Why did this guy behave like this? Does he enjoy messing with me?

[Anonymous]

I avoided this guy. When I looked up and saw him he was looking back at me with something in his eyes. Almost like he was a little mad but also indifferent.

I immediately looked away sort of mad but also sad. His friend shut up. The guy just kept staring at me blatantly like he was trying to figure out why I did that, his face was red.

I was feeling really really vulnerable. I hadn't showered, smelled and wanted to be left alone.

Later on the guy came BACK with his friend and was acting loud behind me. It was disrespectful like he was mocking me or something. He even purposely inhaled while walking passed me.

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I want to know. I am so tired of thinking about this.

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I am sorry for posting this question over and over.

But I really would like to know. I just don't understand why he was acting like that

[LikeItsHoly]

My brother in law is this type of asshole, don't even waist your time. Honestly these people like to joke and tease and make you feel violated.

That's really just it, some people are assholes by nature.

[Asker]

Violated? This thing was sexual what he did?

I'm not even sure what exactly he was doing, I felt so confused.

The problem is I sort of did have some kind of feelings for him and felt totally unsure of how I felt after he did what he did

[LikeItsHoly]

Haha no just his whole personality makes me nervous to be around the guy, he's like a grabber and creepy side talker. Anyway.

I don't think you should mess with that type of guy unless you have an attraction to him. Then go for it, he probably like you somewhat.

This kind of reminds me of that movie, you know "Welcome to the dollhouse." But less intense and without the bullying. You feel confused because it's confusing, lol, guys can be like that. Mess with him right back maybe, that would be fun.

[Asker]

Ha ha no I meant, what this guy (the guy who was acting weird around me) did... was it sexual? I really had no idea what he was trying to do, whether it was bully me or like... something creepy.

I googled, 'Welcome to the dollhouse," it seems like an interesting movie. Do you mean this situation is sort of like that, where Brandon initially is super creepy to Dawn and then afterwards falls for her?

The thing is he's got a girlfriend, (which makes this whole thing that much more weird). So I don't want to get hurt and as odd as it sounds I don't want to hurt him either

[LikeItsHoly]

Well I think science says it takes 8 seconds for a male homisapiens mind to go sexual lol. And yeah, like I said don't mess with it.

He's dating someone and you don't have time for it. There's other guys lol.

Yeah Brandon called Dawn's best friend a 'Faggot' and she called him and his group retards. Then he went out and told he he was going to rape her at 3:00 right after school.

That sounds horrifying but it was actually kind of funny. She ends up running home and he says he would rape her the next day but he doesn't and they end up hanging out and he tells her that his brother is retarded. That his brother could beat her up despite his disability.

But yeah he ends up trying to date her but she's in love with someone else.

[justanotherguy1]

Some guys are dicks about liking girls and they sometimes like to mess around with them bc they feel so strongly about that person so he probably just really likes you

[Asker]

You know I have a question. It's a really important question.

How. On earth. Do guys LEARN how to behave like this? I've never understood they're so good at it.

How do guys KNOW how to act loud etc. in that disrespectful way I don't know what it's called, I mean what do they even say? I wasn't listening to him so I couldn't tell what he was saying.

They all sound the same to me when they do it. Not sure what the word for it is.

What really surprises me is his friend actually agreed to all this I mean what's wrong with his friend?

[justanotherguy1]

The sad thing is that most guys learn it from their fathers so it gets passed down from each father to son and then that guy acts like that for the rest of his life and eventually his son learns it too..

Most guys are just idiots who are either just too stupid to express their feelings in a good way or they're just too embarrassed to express their feelings..

And most guys who are friends do the same thing so there is no surprise there

[Asker]

His father teaches him how to act loud around girls? That sounds odd :S

What do you mean most guys who are friends? Do you mean that his friend likes me too? I find that hard to believe I didn't even see who his friend was but he has only so many friends. I can tell I guess

[justanotherguy1]

Well him acting loud around girls is just a way for him to cover up his feelings because he thinks he needs to act like a "man".. Me saying "most guys who are friends" I meant that if he likes you he will tell his friend about it and they will do stupid guy shit to try and get your attention.. Does that help at all?

[Asker]

Yes it does! It felt like his friend was insulting me though because this guy was acting like that and his friend was playing along.

Can I tell you something? Honestly I feel like this guy as messed up as he is, looks down on me. He's smarter, and his friend is smarter, and I think both of them thought they could get away with messing with me.

I cringe, (actually) at the fact that they thought they could do this in broad daylight and get away with it

[justanotherguy1]

Wow I don't really known what to say.. I cringe too because that is such a horrible thing for them to do and maybe they just have no respect for women whatsoever.. If that is case I feel awful for you because I don't even know where to start with that

[Asker]

You know the thing is... I do agree this guy probably doesn't respect girls for the most part.

But in particular, he doesn't respect me. If he did he wouldn't have done this whole thing in the first place.

It makes my blood boil that he would do that, but what I realize now is at least I saw him for what he was. I would've thought he was good if he didn't do that.

They're all the same these guys.

[justanotherguy1]

Yeah they are all the same, but eventually you will meet someone who will treat you well and love you back. The guys that are jerks will come and go, which is just how it will be.

[John_Doesnt]

He seems to enjoy teasing you.

[Asker]

Why? Plus why do boys even do that whole loud act thing where they suddenly start talking in a loud disrespectful way?

How do they know how to do it? Where do they learn

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure