Why does he call me when he is high?

[Anonymous]

So okay the problem is this guy that i ve been friends with since awhile we went to same school i, my then-bf and he had common things so we were hanging out a lot together. But then u bu with my bf cuz he moved to another state for school and we couldnt make distance. But this guy is also in another state. Thou after i bu, both of started talking a lot and i visited him during summer he always tells me he likes me and i am interesting and he always jokes about sex and how he is attracted to me but he is shy as well so we didn't do anything except cuddling when i visited him. And i told him i like him too and he said he wants me to move close someday. After he said he visits me and Now he visits me in Christmas and he still talks to me and compliments me but i stopped talking cuz i had no time due to school and work and we rarely texted or skyped. His bday was in Tuesday and i wrote happy birthday as a text he didn't answer until yesterday morning around 4 5 am. Then he texted me thanks how are you etc and again he told me he likes me a lot but he is drunk he is coming from his bday party with his friends and he wanted to talk to me. This is not the first time whenever he is drunk he talks to me a lot but whenever he is not drunk he doesn't reply to me for so long and he always says he is busy with work (he just graduated).. But sometimes even if he is not drunk he just sends me random photos.. Yesterday when i wrote dont text me when you are drunk he answered he likes to talk to me and now he has finally time for me and he will text and he misses to talk to me etc.. I am so confused and i dont get what he is doing. He was just not texting because i stoppped initiating since i was busy? Why is he texting /calling all the time hebis drunk (as i said not the first time maybe third or fourth)? So what is his problem? Does he like me and want a relationship or just sex or why is he always telling me to move close whenever he texts (normally or drunk doesn't matter).

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Ps: i need opniiions from guys please. The people with penises please

[leavingyouconfused]

He probably does actually quite like you if he is phoning you or texting you whilst drunk. He's either not texted you whilst sober because he's busy too, or he is shy.
So start talking to him again and ask why he hadn't been speaking as much whilst sober and see his side and also if you really want ask if he does just want a friend with benefit thing or something more.

[Asker]

We cannot he is in another state. Only if i find job and move that he really want me.

[leavingyouconfused]

yes but like talking to him over text, Facebook, email or Skype :) just any way you can communicate.

[Asker]

I was trying last weekend after a month of no talk but he was not answering and told me he is busy. But i dont believe in him cuz sonetimes i see him playing online game for an hour before he sleeps. Instead he can call me or text me. That s y he s confuzzling me

[leavingyouconfused]

Hmm then give him one last chance and say like you know he does have time for you guys to talk, and if he did really like you then he should at least show you by making conversation. Otherwise say you think it's best if you two are just friends rather than date/have sex. Then you might really find out what he thinks about you if he is willing to put his games down just for some time to talk to you :)

[poppunk]

Because he listens to the arctic monkeys.
jk jk why not just straight up ask him

[leavingyouconfused]

LOL i read the question and all I had was artic monkeys in my head...

[Asker]

Cuz he didn't answer. And yeah i hope he dont see me having sex with strangers when he is drunk