's used to like you too.

[NateInAk]

Well I've held a steady crush on a girl for like three years, with the only encouragement being some trading of jokes and Facebook messaging.
A lot of girls tell me I'm weird though :)

[smokahontas]

I find that sweet and those girls don't know what they are talking about.

[NateInAk]

Ha thanks

[NateInAk]

Actually I want to clarify that I'm not exactly secretly crushing on her, I talked to her about it, but we're just friends. Still have a crush on her though.

[SomeoneImportant]

If you mean that feeling of like/lust, then yes it fades pretty fast.

[aaalana]

It really depends on the guy I had a guy who liked me for 4ish years and there were some who lost feelings pretty quickly

[DaCrownlessKing]

Nope, he'll lose interest unless you make a move or he does.

[ThatWeirdo]

So what can you do about it without being suspicious or scaring him off if you don't normally get to talk to each other and have only talked to each other briefly for a few times in about 2 months?

[DaCrownlessKing]

Try to get him to hangout more

[AloneLove]

Yeah ı lose my emotions so easily