I've made a sextape and my boyfriend is mad?

It's not as bad as it sounds--okay maybe it is, but my ex filmed us while having sex, but we don't really see our faces (just mine, but for a couple seconds) we just see the sex part... And the only person to have it is my ex. He is a good guy, and I know he won't do anything with it.
The problem is that I told my boyfriend that I made a sextape with my ex and he totally lost it. He started calling me names, and telling me he doesn't see me the same way as before. It's been a couple days now and I don't know what to do. He answers my texts and calls, but he's pretty distant. I can understand why he's mad, but does he have to be THAT mad?
The sextape was clearly a mistake. It was for fun, and it only lasts a minute or two tbh. But I don't know why my boyfriend reacts the way he does considering he knows everything there is to know about this.

What do you think?
I've made a sextape and my boyfriend is mad?
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