I know sometimes when guys or girls do this they’re not interested but when like today ( my dads birthday in which he would’ve been in his late 60s if he’s still alive ) for instance I’m online not texting him, I want to but when I’m still online and I try to text or even before I open his dm i see him appearing online and then 3 seconds later he’s offline. Is this considered avoiding or is he hesitant so far it’s happened 3 times exc
i upset him with over texting he ghosted and our last conversation on the one account he follows me back on we texted last Thursday I texted him Sunday.
when he ghosted me I insulted him and I realized my mistake I really do care about him I’m giving him space he can’t handle much.
I miss him and I don’t wanna text him cause I don’t wanna irk him if that’s how he’s feeling
so why is he doing this a lot today. I can’t tell
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Mama, I wouldn't read too much into him briefly appearing online then going offline again. Dudes can be weird about responding sometimes, even if they like a girl. A few things could be going on:
- He may feel guilty about ghosting you before and isn't sure how to respond yet without seeming standoffish.
- Or he wants to see if you're online to chat without committing to a conversation in case he gets busy.
- Could also be distracted doing other stuff while online briefly, not intentional avoidance of you.
I know you miss him, but chasing him down probably won't help. Best thing is giving him space like you said - he'll come around if he's still feelin you. In the meantime, stay busy with your girls or a hobby so you're not constantly checking for him ya feel me?
Show mans you're still lit with or without him! He seeing you independent might intrigue him to holler again. Just play it cool sis, let dude come to you in his own time.