Why does he go offline when he sees me online?

[OverTheSky_]

[DanoM1]

Please explain more.
1. He doesn't want to talk to you.
2. He's playing the game of making you think he's got a hard, busy life.
3. Coincidence.

Some explanation would help to choose from those options!

[OverTheSky_]

When we were at work before he always showed interest... like prolonged eye contact... smiles... jokes... He cought me starring at him one day and he tried to talk to me... Our conversation was pretty short because he was nervous and i'm really shy. He looked kinda sad and disappoined after that, so after two days i decided that i'm gonna send him a fb request and see what happen... That was 3 weeks ago... I saw him yesterday and he quickly turned away his gaze when i caught him staring... And 4 days ago he start doing that on fb... It's really weird

[serious]

If he knows and sees you online and goes offline means he has a very strong dislike towards you.

If this is not the reason then I am not sure what it could be.

[OverTheSky_]

He can just remove me from friends... cuz if that's the case it's kinda childish

[rubyrose83]

I don't know but I've wondered this too. It might be coincidence. I'm not conceited enough to think that he's even aware of me being online. Good question though :) 👍

[OverTheSky_]

Thanks :)

[BertMacklinFBI]

coincidence or he doesn't wanna talk to you

[JohnMike999]

Coincidence maybe?

[OverTheSky_]

Maybe? But it's really weird... I mean he goes offline and then after a minute or so get he gets online again...

[JohnMike999]

Does that happen in facebook?

[JohnMike999]

on**

[OverTheSky_]

yeah...

[JohnMike999]

Chances are he has chat turned off for you. I mean my friend had chat turned off for me once (i asked him to do it), and whenever i log in he disconnects immediatly and it says that the last time he was on is 1 minute ago.

[JohnMike999]

He gets online again after you log out or what?

[OverTheSky_]

No he goes offline then like i said gets online again and stays online...

[JohnMike999]

Could be coincidence only.

[OverTheSky_]

I hope so... I don't want him to think that i'm annoying or something..

[JohnMike999]

Don't overtext him, make it 50/50. Don't talk about boring stuffs like politics, religion, work, studies (unless you are on finals which is a common subject). Be fun, tease him, and know how to make him laugh. Good luck!

[OverTheSky_]

Mmmm we never had a chat and i'm really shy to text him so... I send him a fb request because i thought he like me cuz before when we worked together he was always nervous around me and he always held his eyes on me... but right now i'm just confused... Either way thanks for your help and for your suggestions :))
P. S. Sorry for bad English :/

[JohnMike999]

Then i'm sure it is a coincidence since you never texted him. Good luck!