My boyfriend is obsessed with his friends?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is absolutely obsessed with his group of friends. He hangs out with them just about everyday and they are a group of partyers. I'm sick of going out every other night and being expected to want to party every weekend. I don't mind going out with them BUT they aren't MY friends. He expects me to get along with every one of his friends and to put it frankly... I don't. And I know he'd pick his friends over me. He has a group from college he texts every single day even after they are graduated. Is my relationship just doomed. I'm so sick of his friends!! I'm sick of being around them constantly and I'm sick of sharing so much of my time with him, with them. And side note he will rarely ever come hang out with my friends. And he has a huge mix of guy and girl friends.

[xbutterflykissesx]

That's suspicious to me seriously. If you don't want to party all the time tell him. Tell him how you feel and if he cares he should listen and not walk all over you but from what you said. He may Depending on your answer you're better off finding someone else

[HyperOrphic]

Honestly it sounds like he's stuck in a phase. You need to either talk to him about it or leave. It doesn't sound hopeful to me though to be honest.

[Prettygurl12]

This should be a fairly big signal that you two should not be dating. You need to be able to be happy with their lifestyle and you're clearly not.

[sid312]

He has a drinking prob. And immature. Hangin with drinking buddies or my cute girl? He chooses them cause they drink everyday. He needs to grow up

[Asker]

He definitely does. He drinks every day and parties every weekend. Some of his friends have girlfriends who are okay with it, but I'm just not.

[sid312]

Maybe he might get fired by you! And tell him why

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's over before it even started. Leave him he's gay.