Do men like to be pampered?

[Fullmoont]

I always feel very good when me and my SO cuddle, when he is so nice to me. It feels like he is filling me with energy and makes me feel loved.
My question is, do men like to be treated the same way? I am always trying to offer the same treatment and am always wondering, do you feel neglected? How would you like to be treated so you should feel safe and loved? Is it any different? I mean it makes me feel funny but I consider it extremely cute when I'm gently embraced and when I am called sweet nothings like princess and so on - if you get what I mean.
What kind of treatment do men expect from women?

[theharlequin]

I think everyone likes to be pampered to some degree, but within that generalization, everyone is different. I know some guys who want and expect women to wait on them hand and foot. Others (like me), not so much.

As far as what kind of treatment I personally expect from a girl, I expect her to make an effort to create and maintain a personal connection with me. I expect her to show me in her own way that she values me. Whether her 'love language' is pampering me, writing me love poems, or just making a special effort to clean up some of the messes I leave behind, it all tells me that she's thinking about me and that I mean a lot to her. And that's what matters to me.

[Fullmoont]

Aww so sweet. I agree with you. Normal is the best. I don't expect anything but him being kind and I will also do my best to figure what he needs... who said that men are easy to figure... I sure didn't expect some of the answers here

[Aaron_m]

Depends on the guy... Being pampered I like, if you spend your day pampering me, ima get tired of it real fast... there is a time and place for everything 😊

[Fullmoont]

Techically he is my husband now so by law he shoudn't get tired of me or else... haha just joking.
Your answer is much appreciated

[Aaron_m]

You made me laugh 😅 If you're married and he likes getting pampers and you like doing it, have fun ! If he feels like he needs to assert dominance again you can buy some kinky shit I guess 😄

[Missyjane]

I personally think men need the love and affection more as some men have insecurities, especially within society as men are told to be men and not have feelings because men don't have "feelings" apparently -.- which is crap they do they just know how to show
show them or talk about them.

[Fullmoont]

I don't know about men but I do believe that women are more loving than men. I do encourage equality so I am interested to us being loved as one would need

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I thrive on affection. My SO is so affectionate. I always give him spontaneous cuddles, hugs and kisses and he loves it. I couldn't be with a guy who didn't like giving and receiving affection.

[Mega_illuminati]

its not only about safety, it also is about need. Men generally like when their girls need them to do small things. And spoiling also couldn't hurt.

[Fullmoont]

Yes I am interesed. I sometimes feel as if I am the only one receiving. I just wish for both of us to be happy. Your answer is much appreciated. I will quickly put it to use and promise I'll make him do some extra work haha

[Mega_illuminati]

glad i could help :-)

[Anonymous]

Treat like you wanna be treated but remember different people have different tastes.. So dont think he'd be pampering you the same way that you do. Yeah men love to be pampered but there's a thin line between pampering and treating him like a child. Got to know what you ought to know..

[BasicFlake]

I would have to say no. I like space. I find too much affection to be oppressive and suffocating.

[Fullmoont]

Uu oki. Your answer is much appreciated. Honestly speaking I'm asking because I am the one feeling suffocated and sometimes I shoo him away and when I am away from him I start feeling guilty and start to miss him.. I hope he doesn't take it to heart.

[toddpreorderhoward]

Yes on occasion, but I'm obligated to say no for pride reasons.

[Fullmoont]

Aww you're young. In order for you to grow healthy you will need to find someone to love you and take care of your emotional needs... 😶

[Snyxthetics]

i likee when they call me prince of persia. 😎 srsly ofc we love our girl supporting us! would be bad if not

[zikachu21]

of course. it's just nice every once and awhile​ to feel good

[Fullmoont]

Aww much appreciated

[Jackblue]

Take heed, some men will demand all the pampering and give none in return.

[Anonymous]

Yes we do. We may not realize it since we focus on becoming harder. Even if we realize it we may not admit it. It is however always welcomed. It is also okay to raise our awareness about it.

[Anonymous]

i think they like it too

[Anonymous]

I hope so. I'd love to pamper someone..

[Anonymous]

Sometimes