He left immediately after we had sex... didn't even say goodbye?

[thatgirlrachel]

I can't help but feel really stupid and ashamed of myself. I ended up having sex with this guy that I met last night. I had gone out with him and his friends once before. I knew that it was just a one night stand, but I wasn't expecting him to do what he did...

Literally right after he finishes he tells me he needs to go smoke a cig. He asks me if I want to join him and I say no. Well after a while I'm wondering where he went and he just left... I have never felt so dumb after sex. Like I know it's probably my fault for hooking up with him but really? He couldn't even say goodbye?

[Queen_naki5]

All emotions aside. As long as you had your fun. Who cares? He's obviously not relationship material or your future husband so why put any thought into it? Move on. If you can't handle one night stands then don't participate in it. Find a meaningful relationship and have meaningful sex. It takes longer and you need to put in more effort, but it's all worth it to avoid feelings like this... been there and I know what it feels like.

[KRIEL55]

yeah that was extremely rude but dont worry about it too much, like honestly would you really want to stay in touch with him? i bet if he was being clingy and kept calling you after, you'd be like damn calm down it was just a one night stand! some people just stop caring sooner but im sure you wouldn't really want him in your life either way.

[sweetkiss99]

That's what happens when you give it up easy. It was a one night stand. Men who go after sex get what they want from you, then they move on to the next. It hurts but what way were you expecting him to act? After you just met him and y'all had sex.. Thats how the games goes girl.

[Anonymous]

-Girls are funny creatures. They give up their virginity/fuck players.
-Expect players will commit and see something special in them.
-Thinks ONS will lead to relationship.
-Feel ashamed when it doesn't pan out.
-Has a guy in her life who she doesn't even give a thought to that actually wants a relationship with her and love her but he's isn't GOOD enough for her.

[frozenhorizon]

w e w

[Opinion Owner]

@frozenhorizon Did u just call me a white jewish male?

[slatyb]

No reason to feel ashamed. You wanted to have sex and you did. People do it literally all the time. Nothing wrong with that, assuming you took the usual precautions. So lose the guilt and shame. Then figure out what makes you happy. If you feel bad after having casual sex, then stop doing it. Get to know a guy for a while.

[lyssabugg35]

Maybe he locked himself out lol.
Or maybe he needed to go buy cigarettes.

He might have thought you only wanted a one night stand too and wanted it to be clean. Don't hook up with him again. See if he messages you again.

[Anonymous]

That's odd. Maybe he misinterpreted your signals to mean you didn't want him around. Maybe he's a jerk. Maybe he doesn't usually hook up and was overcome with awkwardness. Maybe he needed to poop and didn't want to do it at your place.

You can't really make any judgements about yourself because when it comes down to it, you have no idea.

[Opinion Owner]

For the record, I've had casual sex than included lots of cuddling and affection, even some with breakfast! So people saying "you put out, that's how it works" seem misguided. Everyone's different.

[truthbeknown]

Hmmm, well he probably just wanted a one nighter and thought by staying and hanging around that something might develop that he wasn't interested in and therefore he just booked. Take it as a life lesson learned I guess.

[Anonymous]

One night thing honey, think about it, one night stands or so called quick sex don't have standards.. think next time before you do this if you don't wanna deal with the repercussions of a quick fling. Fuck him, but don't act like you don't know what quick sex and casual hook ups result in.

[WhiteSteve]

Definitely rude, but whatever, don't beat yourself up about it.

[orphan]

realize your trivial decision to not smoke that after orgasm cig w/ him, was you declining to spend time w/ him afterwards as well.

takes two to tango, and apparently neither of u wanted nething to do w/ the other afterwards.

[allahu_snackbar]

Dang! Choose more carefully next time and don't be easy.

[TripleAce]

Thats quite rude on his part. Any half decent guy wouldn't do that. Looks like your type is a smoker that just walks out. Id think about that

[Jose_R]

Not really rude. He had sex. Assumed it was ONS and even offered her a cig and bounced. This is how these things pretty much go.

[MoonlitSonata]

Can't one expect at least common courtesy after a one night stand? I just plowed or got plowed by you at least say Chiao?

[esparc]

Maybe you not smoking with him was a deal breaker? I don't know... I don't smoke and I don't do one night stands... yet.

[ThisDudeHere]

He owed you literally nothing. You two exchanged a service for each other and he simply felt the need to leave. That's it.

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Were you satisfied? And if so, why do you give a shit? He saved you from the morning awkwardness and let you have your bed to yourself.

[crazywaves28]

That's rude!! Just shows he obviously wanted a quickie or he didn't enjoy it

[nards123]

People can be jerks sometimes. You don't have to feel ashamed.

[fueledbythc]

You're being too emotional about this. Just take it as it is and leave it be and move on. Guys want sex and you fell for it.

[Tdieseler]

rude... well... its not like you will see him again. it was a one night thing.

[singlebee]

Well what do your expect him to hug you? It was a one night stand...

I am thinking one night stands are not for you

[Prince_teddy4u]

He waswas not the guy with hard dick and soft heart. He wanted that only from you.
It could be something else too probably be was shy that he cum so fast or didn't satisfied you.

[Dtegesd123]

Hmmm, why would he ask you to join him, then leave when you didn't.

[Anonymous]

He just wanted to screw you. Other than that he had no feelings for you. So after he got what he wanted then he saw no point in hanging around.

[ShayanMortazavi1]

Well that's how a one night stand works. You screw the person and then you leave.

[aliceinwonderland69]

@ShayanMortazavi1 Your 17 stop pretending to be a sex guru!

[chrisbigman]

When are people gonna ask proper questions on here when the post is supposed to be considered a question?

[DBAOracle]

Ouch, well, sorry to hear that. That was rude though.

[Anonymous]

The next question will be "where are all the good men?" Followed by another one night stand with an asshole.

Female logic 101.

[iFarted]

Pumped and dumped. He doesn't respect you so try to move on.

[harmony234]

See because your easy guys test you and there you go for being easy im glad I'm not like that geez.

[Anonymous]

it was a no strings attached ons. wtf is you problem?

[Anonymous]

He's pissed Coz you wouldn't have a cig with him lol

[skrxx1]

You live and you learn

[abundantlyrich]

One night stands have no courtesy rules...

[aliceinwonderland69]

Well learn your lesson and don't do it again.

[Artist10]

ouch, I gotta try this one

[sp33d]

Remember your place. It's just a one night stand.

[YuNggRooST3R007]

Un his eyes... u aintshit xD

[Indigo1]

Just an asshole thats all

[ShayanMortazavi1]

Well that's how a one night stand works

[MoonlitSonata]

Can't one expect common courtesy?

[Anonymous]

Hey, you did it to yourself

[buttheadkakakak]

Wow what a dick

[Polocrew]

Lmaooo

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Boohoo.

[Anonymous]

How rude