Why is my ex-boyfriend acting so hot and cold with me?

[Anonymous]

Ok so me and my exbf have been broken up for 3months now and weve had on and off contact many times. we had a big agruement two weeks ago and we finally saw eachother again yesterday he was totally acting like nothing happened when we hung out yesterday. he got in my car then asked me wheres my kiss i was like ummm. thats strange he always did that when we were dating he was acting all care for me and stuff and talking to me a lot. and he couldnt stop looking at me when i was driving also. im like he's acting strange. he says that he might wanna hang with me told. ok so td comes and i ask him he's a complete different person now sayin no i asked why he sayed i didn't need to know and if i kept asking questions he will block me and i was like fine block me then he did.

[edeseps]

He seems to me that he is unsure of what he wants. I would just keep your distance from him because I dated someone who literally acted the same way and it would just piss me off

[Asker]

Oh ok makes sense. with this guy we have sparks like serious sparks together and he knows that too. i hate how he can ask all the questions and i can't. u know. i ask him why we can't hangout and thats a problem from him. like i dont get that. he looked so happy when he say me a one point he couldnt speak lol. he just kept staring at me

[edeseps]

He may still have feelings but I just don't want you to get hurt. Its a difficult situation but I did this to one of my ex's and I really only cared about myself. I would get mad when he asked to hangout with me but if I didn't have plans then I would ask him. Take it from someone who did this to someone, don't stick around!

[Asker]

Im not hurt rn that he did this. he's not hurting. me. Cuz i know that he knows whats he's doing wrong do u know how many times we got back in contact over the three months like over ten times lol. i could see a future with this guy. thanks for caring :) rn he has me blocked so im ok for now he's gonna contact me again lol. he always does.

[Anonymous]

It was extremely hard to understand your post towards the end.

[Asker]

Sorry about that lol

[thealphamaleishere]

Why is it that you care?

[Asker]

I probably still have feelings for him

[thealphamaleishere]

Yeah you really need to work on that