Brother covered for me when I came home drunk, but is it weird?

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Last thing I remember Friday night is getting in my friend's (our DD) car to go home. She told me yesterday that she had to call my older brother (21) to come get me from the car since I was drunk and my parents were still awake and I would of been grounded. Anyway I woke up in the morning in bed with a bottle of water next to me with a note "drink this when you wake up" from my brother. The part where it gets weird is I was in my normal pajamas (shorts & t shirt) and when I asked my brother how that happened he said he put them on for me in case mom or dad came in my room early and wondered why I was still wearing a "slutty party dress" - but he also had to of taken my bra off and like i wonder if he did anything to me.

He doesn't like when i come home drunk, almost never covers for me, always gets mad at me for doing it.

so what are the chances he touched me or took pics or something

dusty_milk · Accepted Answer

1) Don't make drinking an habit (at any age), and wait a little more years (2-3) to make you liver complete its formation to drink a little more frequently.
But probably you already know this.
2) When you drink, drink moderately. It is not fun to blackout. Don't ever go over the bottle of wine (this is my rule, but everyone has its own). (probably as a female you have a lower threshold)
3) He's 21 and he is your brother. Remember that most of the guys aren't pedophiles and most of the guys do not like incest. Intersect the two things and you have a very low chance that your brother is sexually attracted to ya.
4) Once you discover the other sex, seeing a pair of boobs or a vagina in a non sexual context is not a big deal in most of the cases.
5) He seems to just love you as her sister. He did what he thought was best for you.

WalterBlack · Accepted Answer

Do you consider your brother to be a trustworthy person? Has he ever been creepy towards you in the past? I don't think you should assume that your brother did anything wrong unless he has a history of doing highly inappropriate stuff like that. Have you considered the possibility that you removed your own bra and forgot that you did that due to your intoxicated state?

RowenaRavenclaw · Accepted Answer

I think he's your brother. He was trying to help you. He wasn't doing anything wrong but help you. You are accusing him of something he probably didn't do because he's your brother. And you were definitely doing something you shouldn't have been doing. I think he was just trying to help you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Jesus Christ. You're 14. You shouldn't even be getting drunk and wearing a slutty party dress in the first place. He sounds like a good brother that just cares for his young adolescent sister to me, so I don't think he did anything to you

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I really doubt he did anything to you, it just sounds like he was taking care of his younger sister.

CheerGirl38139 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you did something really stupid and dangerous and he was covering your ass for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Please don't think about your brother in that way. In your relationship trust is more. He cared for you and you are thinking about him in that way. Shame on you. He helped you and saved you from your parents. If he had done anything like that then on the next day you might not get the note and bottle. It shows that he really cares for you.

Don't drink more than you can handle and after that think about your brother in this way. You are so young try to control yourself. Avoid late night parties.

Hope I am clear to you.

Its_Raj · Answer

If your brothers been acting strange lately, he might have something going on in mind.

But if he is a good and caring person, then he might just wanted to help.

But, wait you are a drunk at such an early age. Woah! Grow up a little more first, then I think you might do that. 😉

kap_nss · Answer

If I'm reading correctly he took out your underwear and put your pijamas on. Then he saw you fully naked, which is kind of wrong IMHO. But what is on his mind is really hard to say. Now, you are going way further and you are worried he may have touched you. What makes you think that possible?

jabbahut · Answer

Your Brother was simply looking out for you in a nice way - like what family should. I doubt he was meaning to do anything malicious.

In actual fact I've done similar with my Step-Sister when she was really drunk and I sort of had to carry her home and lift her and put her to bed - she was not in a good state luckily I hadn't drank vary much anyway.

JayLiche · Answer

Reading this i was like, "Okay i see why she's worried" then i saw your age... this was my reaction:

Anonymous · Answer

Girl if you're gonna drink, know your limits. I don't know does your brother ever check you out? Maybe he took a look and feel. Or snapped a pic for the memories. Underage drinking is inevitable. But you can still know your limit

Blonde401 · Answer

What the hell...😐 Think you need to get yourself together.

KrisPW · Answer

I think you got lucky to have a brother that would cover for you. If he was just in it to cop a feel I don't think we would have been caring enough to leave the note and water.

jeffersont · Answer

Your brother just sounded like any good brother. He probably really cares for you and covered for you so your parents didn't screw you over with punishments.

SteelerNation50 · Answer

Stop getting blackout drunk and you would know what happened.

ShaeNielson · Answer

What he did was just wrong, even if he had good intentions removing your bra is disgusting.

smokerjoker · Answer

Your brother coping a feel is the least of your worries, getting gang raped, getting a STD, pregnant or all of the above should be your main worry, if your going to get drunk do it in a safe place, be cautious, take care

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

He's a good brother. I would have done the same thing. He did what he had to do, he worried about you. Try not to become that drunk next time

piyush2997 · Answer

he is your brother if he would have been of near about your age that would mean he is currently hitting puberty, there are possible chances that he might have done that. but he is mature enough to know that you are his little sis

independentman · Answer

I think the punishment was better then actually your brother undressing you naked

dolemite68 · Answer

he might try to black mail you or maybe he just expects a favor in the future

Anonymous · Answer

Why would your brother touch you? What would make you think like this?

TomBradysJersey · Answer

What is weird is that you coming home drunk at 14

Im_-L · Answer

41% chance something lewd happened

masterkamasutra · Answer

he seen you fully naked for sure.

Brother covered for me when I came home drunk, but is it weird?

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