How do you know if a guy is a player, cheater, or fuckboi?

[Paolaa988]

[Searlas]

1. Smooth taker - Knows exactly what to say to a woman, exactly what she wanna hear.

2. His phone never always reachable at all times - turned off occasionally. Replies text or calls next day with excuses.
3. Simp’n
4. Most women you see him talk to are relatives.
5. He’s talks dirty and wanna make bodily contact oftenly.
6. Smart looking - men who wear attractive expensive stuff, designer stuff etc, and have no investments, jobless, purports to live with a relative or can’t pay rent.
7. Talks big, big future plans that doesn’t correspond with his current financial status. - Can’t talk of buying a house when he’s jobless for example. Many women fall for big talk, get their money wasted on such talkers, get pussy wasted and heartbroken.
8. There’re are the smart ass men a. k. a silent killers, who invest time and money in a woman and are undetectable - they will wait for that pussy for a year. They are loaded and have a lot business outside town or country.

[HiveBee]

If you're uncontrollably attracted to him his probably a fuckboy.

A lot of men know how to play the game. That's how we get what we want from women. We feed you want you want and you can't resist us.

Normal guys aren't like that. Normal men are not too good to be true. Normal men dont make you lust after them for reasons you can't expkain.

If you're not into him, he's probably not a plauer. You've probably been conditioned to only be attracted to fuckboys and you didn't even know it.

Search up some feminist spaces for women. They'll tell you how to choose a good man rather than let your vagina choose the manipulators.

[Alyssa11]

If you ever feel like you have to question what he wants from you he’s not genuine. It’s usually really easy to see. That goes for player/fuckboi.


Unfortunately it’s a bit harder to spot a cheater unless you’ve been cheated on before. Sometimes a man can be all for you and deeply in love with you, but still cheat on you due to whatever reason. My ex was deeply in love with me but cheated on me because we were long distance and couldn’t get some LOL. Not an excuse but not everyone has morals.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Don’t get sexual too soon. Fuckbois almost always lose interest if you keep your mouth and legs closed and your hand away from their dick. If a guy is willing to wait he’s probably legit.

[Archerer]

Intuition is your best friend, listen to your gut and take the red flags seriously, you will notice them early and easily, just don't be blinded by the need to get laid. Always have 3 guys on the go too until you are sure one is good enough, it will give you more perspective. Also, listen to your friends.

[Acxx30]

Player- bails all the time, but always tries to convince you everythings good when he's has X amount of other girls.
Cheater- you should probably just be able to tell.. If someone generally just starts becoming sneaky then they have shit the are starting to hide..
Fuckboi- the fucking douche bag wanna be show off. Acts to gangster and is always a bitch.. Normally trying to flash of absolutely anything and everything.

[TheSpaceGnome]

He acts confident instead of nervous around you in the beginning of a relationship or before you are an item.

Or he agrees to have sex before knowing everything about you and spending enough time with you to confirm it all.

Or he doesn't care what your hobbies are, or has different hobbies, and still wants you.

[Nazgol]

If you sense they have no or bare commitment to you, if they're distracted, if they say they're always busy but you know they're not, if they are charming & seductive, they have wandering eyes, if they insist on "pics", if they give sexual hints, if they only talk to you at only certain times. But usually they will reveal it themselves somehow in the beginning and your gut feelings can tell

[Nazgol]

& If you just get that overall feeling they're not into you

[CaliDad]

This all makes sense except the "wandering eyes." Both genders notice attractive people - a relationship doesn't change that, and if you think it does both partners are lying... not good. in my opinion is it's better to talk about these things with your partner because it helps them identify what you find attractive.

[Nazgol]

@CaliDad true

[FýrdracaDócincel]

He's a player/fuckboi if he doesn't behave exactly how you want him to LMAO.

He's a cheater if he actually cheats.

[slatyb]

That takes time. Have sex if you want to have sex, enjoy it if you can, and don't regret it. Keep in mind that you can't trade sex for love or commitment.

[ohshee]

You can tell in a Heartbeat by the way he touches you kisses you and treat you

[ChrisMaster69]

I would say, if he has a pulse , assume he is until he proves other wise,

[malwins]

This

[ChrisMaster69]

@malwins cheers, and it’s true any guy that says they are not to some degree is lying.

We love the chase, then often get worried when we catch the ‘prey’.

[sheikalana]

You will only know with time. Do not get involved with a men if you're not sure or suspect he might be a player/cheater/fuckboy. Pay attention to their behavior first.

[FlySwimmer]

You can never know for sure, that is the scary part.. I wish I could help srry, I don't know how to tho..

[Still-alive]

Just trust and pay attention to your gut. If its screaming at you telling you not to go with a guy listen to it!

[Anonymous]

Well two are obvious. Fuckboy & players want sex. They want it sooner rather than later.

Cheater. Pay attention

[Tunasub]

Simply pay attention to what is said and thier actions.

[Shy_Steve]

Usually if he talks to most Girls especially when your not with him.

[Coolkat12345]

first of all what is your definition of each one of those things?

[Coolkat12345]

Sine the poster can’t give the definitions it means they don’t even know what they are talking about.

[Anonymous]

Become his friend and use him as an example to identify other players. Works like a charm.

[Jamie05rhs]

Honestly, the only way is withholding sex.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Watch how he interacts with others

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Time and Sight. Focus, Fight, Win

[Dinosaursandanime65]

With this, you can gather information on almost anything

[Bklynbadboy12]

From the wa yt they act and treat you

[JosyJosy]

Taking your time and only listening to your head.

[cjmtherfcker]

Does he have the option to be?

[zagor]

Have sex with him and see if he stays around.

[Iron_Man]

Have him followed if you don’t trust him

[lsksni]

You cannot until he shows it. It's a gamble.

[deeks1121]

Test it and find out..

[msc545]

Look for the small tattoo on his penis.

[BillHe1]

I'm an old fart, please explain?

[msc545]

@BillHe1 joking

[BillHe1]

@msc545 OK LOL

[Luckycharms12]

Getting to know them

[JamieLoves]

Figure it out