Brother covered for me when I came home drunk, but is it weird?

[KristenLynn]

Last thing I remember Friday night is getting in my friend's (our DD) car to go home. She told me yesterday that she had to call my older brother (21) to come get me from the car since I was drunk and my parents were still awake and I would of been grounded. Anyway I woke up in the morning in bed with a bottle of water next to me with a note "drink this when you wake up" from my brother. The part where it gets weird is I was in my normal pajamas (shorts & t shirt) and when I asked my brother how that happened he said he put them on for me in case mom or dad came in my room early and wondered why I was still wearing a "slutty party dress" - but he also had to of taken my bra off and like i wonder if he did anything to me.

He doesn't like when i come home drunk, almost never covers for me, always gets mad at me for doing it.

so what are the chances he touched me or took pics or something

[dusty_milk]

1) Don't make drinking an habit (at any age), and wait a little more years (2-3) to make you liver complete its formation to drink a little more frequently.
But probably you already know this.
2) When you drink, drink moderately. It is not fun to blackout. Don't ever go over the bottle of wine (this is my rule, but everyone has its own). (probably as a female you have a lower threshold)
3) He's 21 and he is your brother. Remember that most of the guys aren't pedophiles and most of the guys do not like incest. Intersect the two things and you have a very low chance that your brother is sexually attracted to ya.
4) Once you discover the other sex, seeing a pair of boobs or a vagina in a non sexual context is not a big deal in most of the cases.
5) He seems to just love you as her sister. He did what he thought was best for you.

[WalterBlack]

Do you consider your brother to be a trustworthy person? Has he ever been creepy towards you in the past? I don't think you should assume that your brother did anything wrong unless he has a history of doing highly inappropriate stuff like that. Have you considered the possibility that you removed your own bra and forgot that you did that due to your intoxicated state?

[KristenLynn]

I mean there's times where he could be creepy but i was way younger so he may jave just been messing with me too

[RowenaRavenclaw]

I think he's your brother. He was trying to help you. He wasn't doing anything wrong but help you. You are accusing him of something he probably didn't do because he's your brother. And you were definitely doing something you shouldn't have been doing. I think he was just trying to help you.

[independentman]

With her boobs...

[Anonymous]

Jesus Christ. You're 14. You shouldn't even be getting drunk and wearing a slutty party dress in the first place. He sounds like a good brother that just cares for his young adolescent sister to me, so I don't think he did anything to you

[fauchelevent]

I really doubt he did anything to you, it just sounds like he was taking care of his younger sister.

[KristenLynn]

i hope cause getting in trouble would be really bad and its good tohave someone that covers for you

[CheerGirl38139]

Sounds like you did something really stupid and dangerous and he was covering your ass for you.

[Anonymous]

Please don't think about your brother in that way. In your relationship trust is more. He cared for you and you are thinking about him in that way. Shame on you. He helped you and saved you from your parents. If he had done anything like that then on the next day you might not get the note and bottle. It shows that he really cares for you.

Don't drink more than you can handle and after that think about your brother in this way. You are so young try to control yourself. Avoid late night parties.

Hope I am clear to you.

[ShaeNielson]

He took her clothes off, he is a creep.

[Ciscoin]

That is entirely subjective. Do you have a brother?

[Its_Raj]

If your brothers been acting strange lately, he might have something going on in mind.

But if he is a good and caring person, then he might just wanted to help.

But, wait you are a drunk at such an early age. Woah! Grow up a little more first, then I think you might do that. 😉

[KristenLynn]

he's always strange. I accept that

[kap_nss]

If I'm reading correctly he took out your underwear and put your pijamas on. Then he saw you fully naked, which is kind of wrong IMHO. But what is on his mind is really hard to say. Now, you are going way further and you are worried he may have touched you. What makes you think that possible?

[KristenLynn]

CauSe he's a guy and im a girl. I don't know if he would. But i imagine most guys would take the oppertunity

[WalterBlack]

@KristenLynn, I think that *most* 21 year old guys would have zero interest in seeing their 14 year old sister naked or touching her inappropriately.

[KristenLynn]

I hope. I mean i think I've seen him check me out a few times :/

[WalterBlack]

At first I thought you were just jumping to conclusions. But the more you say, the more it makes me wonder about your brother. Do you have a relative that you can talk to about this? Someone like a cool aunt/uncle/cousin that isn't going to rat you out to your parents about the drinking. We can talk about this all day on here but it might be more helpful for you to get an opinion from someone that actually knows your brother.

