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Do you think men are too feminine nowadays? (Page 3)
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Playing vedio game all the time isn't feminine.
Being afraid to approach other sex isn't feminine.
I don't understand what you are talking about.
Feminine or not, i like guys who are kind and know what's right or not.
That's not femininity though? That's laziness and poor work ethic. Being feminine doesn't equal not working on yourself? How did you get from A to B.
Trolling: 2/10
most women are garbage today. why should these men bother? furthermore do you know who says "where did all good men go" usually? basic beta bitches that began growing old, and try to blame them attracting men less on men... .
androgynous is the new age agenda actually. women became mroe manly as well.
Girl, I've just lectured some dude on this post regarding what I think of why most women are "garbage" (which I only agree with in part). Feel free to disagree but as a fella, who does not fit this new gynocentric age of male androgyny at all... Let me say this... Most of the 'garbage' in the female species has perhaps on the one hand been brainwashed by feminism etc etc, but what I see in day to day life, is not actually hordes of red haired landwhale feminazis, but feminine (in appearance at least), who despise the fact that there simply aren't many masculine, authoritative men in their lives at all - bar perhaps the old man or uncle bob who "was born in the 60's" lol... I find that most women secretly grow to despise the weakness in these cuckolded biological males that have taught to tell their women that "they'll be nice, caring and emotionally "supportive" (weak). This gives rise to much of what is undeniably despicable behaviour exhibited in females these days
@FreshOutaIdeas just wanted to fix for you one thing. Being nice, caring, and emotionally supportive does not mean weakness. although yes some weak guys are like that 'because they don't have no other choice to do and they are scared', there are some very strong guys who chose to be like that as well. Being nice does not mean you are weak. You can still be nice and strong at the same time. As long as no one crosses their limit with you, there is no reason to show them your scary side.
@Battooot Yes your quite right! Perhaps bad wording on my part as I don't think being genuinely caring or supportive is a bad (or "weak") trait at all! That's the foundation that genuine relationships are built on! To clarify, the cuckolded male will often say these things, only to be emotionally unstable or "weak" himself, thus not being able to provide the woman with the cooperative emotional stability that she needs and wants. Wether women wish to accept this biological reality or not.
Don't you think we're scaring them away with posts/questions like this? I find most of the comments (not yours) here pretty insulting to the guys?
Reluctantly, I have to agree. There are some pretty bitter women out there and their way of dealing with it is to lash out at the guys.
What is androgynous?
@Jennifer88 To use a dictionary definition: A state of appearing neither masculine or feminine.
Basically think of a male, that looks very "neutral" or even "girly" in his looks and the way he acts. Equally take a woman that looks "neutral" or even very "masculine/butch" for a woman.
@FreshOutaIdeas Oh, like David Bowie or Marilyn Manson?
@Jennifer88 Yeah you got it!
Oh definitely!
I'm a man and I am scared of approaching these blue-haired side of the head-shaved women which look like barbarians - dumbbells hanging from their ears and all.
Hell, I am jealous of the gay people... I'm willing to bet that men are more approachable than women.
***** OR MAYBE THEY DON'T NEED TO APPROACH WOMEN OF YOUR AGE ANYMORE BECAUSE THEY ARE EITHER MARRIED OR YOU"RE SIMPLY TOO OLD!
#MindBlown
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@Heemus_Christ I just hate dumb questions ahaha. I mean the answer to this one is dead obvious and it has nothing to do with feminized males... the chick is simply too old
Video games is WAY more of a man thing. It was almost purely guys that played them in the 80s and 90s.
I don't approach women anymore because I have mostly given up on finding a good match for myself. After I got divorced, I was too pissed off for a few years after to even consider dating anyone. And even now I would only consider it if she asked me first to show that she is more willing to take the lead and not ALWAYS depend on me to do everything in the relationship to make her feel wanted and I just feel like I am never perused once in a relationship. F that.
Why do you think them "not doing anything to strengthen their character" is a feminine trait?
I don't like guys who don't care about self improvement (everyone should care about self improvement) but I'm not sure why some guys not doing anything to self- improve makes them seem more feminine?
