Would a guy reject a girl he actually likes?

[Anonymous]

Would a guy reject a girl he actually likes? If so, why? And is there any way she could change his mind if she like him too? Even if there is a big age difference? And lastly, how can she go about changing his mind?

[darkknight8909]

the only reasons i would reject a girl i like are

-if im not in a position where im emotionally available
-if i do like her, but i know that she's no good for me (i. e. drinks too much and does drugs, which is why my last one didn't really work out even though i liked her)

the only thing you can do is make it clear to him about how you feel and hope her reciprocates. try asking him why he doesn't like you.

changing someones mind is difficult, I've tried. if you're all out of options, they say cutting all ties is the last resort option. that way he will learn what it's like to not have you in his life and hopefully he will begin to miss you. aside from that, there's not much else. but only do that if it's your final option.

[mjashin]

yes. i kinda did it... really sad. last time we talked she was acting mad and bit nervous about me and told me to leave her alone if i see she is still talking. this got me really confused and offended. i knew she wanted me to talk to her, but didn't know what to say. i just didn't say anything. starred at what she wrote for about 1 hour. then still didn't reply, intentionally. i really don't know who got rejected first, i kinda feel she felt first. all we needed was to talk i guess, but both felt unsure and didn't insist.

[Brokenheartedx]

It is possible... guy at school night like a girl she likes him but his friends call her dog so due to peers will reject girl

Age could be other factor if woman or guy is older and different stages of life they could feel hold other back

Or job or work or even religion...

If someone rejects you don't try to get them back... they lost out on something that could of been beautiful
7 billion more fish in the sea
You'll always feel hurt bein rejected but don't hold urself back from findin love

[sallygal]

yep if he doesn't want a relationship or he knows he will not be commited to u and likely cheat

[AriadneSky]

yes people dont always feel comfortable with wanting other people. pride-false dignity.

[Abhishek_Barman025]

I will just speak for my self, YES. this question has struck my heart. I met this girl few months back, she is a really nice girl, a real sweet heart. there is a part of her that I really love and a part of her that I can't and will not be able to accept. the emotional part of me loves her but I know as I am very logical (ENTJ as per MBTI test) it will not last, I will not be able to respect her as a partner (wife). I also know that she loved me initially then because of fear she pushed me back a bit, she and I both see hope in us. So I have decided to tell her, and it, will have to place a stone over my heart. and in this case I don't think anything can be changed. relationship is about compatibility and emotions, not just emotional. some other guy may behave in a different manner. every one is different and act differently

[Abhishek_Barman025]

ADD ON : A person is who he or she is because of their past, and as past can't be changed, so can't the effects of what happens when 2 lives interact with each other.

[RyB3y]

I didn't date a girl because I was good friends with here and didn't want to risk messing it up. But usually if a guy likes you he won't reject you. And to get him to like you playing hard to get can work wonders

[Jack-Shepard]

Yes a human being will reject another human being regardless of feelings, its not limited to guys, there are so many different reasons, one of which is being an honest person and seeing that this relationship isn't going to work.

[lightbulb27]

yes, the more attracted, the less his brain can function until he matures.

changing his mind... patiently engage in conversation to determine what is going on. don't be pushy. not easy.

[Mofunfour20]

Maybe he's in a relationship. Maybe he's not over his ex. Maybe he's trying to reach a certain point in life. It all revolves around self esteem if he genuinely likes you

[cth96190]

His rejection of you does not make sense to me.
My only suggestion is that you should move on. If he wanted you, he would not have rejected you.

[Mbored92]

i think he can reject her, in a way coz he doesn't think he is worth to have her and won't be able to keep her happy, the girl can just express her love for him and convince him with whatever issues he may have with it.

[krackley21]

if he's super self concious he'll convince himself he doesn't deserve you

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/nl_erKo-WcM

[scooogy]

There are quite some girls who I like, but I guess I like them single, and I can't really imagine being with them.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Possibly if she is too young even if he really likes her

[HarrisonWells]

I would not unless I was already in a relationship or did not have the time.

[TheOldMan59]

Maybe if he's already in a relationship. Nothing you can do change his mind anyway. Never mind, there's plenty more fish in the sea, as they say.

[CalvinZhao]

I think he wouldn't except in a special case. He do that also let the girl could take good care of herself.

[BertMacklinFBI]

maybe. depends on his motives

[JohnDoe3000]

It's highly unlikely.

[AquillaaaZaz]

Yes if he's gay

[Adigelunar]

i dont think so