I'm sick of being messed around, am I doing something wrong?

[strawberriesx]

Each boy I like or date ends up with me being broken hearted. I keep trying and ex's say they regret breaking up with me but that's not the point. I'm so sick of just being the one who always loses. I'm not the type to just date around, I actually enjoy relationships. I currently like this boy who has a girlfriend (yes I know, it's wrong) and he tells me he likes me but I don't know if he's being genuine or just doing it for the thrill of having two girls. What do I do? Am I doing something wrong? Please help me!

[asdg12]

Always losing hurts doesn't it. Just keep your head up high. You look pretty from what I tell with your profile pic. And I think maybe it's just bad luck that your ending up with the broken heart. I think it might be because either your getting in way to quick and that's what leaves you upset and hurt when it doesn't work out and they don't seem to live up to your expectation. You get down on yourself to easily so you easily get upset when your relationships don't work out and that has hurt your feelings towards relationships. I say keep at it and one day the right guy will walk through the door and not let go of what he knows is right and what he truly loves and then you will have found your one, your love. Until the don't give up just don't try so hard, love with come and find you with a tiny bit of searching from yourself, not a full on expedition.

[ArtistBboy]

Read - link - ENTIRELY

Here's some tips:

- Don't nag / complain / gripe / bitch (Dont do / say / think ANYTHING negative)

- Know your value (Who you are / Where you come from / Where your going)

- Don't be a bitch (Cold / Indecisive / On a pedistle / etc)

- Look at new venues for potential dates (Same place = Same type of guys generally)

- Have depth (Work / School / Hobbies / Social Life / Etc)

- BE OUTGOING (Take risks and do things you second guess! VERY important!)

- Be open minded (Don't automatically block things out because you don't like it)

- Be respectful to you and your body (Don't sleep with someone on the first date)

etc

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[Anonymous]

I have the same problem. I learned this lesson, he is most likely just enjoying having multiple girls. Even if it's not that, can you trust him not to do the same to you? these are the things you need to consider. If they do it once they will again, its like cheating.

[PurplePeaches]

I had the same problem as you.

What you have to do is not settle for less. Don't try to get involved with a guy that you don't believe is at your level. When you find someone at your level, everything will work out.

[authentic]

"Am I doing something wrong?"

>>> I currently like this boy who has a girlfriend (yes I know, it's wrong)

Why do you still do something that you know is wrong? In this case, it is selfishly, deceitfully building your happiness on the pain of another human being, namely his girlfriend, behind her back. This reflects some deep underlying issues within you. You need to find out what they are (some call this facing your own inner demons), and erase them before you can get into healthy relationships.

[benjammin09]

Just ask him if he likes you like that, and if he does but won't break up or he doesn't like you like that move on. It shouldn't be too tough to find the right guy for you because you sound really sweet and amazing. I mean if guys regret breaking up with you than they are the problem not you (at least as far as I know