I do like playing video games, always have. I don't think that's really a feminine trait. However, most guys are afraid to approach these days given that a lot of girls just want attention/validation and nothing more and don't want to waste their time. Or, a lot of girls label a guy as "creepy" if he's even slightly shy, socially awkward or if they just don't find him attractive. Again i don't think that's feminine, just more of a "why bother?" or "risk is greater than the reward" type of attitude. And tbh it really is a case of the few spoiling it for the many because the above mentioned types of women are in the minority.
But, to add to your list, I think guys are feminine these days due to the amount of bitching about other guys they do, especially behind each others backs. Confrontation is a particularly masculine thing and a lot of guys would rather be sneaky, two faced and employ underhanded tactics to avoid it. Which is something that tends to be feminine.
Men no longer have the same pressure to conform to society's expectations of the 'manly man'. Instead of having to be into sports, to be 'hard', to like fighting, to be a leader, we now have more freedom to be who we want to be.
Masculine and feminine are old-fashioned words that suppress people's real personalities, dreams, and beliefs by pressuring them to be a certain person.
I think this is closest to an accurate answer... masculinity and femininity are traditional, old-fashioned concepts that are apart of sexism. And essentially, some, not all but most of these traditional concepts that ruled our so-called wise ancestors are apart of many problems and chaos in the world today... from religion to demographics, etc.,
I honestly prefer men that have a balance of Masculinity & Feminine.
I honestly don't see how what you said makes a man feminine, though? Fear of Approaching women isn't feminine, it's just fear and insecurity..
They are allowed to be however they want, as long as they like it.
I hate that I said honestly twice.
Side note: nothing wrong with playing video games. As long as the person isn't barricading their self in their home playing video games all day non stop.
Sounds like these (men) you're around, are really little boys. When a grown man wants something he goes after it. They would work, pay their own bills, maybe live on their (age) takes care of their own.. you know what I mean. Being shy is one thing, but I don't know what you exactly mean by feminine. And they wouldn't play video games all the time.. find a different group of guys.
Sounds like a personal issue. Maybe quality men just don't want to approach you? There is always that lol. Do you think it's very rational to not blame yourself and literally every man in the world instead?
It's true. But videogames got nothing to do 😂
I understand that you trying to say that men nowadays spend too much time doing useless things than doing something more productive. It's sadly true, but it doesn't apply to everyone though. I play videogames, but I also got a life 😂😂
As long as they are not harming anyone then it's none of our business. This woman only cares what men are doing because it is not benefiting her.
got this from the book titled the Alabaster girl: "We are the children of men. We had a father who stood upon this earth… on a battlefield… with a sword in his hands… with the same champion blood coursing through our veins as his… and we’re afraid to talk to that girl over there?"
its not that i'm afraid that she's gonna bite me, i'm just sick and tired of risking rejection all the damn time, or when i ask a girl out, set up a date with her, she ends up flaking on me, ghosting on me, or i get first dates but no second dates.
Yes and i actually just did a take discussing that yesterday
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a33841-feminization-of-males-the-influence-it-has-on-our-society
My boyfriend is pretty guy-ish, but he can be what is considered "feminine" or "girly". He likes taking care of himself and being clean. But he has confidence and a very strong personality, so although he has feminine traits, he doesn't seem like less of a man, as you have described.
I prefer feminine guys and I think many woman do - they are usually the ones with the highest number of females who are interested in them. If you notice - extremely masculine guys almost never get hit on or asked out - its the somewhat feminine guys that everybody goes for. That guy in the photo would describe my dream guy.
Even though he is too shy to approach you?
@sweetshyguy I'm sure he would approach me if he liked me and though the had a good chance with me
What if the only way to get him was if you approached him?
@sweetshyguy I don't chase but I would offer enough hints that chasing would not be necessary
It sounds ugly but sissy shy guys need rapey girls.
So you're saying women are pussies with little value? Damn, why so much hate for your own gender? :/
Burnnnn
so not being confident is a sign a femininity?
HAHAHAHAHA
face palm XD
Trollin ain't easy xD
@YourFutureEx tell mr about it 😂
No. I am a gamer geek. I love nerdy guys. And if they are Feminine it is attractive. I am a dominant woman. I am not afraid to make the first move. If anything it makes me feel good that a guy is shy around me. I am sick and tired of this gender idealism. I have met plenty of gamers who are not afraid to ask a woman out.
You are the best! :) you have all my respect and admiration, we love women like you.
Another girl trying to say that men should do all the hunting. Times change. You should adjust accordingly and stop whining.
Thanks for saying this Leon!