Why do guys like Virgins?

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Or am I 100% wrong and they don't care?

Maypai · Accepted Answer

There are a lot of reasons why males like virgins. One, being a virgin means no other man has touched her. For males, whether they admit it or not, it's a big deal to them if another man has been with his woman. But that's looking at it from a relationship standpoint.

A guy who is just sleeping around likes virgins because supposedly, they're tighter. Which I've heard otherwise. I think it's something like a pride thing. "Look at me, I took this chick's virginity."

To be honest, I don't think guys hold virgins to as high standards as they used to.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

Some guys do for the sole fact that it means she's not a "slut", she's clean, he can be her first (and subsequently her "best" I guess?"), there's lots of reasons, but many of them don't really care.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

because noone wants used goods. and also because women will always love their first.

jack151 · Accepted Answer

The Theory that Men like virgins have faded... But those who do like virgins...

Firstly - Usually like them for the reason or the feeling that that Girl is theirs...
No one else have ever had sex with her...

2ndly - Some men are scared of being 'smaller' than the previous people.

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Iraqveteran666 · Accepted Answer

Well if your planning to marry a girl a virgin is a good prospect. She has respect for herself and is less likely to cheat or want a divorce.

SinceYouAsked · Answer

I'll give you an honest answer, but most of you won't like it and probably will disagree - strongly.
First - there's a practical matter. If she's a virgin, it's highly unlikely she has an STD or that she's pregnant by some other guy. I know that's not 100% sure. There are other ways to get an STD (and to get pregnant), but the odds are very much in your favor.
Second - it is an ego thing. If you're the first, you know you are the best she's ever had and the biggest she's ever had. Yeah - you're also the worst and the smallest, but guys don't think like that. You don't have any competition for her to compare you to. You don't have to worry she's thinking about how some other guy was better while she's in bed with you. And, as previously noted, you will always have a special place in her life. You will forever be her first and no one can ever take that away from you. She will remember you for the rest of her life, no matter who else she is with and no matter how much she loves them. She could be happily married for decades, but she'll still remember you.
Third, and probably controversial - for someone of my generation, you really don't want to run into someone else who can say, yeah, I bedded your wife/girlfriend before you. I got her when she was still young and fresh; I got her best and now you're getting my cast-offs / rejects / leftovers. Not that a guy would actually say that out loud (unless he's a total jerk), but you'll always feel like that's what he's thinking. And you'll always wonder what they had together. Maybe young guys these don't care (although I really don't understand why), but that's the way it was when I was younger.
Fourth, and most controversial - when she's a virgin, you know that's the tightest she's ever going to be. That's the best it's going to feel. It can only go downhill from there. It's never going to get better. The more men she's been with and the bigger the men she's been with, the more things get stretched out. It may be gradual and it may not be much, but it is noticeable over time. I know many of you will strongly disagree with that statement, but that is my personal experience. And, if you think about it, there is logic to support that. by the way - this is especially true after childbirth. But that's a whole 'nother discussion.
So, you can flame me if you want. But I stand by my observations and I've gotten to a point in my life that I really don't care what others think and I don't have to impress anyone, which is why I can be so frank. I know none of the women on this site are going to like it, but that's just the way it is.

ThatRandomGuy76 · Answer

Like the others, if the guy is virgin too, its a good thing because it will be the "moment" of first touching on both sides, but if its not the first time for the guy, i think its because "wow no one gets here before (this is the good ones), but by the way you need to go more slow because it may hurt" or doesn't if she use the fingers before haha

Sovereignty · Answer

Virgins are something all men like only in theory. In reality they're more trouble then they're worth. No one really wants a sexually immature person with unrealistic expectations of sex and relationships.

STOLIonICE · Answer

I like a virgin because I will forever be a memorable part of their life, the standard they uphold all other guys to despite if the other guy is better or worse than me. To be the first one up in there & teach them what it's like & all about.

Broseph11 · Answer

Virgins are like that new BMW you get with 5 miles on it and you can't wait to take the top off and let it ride.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Many do like them, many do. Personally, I prefer them so long as I am one myself. As soon as my numbers climb, I will not mind the same being true for the girl.

wildcolin · Answer

I refuse to sleep with virgins because they're inexperienced. Others like them because they're inexperienced. It's not a "guy thing", only a matter of personal preference.

Black_Gold144 · Answer

Normally we don't care, but If it were the case it's just icing on the cake

n0eXi7 · Answer

Because they are clean, but usually we don't care if she is one

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

Most guys like them because they are clean, and they are someone they can teach to be naughty.

tamxx · Answer

well some do only because a girl has no expere can take full control but on the other hand guys also like girls with experience because its more fun that way.

Anonymous · Answer

it's all about attachment and a feeling of being with someone I can trust

FallingInReverse · Answer

Because we take their innocence 😂jk most of us don't care really

shrey_agarwal750 · Answer

You are damm 100% wrong that it doesn't matter because guys are also not sincere.. This doesn't matter at all. All matter is love.

Anonymous · Answer

Do they really like virgins? Whomever I see here says they want someone experienced.

Anonymous · Answer

Well for me I want my first time to be THEIR first time as well. Otherwise I wouldn't care

greycadillacs · Answer

Most guys shouldn't care.

fifihe · Answer

since they think virgins are as boxed toys! lol!

Glen68 · Answer

I have always preferred girls with experience

LoveHorses · Answer

Only prudes like virgins

Cakehole · Answer

Male insecurity

Anonymous · Answer

they are brand new lol

HeckYeah · Answer

I like fun girls

FrenchyRomain · Answer

i don't like virgins

Armanazar · Answer

it depends on

Anonymous · Answer

why not

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