Things change when you get into a relationship, and they change again when you leave it . Did you expect to have the same friendship when you're out as when you're in ? That's unrealistic . You don't share all the same feelings outside a relationship as what you do inside, and you're not as close physically (you don't cuddle or hold hands or whatever) . Things will change . They have to . If they didn't, ask yourself if you're truly broken up . Now what you need to do is to find out how to be friends again rather than boyfriend/girlfriend . If you want this, you'll need to work at it, because it's not always easy to redefine a relationship .
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Are you guys alone or in a group I mean I don't know the details, but you guys broke up it is always awkward at first
Sounds to me like he still has strong feelings for you, and he's having a hard time accepting that it's over. I mean, you are the one who ended the relationship, against his wishes, right? I'm guessing he does not have a new girlfriend, and he is still hoping (unrealistically) to get you back. Best thing is probably to give him space, and time, to accept that it really is over. That may take a while....just be patient, and let him come to terms with things in his own way....
Maybe it hurts him to see you because he's still not over you. Breakups are never an easy thing to deal with and he probably just needs time to heal. I agree with the Quackman lol great answer!
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Maybe he misses you but doesn't want you to know .
lolHe might still have feelings for you and don't want you to know.
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