[KristenLynn]

I could ask my girl cousin whos like a year
Younger than him

[jabbahut]

Your Brother was simply looking out for you in a nice way - like what family should. I doubt he was meaning to do anything malicious.

In actual fact I've done similar with my Step-Sister when she was really drunk and I sort of had to carry her home and lift her and put her to bed - she was not in a good state luckily I hadn't drank vary much anyway.

[CheerGirl38139]

I think the naked part is what she's concerned a out but still. I'd be thankful if it were me of I'd done that

[jabbahut]

@CheerGirl38139 I can understand her concerns I personally would support what her Brother did in helping her.

[CheerGirl38139]

I agree. Better than the alternative

[JayLiche]

Reading this i was like,
"Okay i see why she's worried"

then i saw your age...

this was my reaction:

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[Anonymous]

Girl if you're gonna drink, know your limits. I don't know does your brother ever check you out? Maybe he took a look and feel. Or snapped a pic for the memories. Underage drinking is inevitable. But you can still know your limit

[Blonde401]

What the hell...😐 Think you need to get yourself together.

[KrisPW]

I think you got lucky to have a brother that would cover for you. If he was just in it to cop a feel I don't think we would have been caring enough to leave the note and water.

[jeffersont]

Your brother just sounded like any good brother. He probably really cares for you and covered for you so your parents didn't screw you over with punishments.

[jeffersont]

by the way what country though?

[independentman]

And he couldn't let her bra on?

[jeffersont]

Depends on the situation man, who knows.

[KristenLynn]

Usa. And he could of taken it off under my tshirt

[SteelerNation50]

Stop getting blackout drunk and you would know what happened.

[ShaeNielson]

What he did was just wrong, even if he had good intentions removing your bra is disgusting.

[independentman]

I think that too. Second of all she could sleep in that dress and blame for being tired..

[KristenLynn]

Hey sorry took me a while to reply. If my dad had seen me in the dress i woulda been in trouble. I wasn't allowed to buy it but i did secretly.

Secondly yeah if i was nude id feel weird but he could've done it under my shirt

[independentman]

He could dress you over dress

[KristenLynn]

Ya i guess. Bur he didbt

[smokerjoker]

Your brother coping a feel is the least of your worries, getting gang raped, getting a STD, pregnant or all of the above should be your main worry, if your going to get drunk do it in a safe place, be cautious, take care

[Yanoa_Yanza]

He's a good brother. I would have done the same thing. He did what he had to do, he worried about you. Try not to become that drunk next time

[independentman]

Wtf? he could let her in her clothes, and blame her for being tired. Second of all why bra was taken off if would be only pure intention

[Yanoa_Yanza]

@independentman He could. But we're speaking of a brother here, not some perv guy. At least I hope so

[independentman]

Brother can be perverts too, I was one

[piyush2997]

he is your brother if he would have been of near about your age that would mean he is currently hitting puberty, there are possible chances that he might have done that. but he is mature enough to know that you are his little sis

[independentman]

I think the punishment was better then actually your brother undressing you naked

[KristenLynn]

What

[independentman]

What do you mean with what?

[KristenLynn]

What do you mean the punnishment was better

[independentman]

It was better

[dolemite68]

he might try to black mail you or maybe he just expects a favor in the future

[Anonymous]

Why would your brother touch you? What would make you think like this?

[KristenLynn]

cuz he pretty much stripped me naked and he didn't have to do that

[Opinion Owner]

I dont know lol.

[_C_h_r_i_s_p_y_]

You say he "Didn't have to do that" but if you think about it, if he hadn't, just think of the possible trouble you woulda gotten in. For what he did, be grateful and quit being suspicious. He deserves more trust that you give.

[TomBradysJersey]

What is weird is that you coming home drunk at 14

[KristenLynn]

The age is 1 year off, I'm actually 15, but I don't need another lecture on the subject. >_>

[TomBradysJersey]

Okay Im just saying your asking for trouble

[Im_-L]

41% chance something lewd happened

[masterkamasutra]

he seen you fully naked for sure.

[KristenLynn]

Yeah maybe when i was like 11 or 12.