I'm dating a mommas boy, what should I do? (Page 2)

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I love my boyfriend and all, we've been together for almost 2 years. But sometimes I feel like I'm his second girlfriend. He's so close to his mom that it makes me feel uncomfortable. I remember one time he even said that his mom was his other girlfriend. One time we were somewhere and his mom showed up, and he forgot that I was there. He had his arm around her while they were walking and I had to follow them like I was their child. He calls her for everything; and always needs her opinion. He always asks me second for my opinion or if he does ask me he will ask his mom for a better opinion.  It makes me feel useless. He has calmed down because I talked to him about it but when I do he makes a huge scene and gets very defensive but he does realize a day later but he goes back to his ways. He also expects me to clean , do his laundry and make him food when we get our own place but I shouldn't HAVE to do that. He lives at his moms house and I technically live there too and she talks to him like a baby and does everything for him, she will even serve him food right in front of me and not even ask me. I don't know what to do, I don't want to get married one day and he puts his mom before our marriage and our kids.

Anonymous · Answer

These are just all warning signs for you to get out, you deserve so much more than some boy who's "loves you" and then acts this way. It seems like he may never get out of this mentality and you'll just suffered further if you two do get marry. It's better to leave now when it's easier and there's no baggages than have a messy divorce with your kids caught in the middle. Best of luck!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm close to my mom too but there's a clear distinction between her and my girlfriend. Sure, I love my mom more than anything but there's a different relationship between her and my girlfriend who I also love but in a different way. Seems like he's just childish and hasn't grown up and natured to be honest...

Enrique342 · Answer

Tell him u goot two choices u either stop being a mama's boy and get a job and move out and get yourself a apartment or i'll leave u and move on that's it

TwinFace · Answer

If a girl can't even love something as simple as her mom, then she's not ready to love me yet so she can go do whatever the f@ck she want 👺👹

oddwaffle · Answer

Well don't date Mama's boy because you will always have that mama.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm tired of seeing this question pop up every time!! Not interested, don't care, just want it to go away!!!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I think you should leave because if you get married he will probably bring his mum on the honeymoon and she'll share the room.  Half joking here.

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

Hard to say, but it will probably never change so you will either have to except it and be okay with it, or you need to let go and move on to someone else...

TheHeartTech · Answer

without more context about the age and relationship type it's hard to say. I think a discussion needs to occur around expectations of the relationship and the Long view. what does this look like in 5 years.

wrish09 · Answer

If you​ love him talk to him, if not find yourself another one...

mo770 · Answer

U have to find your back bone. This relationship is horrible in my opinion.

consult · Answer

fact is if he respect and love his mother he will respect you  in long run boy treat girl same how he treat mother

sp33d · Answer

Oh fml, that's a tough gig. Both you and he must eventually remember that this woman is his mom. He can say what he will, joking or not.

Halucinator · Answer

hey there I think you need a new boyfriend... just think bout your situation... its worsening day by day. I feel bad for you😞😞

clampfan101 · Answer

Sounds like he's too obsessed to date atm. Have you talked to him about it?

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

Become his mommy so you can say  "He calls me mommy too" to his parents.

Smoky313 · Answer

I heard of a mamas boy, but that's a whole new level. I would get out of that, unless he can cut the umbilical cord

willbil · Answer

guys treat you like they treat there mom. if it bothers you the only thing to do is tell him and talk about it.

Amit199727 · Answer

All the girls who are in support of this 'man' i wish there husbands die 😍 nd there sons leave them for a girl.. becoz they dont wanna be a mommy's boy 🖕.. nd u all can live alone in ur life

pbhargesh82 · Answer

if you guys love so much each other try to work this out sometimes situations gives us no option then just let it be and hope for better things to come or move on.

sanpan · Answer

get close to his mom, n direct or indirect way explain about her son's situation so dat she might help u in dat situation n all three of u can live happily together

blondfrog · Answer

That's the equivalent of us guys have to date a daddy's girl. Well almost equivalent.

Liisjak · Answer

Ditch his ass lol, sounds like he won't be able to wipe his ass on his own or even cook for himself.

DizzyAster · Answer

That boy needs to grow up.  You need to find a guy not too attached to his mother.

URNOTMYDAD · Answer

Talk to him about it. If he doesn't change then leave him.

FaithfulGuardian · Answer

i dunno, team up and be a mama's girl to match him?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Talk to him about it. If continues with his crap then get rid of him. He's a grown man already.

Anonymous · Answer

Accept him the way he is or move on. No other alternatives here.

Pizzalover101 · Answer

Help him become more self confident in him self by helping himblearn to do new things he always has wanted to

eagle1951 · Answer

i hate to say it but you should find someone else. if you marry him his mom would be moving in next, and running your house.

Anonymous · Answer

She is his mom she gave him life and was there for him dont be greedy u won't f like it if someone took away ur kid from u stop being so f dramatic and u should be shameful even from thinking about it

chuy10 · Answer

shell probably go with both of you to the honeymoon to give him advice

Vikas_Sagar · Answer

expectations give rise to insecurities!! flush Dem down the toilet.

roop62 · Answer

it happens time to time, person changes everyday even you too, so little bit change is common 😊

MissIshQueen4 · Answer

Just leaving and save yourself Nothing is a worthless for you.

Anonymous · Answer

He's family oriented, which should be a good sign if you guys were to ever start a family. It shows that he's a family man and cares for his family. He could be a good father, who knows?

Yourcrazyex · Answer

Momma's boy not my type 😁

Lelaila · Answer

Leave him because this won't change.

Poppykate · Answer

Leave this guy! It's a weird situation!

Anonymous · Answer

you should consider leaving him, it's better for you in the longrun

Ladyslipper · Answer

Dump him and get yourself a real man

trashychick · Answer

break up. he's probably low key banging his mom

ijustwantnudes · Answer

show him your the mama

jjesica346 · Answer

Run like a motherfucker!!!

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

Kill his mom, it's really the only way.

kelly_coward · Answer

Stop dating that loser!

Anonymous · Answer

fuck him right up his ass

Gonetowardthewind · Answer

I'd leave him

BigBallerSodaPop · Answer

Ask them for a threesome

Love_Is_Eternal · Answer

All the idiots on here will tell you to leave him.

StevenHyde · Answer

Well, Donna dated Eric and that didn't last

sweetbuddy · Answer

make him your boy then turn him in to a man

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe talk with hus mum, tell her what you feel !

rassclart · Answer

I'd leave..

Steelwire · Answer

I heard that communication is key.

Araidium · Answer

if you love hin, stay with him

chinmay2012 · Answer

let is be mother is always first love for a boy

white98311 · Answer

Try talking to him about it

EricForman · Answer

Real mature guys, yeah real mature

Anonymous · Answer

break up. he deserves better.

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