Boyfriend can’t control himself around me?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we love eachother so much but when it comes to sexual boundaries it gets messy. He can never control himself to the point where when I say stop I have to say it repeatedly for him to hear. I feel helpless and used always. We’ve spoken about it and he said he’s going to fix it but I don’t know how he will, I don’t want to end it with him and the same goes with him to me but I’m just so upset I can’t even speak to him normally. I feel like this has been 7 months of upset built up... please help :(

[unKN1GHTed]

Ask yourself if it's "making love" or "animalistic, selfish, sex".

If it's the latter, break it off unless you're into that kind of thing.

[spartan55]

What do you mean "sexual boundaries are messy"?

[Asker]

I just mean he has a hard time ‘respecting’

[spartan55]

Just as vague. Sorry can't give an opinion only on that.