Is there a difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to them?

[Anonymous]

[violet896]

Yes definitely. I know a good number of guys who I find physically attractive, but due to other reasons (for example if I don't like their personality or they are already dating someone else) I am not personally attracted to the idea of them. Like I recognise why other people would be attracted to them and can see their appeal, but I do not have any thoughts about dating or hooking up with them

[windknowsmyname]

You are attractive vs I am attracted. Yes there are. Being Attractived means you already have attraction to that person. Finding them attractive can fade.