He lead me on for a year and now wants to keep being best friends... Is that even possible?

[KuroPaws]

[igk21]

No. It's not. He doesn't want to be a real friend to you. He's hoping you can be his personal booty call BECAUSE he has probably figured out you have feelings for him. Don't talk to him anymore. Delete him from social media or just ignore him.

[Keenisha]

Are you sure he lead you on or were you being delusional.

I wouldn't be best friends I'd keep things at a distance

[KuroPaws]

He kept saying we had a connection, bitting at me, hugging me way too much. Telling me he'd lose it if I ever left. I don't think I was delusional about anything besides it having a chance to work out.

I put space between us and he came back four days later saying everything reminded him of me. So... I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it. If he disrespected you by leading you on for that long, he's not going to respect you as a friend either.

[NervousToTheMax]

How exactly did he lead you on for a year? I would break it off as soon as I realized it. No friend should willingly lead you on knowing you have feelings for them.

[KuroPaws]

I told him how i felt when I was quitting the job we both worked at. Kinda as an on the way out the door kind of thing because he had/has a girlfriend so I wouldn't have any regrets. He returned my feelings but never left the girlfriend (mind you nothing sexual happened). In January he said he loved me, flashforward to now and he says he was lying the last three months to protect my feelings >.>

[NervousToTheMax]

He played you. The best advice I could possibly give you is to break it off with you. No real friend would do that to you.

[tellmefantasies]

Yeah.
If he thought he was being nice to you, he was just being cruel and a jerk who can't be honest.

Who does that to a friend? He doesn't respect you or your feelings. If he thought he can get a dig at you, that's just mean. Better to distance yourself.

[matheus_mb]

Possible? Yes, it is possible, almost everything is possible. However, you don't need to accept it or even be passive about it.

[Ahhhh_Mane]

Girl, get some self esteem a do dignity together and get rid of this chipmunk dick. Didn't you just ask the same question?

[KuroPaws]

Does dignity involving tearing this guy down or do I just have to walk away? Because I spent a damn year on this.

[RationalLioness]

It is if you allow it. I wouldn't.