Coworker at work makes me uncomfortable. Trust gut instinct?

[Anonymous]

If coworker comes off consistently creepy, do you tell yourself you are being silly and mean? or do you think there's probably something to it?

[IHateLife]

It's weird how everyone here just says "yeah he's creepy" without knowing anything other than that she thinks he's creepy. His body language is creepy? How? Maybe he has poor social skills and doesn't understand what he's doing? Maybe there's something else wrong with him? Have you tried talking to him? Maybe he's just ugly and anything he does in your presence is deemed creepy because you've deemed him beneath you?

[Asker]

This is kind of why I said 'do you tell yourself you are being silly and mean'? At what point is a person simply socially awkward vs creepy? Some creepy people can just come off socially awkward. Socially awkward people can come across creepy when they simply want to make friends. Stalking and cornering someone to force them to talk to you can be a form of socially awkwardness. A guy not getting the conversation he wants from a girl when she is busy and feeling ignored so he feels that she thinks she's above him because she's ignoring him. and deems her a bully. where would a person draw the line?

[Anonymous]

And how exactly are they causing your poorly intuned creeper sense to go off?

[Asker]

their actions. (e. g. body language, attitude)

[Opinion Owner]

Towards you?

[Asker]

yes.

[Opinion Owner]

They'll probably stalk you.

[Anonymous]

no theyre probably being creepy, just try to ignore them, and walk around with at least one other person, if ur really uncomfortably, maybe there is another job opening somewhere else?

[Anonymous]

Usually that gut instinct is right. Be polite but avoid him. Don't try to dig into it, don't seek him out. Just try not to talk to him more than necessary

[reptocarl]

I'd think he's really creepy

[Anonymous]

put him in his place and confront the bitch