How do men like to be pampered?

[JCN22]

This topic is about pampering. If any of you have ideas of how you would like to be pampered or what you would prefer from a woman please share. I'd love to hear all the ideas I can get. I definelty don't want to treat my man like his mother, like he can't do things on his own but I definetly could use some great examples of pampering someone and making them feel special. How would you like to be pampered?

[JKingOff]

I really wish that more women would ask that question. most of the time I swear to god it feels like I'm the one that's doing most of the pampering. Let's see here, most guys really like it when you stroke the hair on their head, especially if you pull on it a little bit. Don't ask me why it's just a trigger spot, it's also really good way to put us to sleep if you do it right. the fact that most guys are usually very physically hard-working eye muscles get tired and sore pretty frequently. So back rub would also be a great idea, assuming that you had enough strength and stamina to keep it up. Cooking is another great idea, but only if you know how to cook well. Other than that some sexy lingerie, and good old-fashioned intimacy are usually pretty safe bets, assuming that you're the one wearing lingerie and not him. Aside from that just the usual, lap dances, pole dances, twerking, blow jobs, hand jobs, 69. you could also try getting him drunk and letting him do anal. those guys suck at aiming if we're completely blitzed out of her mind, but it makes it a lot easier on us if she lets us keep going even though we have the wrong hole lol. by the way, if you're looking to pamper him don't make him do the dishes or take out the trash after you're done cooking and feeding him. if it's a pampering day for him he'll see it as just one more thing for him to do. If it's a more special occasion you could try getting together a bunch of your single female friends, with you included obviously, in the same room as him and tell him no strings attached. If you can do all these things combined in the same day I guarantee you that he'll stick around for a very long time to come.

[JCN22]

Good to know! Thank you. I feel like guys should be appreciated also.

[Reaperbot666]

ideal partner - Fun to be around. Decent looking (does not have to be a model or anything crazy like that. Unless she wants to be then I will support best I can), kind, smart, likes to be both a girly girl and tomboy type (a good blend), enjoys being around me (quality time helps), does not go over board with accessories, mostly healthy life style, natural look to her (does not go over the top with makeup or a least not in her normal look. maybe once in a while for special events), sweet, dresses in a modest (elegant) manner, occasions where’s flirty clothes (nothing to overly reveling in public), proud of her body (no matter her shape / size / weight or height). any skin color or race is fine (not picky). ability to cook from time to time (either by herself or with my help. does not have to be anything upscale. but basic cooking skills are a plus). has her own job is a plus (so she has her own spending money and can help with bills when need be).

[motherknowsbest]

I find with my husband I can do three things that totally make his day. 1 is food. Be home cooked or some take out. Having a meal ready when he gets home just sets the table for a good night. 2 is to give him some space. Go see a movie, go get your nails done. Give him a few hours alone on a weekend or when he's in the middle of a project. 3 is rather simple really. Blowjob. I'll let you fill in the blanks as to why it works. My husband is a man of purpose, works very hard and usually has projects going all the time. As I wrote this he's pulling up the floor in my den to redo it. I think he just wants to be shown he's appreciated and trusted. Again this is for my man. Other men may differ.

[MannMitAntworten]

In so many words you effectively said, be present. Which sums it up. Both men and women can be equally guilty of not being present towards one another. Good on you.

[JDavid25]

I don't think most men care necessarily about bein pampered.. Especially since we are used to not even bein treated that well by society.. Plus, me personally I don't like to be spoiled.. It lowers moral.. I do like to be appreciated though.

[ecfresh]

Massage, cook, go on trips with them, help host a pasty

[ecfresh]

Party

[Adam1978]

Only to a certain extent, we do want to feel independent and that we can do our own things. So pamper us with things we don't want to do ourselves.

[funride74]

Guy feel pampered if you join them in their activities and tell them that they are make and you're proud of being with them.

[blutwolfe]

I would like to be loved every once in awhile, hope it's not too much to ask, but to some women it is

[coffeewithcream]

Bring me a beer and get on your hands and knees when I need a footstool to rest my feet on.
:)

[YesIsaidit]

Just a genuine smile when we come home means a lot and no nagging ans more understanding

[R3DthatDude]

A Massage is just fine for me that’s about it

[ivbnlknfru]

I like it up to a certain point

[Shellyworld]

Massaging her back and shoulders

[MannMitAntworten]

Just be ‘present’.