Will guys if they are a confirmed bachelor once they fall in love will they take the relationship more slowly because they are afraid?

[Anonymous]

If a guy is used to hooking up with Radom with women and then settles down with one women.. Is the guy more likely to take things slowly because he is afraid? I have been seeing this guy for 8 months kings were great all of a sudden he stops having sex with me.. He is very affectionate generous and spends every day with me we talk all the time... I of course ask him he says he wants to make sure this is what I want since everything between happened so quickly... Is he just afraid because he is no used to being in a monogamous relationship?

[msinvisible1]

In my experience it was good for a while until he felt he was missing out on his freedom and what he was use to. At this age a man is usually set in his ways. Not saying he can't commit but its likely he likes you but if you were having sex and it stopped he's getting it else were. He likes what you have but he likes what his life was before. He wants you in his life but he's nit ready to give up the freedom of doing what he wants without answering to anyone. Sex likely stopped because he knows how your feelings for him had grown and he's not ready for it. So he's cooling you off without trying to hurt you but he's getting it elsewhere.

[Asker]

Well what should I do? He is extremely sweet and thoughtful.. I confronted him once and he said he wanted me to be surf this is what I wanted since in newly divorced... He said how could I have sex with anyone else we are together all the time and I gave you a key to come over whenever you want... plus he pays for everything...

[msinvisible1]

Go with thw flow just watch actions not words n a man can cheat even when he's married n living with a woman. Having a key means nothing.