Do guys kiss you goodbye if your "just a friend"?

[Anonymous]

Our realationship is? Friends, slept together a few times, talk everyday, we live a distance apart and stay at each other's when we can. We were teenage sweethearts 20+ years ago. I've told him I have feelings for him, he has told me he has always loved me. I know we have many obsicles in front of us. I have backed off whenever we see each other enjoy our time together, he gives me a good hug goodbye and kisses me... Is he being polite , why hasn't he tried anything when we are together? Friend zoned ?

[islands7]

Just a friend = kisses on cheek, forehead, not on lips
but if slept together prior = kiss on lips but
if not sleeping together currently, kiss on lips would NOT be French or long lasting passionate

In my book, you are in a nether-land between friends and lovers... no wonder that you wonder

If there's no other gal distractions, what's the hurtle that keeps you two from drawing closer, then marriage?

[Asker]

If an ex wife is a distraction, who has managed to track me down asking what's going on, she is definitely an ex just being a pain. I am a a widow so can deal with her hands down dealt with more than her! We have children ( not. Together). life's too short is my belief maybe he is scared by all of this,

[islands7]

Fear of an ex's hooks CAN make a guy a bit more passionate with a gal... who is perceived as being able to save him from her; but the ex is a reminder how bad close quarters can get if married, so marches very slowly to the alter with you?

[RowerBoy]

guys like to be as touchy and close to girls as they can if they like them, also the sex part, guys just love it and would do it at any opportunity really. It sounds like he likes you but is just too scared to ask you out. If you really want to go out with him, ask him out. there's nothing wrong with that, actually guys love that, makes them feel loved and wanted. just go for it! :)

[girllovesquestions]

Some of my friends are guys at school, and we kiss each other good morning or good bye. There's nothing wrong with a innocent peck

[Asker]

Totally agree this is not an innocent peck

[girllovesquestions]

Oh, lol, I only read the question

[ashleep]

Depends if it's the kind of kiss that makes you feel something sexual. Do you?

[Asker]

On the lips and Ii feel sexual without a kiss when around him. We are both mature adults I sometimes wonder if Soulmates are out there is he mine.

[Anonymous]

i ALWAYS kiss my guy and girl friends on their cheeks all the time

[Asker]

So do I, but this is on the lips , and the hugs are the ones that are full embrace feeling safe and not wanting to let go

[Opinion Owner]

no if they are just friends no lips but hugs okay

[hmyn5]

because he want you wish to love you the same
he want you to say him please kiss me hug me and sleep with me