Long Distance Relationship/Hookup Question: What do you think he's thinking? I don't understand guys' behavior and am so confused :(?

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So it's more of a long distance hook up than a relationship. We met once hooked up and he asked if i wanted to do it again and make this a thing (he's said that he would drive back to see me and it's a 5hr drive). He also said this situation was different compared to his last long distance hookup and that he didn't wanna know what I did when he wasn't here and I said same.
We texted/snapchatted everyday for a/b 3 weeks before we met up again. I was in his city w/ my parents who would only let us meet if they met him, and he agreed (although i told him we could just meet up another time and it wasn't a big deal). He hit it off with them and so when we went to hangout. I thanked him for be really nice a/b everything and how i thought it was gonna scare him off by meeting my parents for a few min especially since it's really early and we're just hooking up right? I just wanted him to make sure that he knew that I knew what we were doing and that i wasn't trying to trick him into dating me or something ( i like him but it's still early) and he kind of shrugged and said that he was surprised they let him take me out (we just went back to his place and hooked up/talked) but why did he shrug instead of just saying yes?
We texted/snapchatted for almost a week afterwards but i always initiate everything and he responds and we talk for awhile and stuff but he never really starts it. My friends think i shouldn't do anything for a few days just to see what happens and then if he doesn't do anything then i'll know where his head is at. Any thoughts? I'm clueless when it comes to these things (we're both 20 and both have never been in relationships before).
Long Distance Relationship/Hookup Question: What do you think he's thinking? I don't understand guys' behavior and am so confused :(?
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