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Why are white guys afraid to approach black girls?

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm a black guy but I'm in a white fraternity and I'll tell you this. White guys like you. They really do. But social stigmas there and stopping a lot of them. Date an Asian girl oh your dating someone exotic. Date a Hispanic girl oh your with some hot blooded Latina. Date a black girl oh you're trying to be black or you've got jungle fever or blah blah blah. It's just residuals from the ignorant culture preceding us. Nothing we can do but wait for people to wipe the mud off their eyes. If white guys aren't talking to you don't ever take it personally. Guys get scared too.

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    • girlandhermusic
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      It's true. I've met white guys who liked me a lot but were "scared" to get made fun of. But if they really love each other then the guy won't care.

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    • AnrianDayin
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      as a white guy I would say that this is pretty much true. I have definitely known a few extremely attractive black girls that I would have no problem dating. If a guy wants to date you bad enough none of that will matter.

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  • oldanddecrepid
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    I went out with a black girl... she was so sweet and quite attractive... all the right stuff in all the right places. I think its the stigma from past generations which I hope will someday just fizzle-out. I would go out with any race... its the person that makes them who they are!

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  • Sara413
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    If you think a white guy likes you and isn't approaching you because you are black it is possible that he is afraid of being accused of it just being fetish crush.. Where I live we have a huge Asian population and the Asian girls get really sick of being a fetish to many of the white guys they date, so they eventually stop dating white guys and write them off as fetish hunters, so perhaps a guy's been spurned before because of something like that, and doesn't want to face an accusation like that again

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  • Anonymous
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    "Guys in general are nervous about approaching beautiful girls. They don't know what to say, you throw in the fact that she's exotic looking and might not share the same culture as you. That's intimidating. How could someone like her, like me?" That's what my dad said to me about when he approached my mom. My dad is white and my mom is black.

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  • TheGuyFromMiddleEast
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    ı don't know, racism? Maybe they are afraid because they think thier friends will make fun of them if they do. I remember i was afraid to approach a girl because i was worried about my friends' reaction, after some time i asked her out anyway. I got rejected -_-

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  • PeterPan11
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    do you mean like having a relationship or a friendship? because either way i think people are raised thinking that the two races should be separate. which to that i think is dumb.. we are trying for equality

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    • Keeks_jamaicana
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      A relationship, I mean what does color or race have to do with anything?

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    • PeterPan11
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      it shouldn't but it does. i can't explain why?

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  • RationalMale
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    Simple.

    White guys don't approach black girls because they don't want to date them. When we're interested in a girl and want to date her, we will do pretty much whatever we think will make that happen.

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  • Anonymous
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    Typically under the impression that black women don't want to speak with us at all, so we don't bother trying. That and her family/friends often have a problem with it when you do try and they make life unpleasant, so that also makes it not worth it.

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    • Keeks_jamaicana
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      Well that's understanding

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  • LukasTheLovely
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    I'm never afraid to approach anyone but I'm just not into Black girls. I find most unattractive to my taste

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  • Creole_Flavor
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    If you are new please use the search feature. Thanks

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    • Prof_Don
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      The search feature is useful, but if a question about the same topic is 3 months old... the user pool here is not the same NOW as it was 3 months ago.

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    • Creole_Flavor
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      This is a common question I see it often.

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  • PiuBelloAmante
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    i have gotten shut down by a lot of black girls...
    i am taking a break for a while...

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  • JCT666
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    From my observation, the black girls in my school aren't very open to dating white guys.

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  • Anonymous
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    We anticipate her family would not be open to that.

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    • Keeks_jamaicana
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      Well my family doesn't really care, race shouldn't matter

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  • Anonymous
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    Maybe they are just afraid of her brother, or father.

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  • blondfrog
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    Cause they are afraid a black man might beat them up.

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  • SaltandVinegar
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    Black chicks dont really seem interested in white guys 99% of the time.

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  • Anonymous
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    because personaly i am not into black girls

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  • meatballs21
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    We are? Since when?

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