How can you tell a guy is a player/fuckboy vs. real attraction?

[Anonymous]

[Jransome]

Fuckboi:

1. He belittles you (babe, baby, sweetie) and never mentions your real name, or doesn't even know your last name.
2. You have literally heard that he is player
3. He only contacts you at night
4. He never seems genuinely interested in your wellbeing
5. He never stres you directly in the eye or listens to you, but looks at you body instead
6. You've never met his friends or family

Real connection:

1. He will be interested in your wellbeing (asking how your day went, saying good morning not just goodnight this shows he is thinking about you)

2. He talks about you to his friends or family
3. He will show PDA in front of other women and not be ashamed of it

[Jacqueline8998]

Players tend to be huge trash talkers if one guy says another guy is a player and no other person can back up his claim chances are you've met a player. This is because the intent of a trash talker is to manipulate a person and get them to believe them. Behavior will match personality. Good guys tend to be the exact opposite. They like to see others succeed. They never trash talk anyone. They hardly use foul language and tend to always be sincere. If you get a good guy hold on tight. They are really really hard to come by.

[apple24]

When you can understand what self love is and than when you find a guy if he doesn't sound auth than he mostly a copy cat player/fuckboy!!! When the guy actually treats you like an equal and he sounds real than you know the different... you have to know how much your worth!

[Problemz]

Spend one with him and if he likes you he will take an effort to spend time with you if he's gone in a wek or talks a lot about other girls all the time he's not worth it

[Anonymous]

Fuckboys treat girls like shit and always want to hang out, for example: "come over for netflix and chill". A nice dude will get to know you better and actually treat you with respect and also invites you on a date, isn't as needy as fuckboys

[Asker]

What if it's someone you're more of an acquaintance with?

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, hard to say, I've noticed that men around me, the confident and extremly outgoing ones are most commonly fuckboys, the shy ones tend to be the gentlemen but girls aren't attracted to shy guys as much

[Asker]

He's not really that outgoing. The only time I've seen him is with his friends and he doesn't really talk much in class. His friend in really outgoing and he's a fuckboy, thats kinda what I'm worried about.

[ConsultantIsBack]

is he complimenting your career/life/family ambitions or your tits?

[ConsultantIsBack]

thanks mho

[AngryGoddess]

What if he does both?

[ConsultantIsBack]

@AngryGoddess then it gets tougher to determine

[AngryGoddess]

FML. I'm screwed.

[ConsultantIsBack]

@AngryGoddess pm me if u want, let's discuss see if I can help maybe

[Azara]

payers have genuine attraction. they just treat people like shit. and not all at once or even for a while. thats how it works., if you could tell they'd be doling a really bad job at the game.

[Danyahman]

Snapbacks, Nike everything, lounge pants, Jordan's, vaping, smoke weed, etc

[ConsultantIsBack]

this is amazingly accurate haha wow.

[Jransome]

Yeah... This is strictly visual stuff

[Paul1236]

I know this is old but sagging pants.

[flirtygirl247]

He is a fuck boy when he never shows any other connection with you other than sex.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

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when he looks at you like this... true love bae.

[Asker]

wtf lmao

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Oh no i was down voted D:
Yeah true love is when you see the old guys complaining and the old women bitching, and they are still married.

[Anonymous]

Usually THEY can't tell, so no way can you tell.
Time will tell so block any bad decisions that would leave you in peril if he turns out bad.