Why is my ex boyfriend still nervous when he sees me? He still gets aroused when I talk to him but says doesn't want a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Why is he getting nervous/aroused when we're talking if he doesn't want a relationship any more? I broke up with him first but when I wanted him back he rejected me.

[Junlian]

Please take his advice. Don't pursue him. Too many girls do it anyway. He feels this way cause he know that he don't want commit but your hot as hell to him. It's like taking a responsibility that can be avoided. Not to say your a head ache or high maintenance. I'm saying he rather communicate with you differently.

[Asker]

but it really hurts, he was the one who pursued me 1,5 year long. He LOVED me as hell. He thinks i'm high maintenance he admitted this when he rejected me. I really want to show him we could work things out. He's still attracted to me, isn't this enough to start to rebuild things?

[Junlian]

Don't freakn do it. Let it go. Unless you want to be a girl he'll have sex with but don't truly love you then go on. Guy has feels but don't want to commit. You have both. So your wasting your time. Soon to hurt yourself. Don't try to look for Hope. If you do. Fine. But why go back into a burning building?

[Asker]

İf he wasn't that caring, loving man during the relationship i wouldn't. He has never hurt me with anything. İ was acting hard to get all the time to test his love for me. That's why he finally wanted to end things. He always told me he wants to be with someone who loves him deeply. İf İ prove him by showing my true love, would this turn him back?

[chaleesi]

he's thinking with his dick and not his heart. and he's going to you because you're right there in front of him