How long is too long to not hear from a guy?!?

[Anonymous]

So the guy I'm totally into last text me on sunday. I text back and its now wends night and still no text again (we've been on 3 dates over the last month..its sort of long distance) but...Is it alright that he's not into texting during the week cause he says he's super busy with work even tho the first few weeks we were dating he text a lot more like every other day...has he just lost interest?

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+1 y

Should I just send him a text or does that seem needy if he hasn't replied to me in 3 days.. :S

[sage17]

someone just gave me great insight... a really good guy friend of mine. If a guy is into you, there is no way he's let that much time go by without texting/contacting you. Tough thing to hear, but true. Make him work for you to get you - if you want him to talk to you more, tell him that's what you require and if he steps up, then he's a good catch. Otherwise, I'd write him off until he proves otherwise.

[Asker]

Thanks! I needed to hear that...I don't think anyone is "too busy" to text someone they're into

[Littletad]

If you are willing to date someone that far away, you really shouldn't expect much.

[rawr123]

try calling him. texts are temperamental and its simple for a text to get lost.

[Asker]

True. but if he's not texting me might he not be interested so me calling will just come accross as needy..