Why are guys so insensitive?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure why but to me guys are just such jerks and I don't know why

[moyasu]

A lot of the times it's because the girl is TOO sensitive, so guys would look really insensitive compared to her. Especially considering your age range (under 18), girls your age probably spending a lot of time worrying or thinking about non-existent problems. And when guys don't realize the problem (but when it's SO obvious to you), you think they're jerks for not picking up on it. Girls and guys think differently. It's not that they're insensitive, they just don't worry about the same things we do. Trust me, I've gone through that stage and I've learned to let go and not sweat the small stuff.

[SportyLove]

Hmm, maybe you bring it upon yourself. Maybe they see you as a b!tch and are just givin it right back at you.

Quit complaining about insensitive guys and go on with your life. Not all of them are like that so enough of your stereotyping.

[Anonymous]

a lot of them don't give a f*** about girls feelings. I would say don't be really sensitive and take everything to heart and dish out a taste of his own jerky medicine

[ArtistBboy]

Exactly.

[Longshot]

Guys mature at a later stage than girls. Fact of life. We also are not socialized in the same way as women. Not as forward with our emotions and feelings. Many of us don't know what we want until we're 32.

On the other hand keep your expectations real!

[ArtistBboy]

I know what I want.

[Anonymous]

Because it's annoying when people overvalue stupid sh*t, making an emotional wreck out of a meaningless situation...here's an example:

-Guys being jerks..

Rather than paying attention to him being a jerk, ignore the asshole.

[SportyLove]

Agreed

[blah52]

Probably because we're more able to control our emotions and don't let little things bother us.

[Anonymous]

Genetics, conditoned, inherited, take you pick or a combination

[ThatGuy44]

Maybe, your hanging around the guys then.

[ThatGuy44]

Wrong*