I flirt with two, at work, that are kind of timid, and unsure. I make them smile, and laugh, at my little jokes, or puns. They don't seem like they have a lot of friends, as they have only pics of family in their cubes. They are both REALLY attractive, and I wonder why they don't have at least a half-dozen guys asking them out!!
I'm almost old enough to be their father, so I kind of just tease them, like a big brother, and talk with them, and ask them about them, and what they like, and so on.
Both seem to like the attention, and some of the older, married women have commented that these two have asked about me, and if I am married, or dating, or whatever. Not interested in a relationship with either, but they are interesting, and like kind of unusual things that I can talk about, with them.
Sometimes I make comments on what they wear, like one was wearing a flannel button shirt, Friday, and I said that she looked so "Minnesota", making her laugh.
Another time, one was wearing a slightly low-cut top, and I saw her, and said "Oh, my god!! Your Epidermis is showing!!" and it freaked her out!!
The 'Epidermis' is your skin!! She kind of blushed, and stuck her tongue out, when I explained it! :)
Flirting is great, if it is all in good fun, among friends that understand.
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Two answers, both equally likely both have the same result.
1. He wants you to be his friends with benefits. He’s among for low stress relationship, and has probably had some seriously high maintenance girlfriends before. Relax, and decide what you want out of it, and make it clear what you want. If he isn’t interested in that then leave it be and ask him to stop pressing his luck ;)
2. He really likes you but is hoping you’ll be a girl-friend. He is looking for a girl that is exactly how you are now. A show up, have fun and undemanding kind of girl. At the end of the day he doesn’t really want 4 hour phone calls or an ultimatum that you will talk EVERY day no matter what. Low key. Relax, and decide what you want out of it, and make it clear what you want. If he isn’t interested in that then leave it be and ask him to stop pressing his luck ;)
For me it looks like more physical attraction than emotional or romantic.
I feel like when guys say something about your body, many times its because they actually think about it in some way.
He kinda wants you I think.
Lol, you know what he wants.
I don't flirt at work, but I do talk and joke with a male colleague, it's just fun and not touchy touchy or risque.
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I believe mostly it is about convenience. I’m not sure about the whole of people in the work force, but from my experience and what I’ve witnessed over the years, most people spend more time at work then they do at home, or sleeping, or any other activity. Most of us spend either part of the time traveling to work and stuck in traffic, or we spend the greater part of the day in the office doing the work we’re being paid for, and since we spend so much time at work, we begin looking at our co-workers as potential relationship partners and sexual exploits. I really believe it simply comes down to the simple idea of convenience and not having the time to socialize outside of work, like going to clubs or social gathers to meet potential relationship and sexual partners, and since we don’t have time for those, we turn to what we know as the familiar, which is the people we work with every day. That’s my bottom line.
Well, in my experience I liked this girl a lot at work but at that time she had a boyfriend and I just enjoyed having a beautiful friend that was a friend to talk to. We flirted but nothing became further than that until a couple years later.
At that moment in time when she was my co-worker I discovered a strange love other than a love that wants something more out of the relationship.He may not want anything but there are a few possibilities.
1. He enjoys that you offer positive reactions to his personality traits. It could be true.
2. He is flirting and trying to do some relationship building. And I'd say he's doing well since you are thinking. :)
3. He's just a very out going person and does this with a lot of people without any agenda at all. Very unlikely.He just doesn't want to get involved with a serious relationship right now maybe. He probably thinks it's bad to be going out with your co-worker and it can be. But, it sounds like you guys are having fun, so try not to over think it.
Let me tell you something, a relationship with a woman is a lot of work for a man. We constantly have to impress, entertain, and pay for her. Guys would rather just have the sex and cuddling because it's less stressful. It's becoming harder to want a relationship anymore.
You kissed that guy from work while you were out at parties for co-workers, more than once? lmaooooo I bet people at your job joke about the two of you when you aren't there.
He wants to have "fun" with you. Possibly see you for girlfriend material or sex
He likes to flirt. Doesn't want to commit to anything just enjoys flirting
He wants to date and have fun but not commit to a relationship.
Flirting is fun and exciting. It depends where you work and what you do. It helps pass the time too. Makes work more interesting and it boost you too.
he probably finds you fun and likes you to some extent
now how much I don't knownever done that before.
im pretty sure that guy just wants sex with you, and nothing seriousDo you like him? I guess he likes you but doesn't want to commit.
Sex would be my guess
Clearly, because you're a lioness
It's all just for fun. Ignore his "life" advice.
Don't do it.. relationships with co workers cause workplace drama.
He want to have sex with you
he wants to be friends with benefits
Sex?
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