So I've been hanging with this guy (24) for maybe two months now. We met through mutual friends maybe two years ago before we finally exchanged numbers. Our friends have indicated to me that he's super interested in me (we've flirted with each other at parties and he does vocalize his attraction towards me while drunk ( but he's shy, awkward and doesn't have much experience with girls.
But we've been seeing each other at least once a week for two months. When we go out, he pays and I always end up staying over at his place / sleeping in his bed but he has yet to make a move on me. We always end up talking in bed well into the afternoon (in some cases 11am to 8pm) and he does get touchy with me, intiates tickling fights, etc. I decided to be patient but after a while I was getting concerned and also a little confused that maybe he just wanted to be friends with me.
So when I went over to hang out this week I decided I'd at least commicate my confusion. While we chatted in bed in the morning we played this game where we would draw on each others back and guess the picture. He wasn't wearing a shirt and mentioned that it was a little awkward with my top still on so I took it off so I was completely topless on my stomach. We played for a while until we ran out of things to draw and I ended up just covering my boobs with my hands instead of putting my shirt back on. I finally asked if he was going to make a move on me, he said yes and teased me by asking if I was impatient. I admitted that I wasn't completely impatient but I was wondering if he just wanted to be friends instead to which he responded by shaking his head. He asked me what I wanted and I flipped the question back on him. I asked if he wanted me to remove my hands and he said yes, so I did. I thought he'd make a move but no, just talked and he caressed my top half.
I'm super flabbergasted. No kiss, no making out... Is he gay or does he just
But we've been seeing each other at least once a week for two months. When we go out, he pays and I always end up staying over at his place / sleeping in his bed but he has yet to make a move on me. We always end up talking in bed well into the afternoon (in some cases 11am to 8pm) and he does get touchy with me, intiates tickling fights, etc. I decided to be patient but after a while I was getting concerned and also a little confused that maybe he just wanted to be friends with me.
So when I went over to hang out this week I decided I'd at least commicate my confusion. While we chatted in bed in the morning we played this game where we would draw on each others back and guess the picture. He wasn't wearing a shirt and mentioned that it was a little awkward with my top still on so I took it off so I was completely topless on my stomach. We played for a while until we ran out of things to draw and I ended up just covering my boobs with my hands instead of putting my shirt back on. I finally asked if he was going to make a move on me, he said yes and teased me by asking if I was impatient. I admitted that I wasn't completely impatient but I was wondering if he just wanted to be friends instead to which he responded by shaking his head. He asked me what I wanted and I flipped the question back on him. I asked if he wanted me to remove my hands and he said yes, so I did. I thought he'd make a move but no, just talked and he caressed my top half.
I'm super flabbergasted. No kiss, no making out... Is he gay or does he just
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