Guys what does it feel like to get a boner?

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And get harder? How much of this feeling can you control and how much is instinct. What tends to trigger it the most for you?

Cunninglist · Accepted Answer

It'd be hard to describe to someone who hasn't experienced it, but it's a a kind of aching (in a good way) that inspires tension, hunger, and longing. It's difficult to control. As far as what triggers it the most, I'd have to say hands down that going down on a woman really does it for me. Again, It's hard to describe, but there's something about making out with her pussy and worshipping at the altar of her womanhood. I love being intoxicated and engulfed by her pussy, experiencing the touch, the taste, the smell of womanhood. It gets me so hard that it hurts.

AleDeEurope · Accepted Answer

It feels good, at least to me.
Sometimes you can control when to get it, like thinking of something sexually arousing, but many times it just happens randomly.
I personally can't make it go "soft", it just goes away after a while if I'm not turned on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Great question! I've always wondered myself

Hero917 · Answer

First of all, I’d like to say that it happens more frequently than girls might think, and most of the time, no one even notices because we try to hide it or adjust our position to make sure it’s not obvious. It can be quite awkward and embarrassing if someone sees it.

Sometimes, it happens naturally when our body is in good shape, or if we randomly think about something attractive while sitting or lying down. In these cases, it often goes away on its own because we don’t actively entertain it.

Other times, it occurs when we deliberately think about or look at someone attractive, and in these moments, we tend to enjoy the sensation. We can even control its movements to some extent, similar to how we control our fingers. Moving or flexing it against our clothes can enhance the feeling, and in general, having an erection makes us feel excited, energetic, and sometimes even relaxed, it can be a stress reliever.

We can get an erection just from our thoughts, and we can also make it go away by thinking about something else. That’s the level of control we have over it.

Morning erections happen naturally when we wake up. Sometimes, when we stand up after sitting for a while, we might get one unexpectedly. It can also occur when we need to urinate or have a bowel movement, and in these cases, it tends to be harder.

Frequent masturbation tends to make it thinner and less firm, while abstaining for a while makes it thicker and harder. Overall, the feeling of an erection is very enjoyable, it’s almost magical. The friction against clothing can create sensations similar to actual penetration, which adds to the pleasure.

I know some men who intentionally flex it in front of others and pretend they haven't noticed they have an erection. But girls should know that we are always aware or at least shortly in few seconds we become aware when we get one, especially when standing. So if someone does it in public they must be held accountable.

Anonymous · Answer

It feels incredible. Getting hard just seems to drain away blood from the rest of the body (or it at least feels like that to me) and the feeling is superb. Feels like you are on cloud 9. Most times i can control unless the girl is turning me on, then its hard to control. Like my girlfriend, will start rubbing my thigh area and i would have no control from then on in.

Once at uni this girl was walking in front of me and her legs were just making me go nuts and i could not control it, i had to sit down for a while

slimstiffy · Answer

It feels good. I dont know how t explain you just feel kinda hard. And youd like the stimulation but no problem if there isn't any.
I don't know i get boners when i see booty. Woman with nice ass walks by can sometimes give me a boner.
But most boners occur when im seated or laid diwn. Thinking or seeing booty will trigger it pretty quick

fueledbythc · Answer

It happens when I see someone who's extremely attractive though it hasn't happened since last year publicly on the train. She was so perfect in terms of how she looked. Other then that I can control it decently only getting an erection when I masturbate these days since I don't have a friends with benefits or a girlfriend.

HeresJames1 · Answer

It feels good, just about anything can trigger it lol hell even randomly for no reason. We can control it most of the time but there are some times we can't. It does suck when we aren't adjusted previously so our pants/shorts feel to restrictive. My turn ons will trigger it the most. Instinctively we want to cum to fix the problem so we do unless we are in public and if we are then we have to wait it out and that's dissapointing.

BryanMoore · Answer

seeing hot women triggers it for me! Mine kind of has a mind of it's own, but if I can distract myself it can go away pretty quick. It can be quite a nuisance depending on how it rests in your boxers/trousers, like it can get really obvious in the wrong place and you can really feel it! It's quite difficult to contain it sometimes!

RexCatholicissimus · Answer

Let me ask a rarer question, what do YOU think it feels like for a guy?

Skadouchebag · Answer

Considering they're madeo f the same tissue, probably like how it feels to get an erect clit. and just as I imagine an erect clit is, a boner is pure reflex.

Decentguy · Answer

feels like a hard wood in my pants lol. i can control some of it, and whenever i think anything romantic or sexual it triggers it

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Uncomfortable xD I think everyone can control it if you're like not getting aroused constantly on purpose

theegreat017 · Answer

It feels tight in the dick, it's presence increases manifolds

Ryanguzo · Answer

The dick becomes hard and u can see it pushing the pants when they have a boner

Anonymous · Answer

I believe it would be better if I explained to you in person...  huehuehueu

DocHolliday904 · Answer

Do you want the science... or the emotion?

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Just sucks you'll never know op sorry

tristan22 · Answer

it feels great unless i`ve still got my jeans on

Anonymous · Answer

Obama triggers me. he completes in me.

Anonymous · Answer

It can feet frustrating

Fortheholidays · Answer

amazing

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