Why is my boyfriend continuously treating me like he can't stand me, am I doing something wrong?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have broken up recently 4 times because each time he tells me he doesn't feel the same, yet a week later he asks me to take him back. our last breakup ended with me finding out he had a secret Facebook account with lots of girls on it.. and also said single. i asked him about it and he lied to me and said no he did not have one. So i ended things with him. each time we get back together he acts sweet, romantic and caring for about two days then he goes back to his old ways of getting annoyed with every little thing i do, never wanting to hold hands, or even really talk to me. we've been together for 10 months. Each time i try and talk to him about it he says "your starting again, im not for this goodnight" then he ignores me for the rest of the night.. am i doing something wrong? am i annoying him? :(

[_isabel_12]

You don't need a guy to be treating you like that I don't think you're doing anything wrong I just think he has no patience you shouldn't be with someone who makes you unhappy if you truly care for each other work things out :) it seem though he just likes the attention if he starts to cheat in reality you should put a stop to it before it gets ugly but he also should be keeping things from you just talk it out or ignore him for a few days and see how he likes it cx

[runcupcakerun]

Don't waste any more time on him. He's really just hurting you, and even though you care about him, he has a lot to learn before he's mature enough to handle a relationship. He's the one in the wrong, it really has nothing to do with you. It's his problem. If I were you, I would break up as soon as possible. While it might hurt like hell right now, that's nothing compared to how much hurt he could cause you in the future. Good luck!

[Prettygurl12]

Yes. You're doing something wrong.

You keep taking that twat back.

Stop that.

Don't pursue him. Don't accept his advances. Kick him and his dramatic dumb ass to the curb and leave him there.

[capncool]

He's the one who's treating you like crap, you're not the one who is doing anything wrong. You probably should have ended it permanently once you found out about the Facebook account. You care about him and I know its hard to realize, but he clearly doesn't care about you.

[inlovewithyou2014]

Next time y'all break up, don't take him back when he comes beggin for mercy, Darlin he's just usin ya.