Immature 28 year old?

[Anonymous]

I dated a guy who is 28 years old, and I'm 24. I thought older men are more mature and experience.. But this guy I dated is completely opposite. He thinks he's so hot that he can get any women he wants or laid all the time. He flirts with women on dating apps to boost his ego to see if he can "get some" of course we broke up. But he started crying like crazy saying he doesn't know what he wants but he can't lose me or let me go. I had to tell him that sleeping around with countless girls is not an accomplishment. Having goals in life ad stable job with a loyal girl is. I was just wondering are there guys who are 28-30 years old who still acts immature like a boy? and did any girl dated one like this?

[liupliu]

Unfortunately yes, and he is 33. He lies about his age to flirt with girls online. He uses pictures from when he was kind of fit and younger. He complains about the smallest things and tries to negotiate his way out of things. He is lazy and all he does these days is work, smoke weed and watch youtube and netflix all day. We are no longer together but he was totally a different person when we first started dating.

[Asker]

I can relate. I hope you found better <3

[SunDevil11]

You deserve to hope find a better guy than that :)

[zombiebabe]

he is so immature!!! personally i wouldn't get back with him if i was in your shoes

[Asker]

I know he hurt me so much with his immaturity :( Thank you <3

[zombiebabe]

you're welcomed

[silverfeline]

Well I don't know if it counts but I've met 24 year old guys that act this way

[Scrambled]

Well, I'm with someone now and if we break up, I have a plan to sleep around with as many women as possible and play the game. My personal journey. It's just that no girl went for me when I was young and I didn't do any of that stuff. So I am just a very late bloomer. Doesn't make me immature. I just love sex with different people and am trying to play on the things I want:)

[Asker]

When you do that do you care for those women? or have you ever cared a lot for just one girl you have dated? Do you think you can ever settle down for one girl?

[Scrambled]

Um... I care for everyone. I care about the girls and always tell them I don't want anything serious. I could settle down one day but I reckon when I'm 40 or so. 30 is the last of my youth which I missed out on when I was 20. I've never had the privilege of being with a girl I truly love so I don't know what that's like.

[SunDevil11]

There are people of all ages and genders who are more or less mature than their age group.

[Asker]

very true

[GOOSEBOY78]

not all guys are like this. you met a man-child. he doesn't know what he wants until he wants it. guys like that will never grow up until he knocks one of them up

[Asker]

This is true!

[abundantlyrich]

Its common at that age. They tend to be smarter in their late 30's to mid 45's. They take longer to develop emotionally than women in general.

[I_am_repulsive]

For the most part, they usually are, but some people just can't or won't grow up and be mature about it.

[Anonymous]

It's more usual than you think. Sometimes people refuse to grow up and they behave like that (both. men and women). Even people who are 40yo could behave like that.

[Asker]

Yeah true I guess I never experienced this before

[aegis_penguin]

Some adults never grow up.