Hookup society?

[KPL101]

It is really hard to find guys now days that are looking for an honest relationship. It seems in this hookup society that all guys are looking for in a girl is to get in her pants. do you believe this to be true for many guys in today's society? Or is this an untrue generalization in your opinion made about guys?

[Perf4her]

I'm a guy and I an say it's definitely true and to be honest I hate people like that... I don't think they realize that in the end no girl in her right mind is ganna want the guy with 35 kills under his belt... And if she's ok with that then will most likely have some serious trust issues due to his past "lifestyle"... Personally I'm not like that... I've never been in a relationship that lasted less then about 2 years because I don't just go for the first girl I see... However there are a lot of guys like myself that want a honest, meaningful relationship out there but now a days it's like a needle in the haystack and when girls do find them they usually don't even notice and just move along... Go to the next "player" then wonder why they keep getting hurt... (Personal opinion and experience) not judging anyone

[KPL101]

Thnx I guess just like there are girls out there that feel this way there are guys as well. This May be becoming popular among our generation yet there are still a lot of exceptions to this growing trend.

[Perf4her]

Lol yes

[OwnerofanAlpaca]

Most attractive men are players. I have been around a lot of guys and know this. Everybody wants to have fun though at this age it seems.

I'm a virgin though and am actually wanting a serious relationship. Sex is kinda pointless to me if you don't care about the person , you know? I would like to find a girl that's on the same page as me, has shared interest and likes to cuddle and watch cheesy movies instead of a lame meet and fuck..

[KPL101]

Thnx and yea good luck!

[evenlift]

Saying that guys don't want relationships is like saying that girls don't want sex. It's not true. But, it can be difficult for a girl to get a relationship, just as it can be difficult for a guy to get sex.

[blondfrog]

Lot of American men are like that and people who have adapted to American culture, but not all American men are like that. I don't wanna stand and bang sexingly just to get in a girl's pants I wanna get in her pants and stay in her pants.

[JackKerouac77]

Welcome to modern technological society. Unplug before it gets worse.

[KPL101]

Lol unplug I like that thnx 🔌

[Cowboy6666]

In US, UK n some other countries... Hook ups n break ups are common nowadays.. Its now a part of your culture... Just endure it... If you live in that society.. Thank God our culture doesn't permits us...

[KPL101]

Srry to ask but what do u mean by your culture doesn't permit that? Is it frowned upon?

[Cowboy6666]

You may observe that by yourself that its not a good culture, having many drawbacks, 15/16 years old girls get pregnant.. No true lover... Just greed of sex... Involved in sex affairs till 55/ 60 in the end what they get illegitimate children, no husband n partner in old ages. . its worst..

[amar654]

There are a few guys like that, but mostly everyone wants a real relationship.