He asked me what I'd do if he kissed me, is he planning on it?

[Anonymous]

So this guy who I like a lot and I have been talking and he's starting to act like he likes me (ie. Messaging me all the time, we became #1 best friends on sc BC he always messages multiple times a day to talk and ask how I am, is flirty.)

This night he sends me this out of the blue. Like, he didn't even start the conversation with "hey." Just jumped right in and asked me what I'd do if he kissed me. he's done this before kind of. When he had a HUGE crush on me, he asked me "would you date someone in my grade? not asking for me, I'm just curious."

Also, a bit after he asked me if I wanted to go see a new movie with him when it comes out (he usually brings along a friend, never mentioned one this time)

I have two questions :
1) did he message me this because he wants to try and kiss me
2) what exactly does "I'd let it be" mean? (Like, I think it means he'd go along and kiss me back but I'm not entirely sure.)

Thanks to everyone who contributes!

DUH are you stupid? of course he wants to kiss you

he was just curious, doesn't really wanna kiss you

he's only doing it BC everyone else is posting that question online

other

[nomoreusernames]

I think that he is definitely thinking about it and wants to. I think that he is being careful to not do something that would upset you, he is nervous about kissing you for various reasons, or both.

[Asker]

Thank you for the response! Honestly thats what I'm thinking. What do you think he meant when he said "I'd let it be"? Because I got out of it either 1) he'd go along with it and kiss me back or 2) he'd pretend it never happened (but by him saying " you're smart haha" I think its the first one)

[nomoreusernames]

A lot of communication (almost all communication) is nonverbal so i am limited since i wasn't there. i would guess that it is #1. if he would just not freak about it and like representing the memory or whatever it probably would have been more of a statement along the lines of "i wouldn't think about it" or "i would try to not think about it".

[Asker]

That makes sense😊 I don't see us just being friends when he asks me that question and constantly seems willing to talk to me

[nomoreusernames]

Yea like I said you should kiss him.

[Asker]

@nomoreusernames thank you for your advice! Love your username by the way 😛😂

[nomoreusernames]

Yea it's accurate

[nomoreusernames]

thanks 😀

[Asker]

@nomoreusernames you're welcome!! By the way, last night he confessed he has "strong feelings" for me and wrote a couple paragraphs on it 😊❤

[nomoreusernames]

😀 see

[nomoreusernames]

People asking if they can kiss you generally like u a lot

[Asker]

@nomoreusernames I guess haha 😁 we are in this awkward stage rn, I'll keep you updated

[nomoreusernames]

Yea. Of course I'm happy to help.

[Anonymous]

he is doing it coz everyone else is doing it. it can be with you or someone else.

[Asker]

Well he's acting lately how he did when he had a crush on me (he told me the time he liked me but he never thought he'd have a chance) and the way he asked the question is similar to how he asked if I'd date someone in his grade. He usually would never be one to pop that type of question if you were just friends

[nomoreusernames]

What did he say about a kiss, try turning it on him a bit. Try kissing him :)

[Asker]

@nomoreusernames Tbh I want to so bad. Three days ago I had a dream we kissed and it was so beautiful. The next day I have a dream I was hugging his arm walking around a fair and we were dating. Like I can't get enough of him. I just don't know if I'll have the opportunity to

[nomoreusernames]

kiss him, or at least probe him more to see if he would be open or into it.

[Asker]

@nomoreusernames I think I will 😊 he's been flirting with me and putting a lot of effort into texting me for a while now, especially since when he asked me last night.

[cupidkisses]

yeah he wants to kiss u n wonders ur reaction

[Asker]

Honestly I'd be so happy if he kissed me, he's all I've ever wanted! What do you think he means when he says "I'd let it be"?

[cupidkisses]

umm i think he means that he would respond to ur kiss - like wouldn't resist :D

[Asker]

Well thats always good 😅❤