you are not out of line at all.
It has taken many decades to attempt to reinforce good manners when it came to smoking - and still many folks don't abide by them and disrespect those around them.
'vaping' is usually seen as an excuse to ignore good manners and respect for others because 'it's not smoking' when the difference is minimal.
the punchline is - person A has a right to not have their air polluted by the hobbies of person B.
If person B cannot grasp the manners of respecting person A's right to breath, then that is not the fault of person A.
He thinks you are a hater because you didn't mind it before... so you will now have to sit him down and say sorry I didn't mind this before but it really bothers me can you please not do this around me? If he said's... bitch please... then move on...
You aren't out of line for addressing the problem. When you first mentioned it though, you set the boundary where it was okay for him to vape. If that habit is a part of him, don't expect him to change. Only he can do that (if and when he wants to). What you can do is decide whether it's a habit or flaw you can live with.
I don't like vape either... but if you knew he vaped when you got with him you should be used to it and not complain. Just think how much better it is than smoking. You can't stop him from vaping now but don't stand with him when he does it. If it's bothering you walk away when he does and then join him when he's finished
Vaping is better than smoking but to each their own. Kindly tell him to not do it when you're around.
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Vaping sucks, tell him he should respect you, that it's annoying and if he wants to do it, he should do it somewhere else.
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I understand how you feel. My younger brother vapes around me, and I find it annoying as hell. I don't think you're out-of-line at all for wanting him to stop.
Just tell him to vape when you're not around. If he has any respect for you, he'll acquiesce.
Just tell him that if he's going to continue, it'll have to be when you aren't around. If he can't respect that, he's the one who's out of line. But when all comes to it, you should've probably told him sooner, rather than drag it out and waiting.
Be greatful that he's not smoking cigarettes? Get over yourself? Don't be around him when he is doing it.
If it bothers you - you tell him that! You have a voice for a reason. Don't let him be obnoxious and belittle you for that.
If you don't like him vaping around you, voice your concerns. If he keeps doing it, then leave it go else where while he's doing it.
You are annoyed because it's an addiction, and being around people active in their addiction is often really a drag. You're 19. You don't need to stay with this guy.
In all honesty, if he vaped before you met him, that's just something you should've gotten used to if you wanted to stay with him. If he doesn't want to change for you, then he's not for you. Simple as that
Did he start vaping in order to quit smoking? Is he using juice with nicotine?
Not all. I dont like it or smoking and wouldn't have a problem telling my girl to stop around me if she did.
Heck No if it bothers you your entitled to be offended. I'm personally a blunt person so my suggestion is just straight up tell him it's not acceptable.
No you aren't out of line it's absolutely disgusting.
You're not out of line, especially if he's obnoxious about it.
I would honestly be annoyed too. Maybe just politely tell him it bothers you
Absolutely not. you have the right to feel however you want about what he does, especially when it's something we stupid as vaping. ask him to stop or do it away from you
he should have some damn courtesy and do it when you're not around or at least in another room.
You can just voice your feelings, he should be considerate. My husband smokes but never around me or the house and car.
You may want to give things a mental evaluation about how your boyfriend would look with another girl because that sounds like that is the direction you're heading in.
if you don't like it, or "didn't mind it", why did you agree to be with him?
it's better than smoking tho!
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