Why does he keep standing me up?

[FreshDiva_Yuup]

me & this guy have been talking for about a month now he tells me he really likes me & I know he does ,he text me all day & calls me all the time but when it comes to us making plans he keeps standing me up ? & blames it on the fact that he fell asleep ? this hurts & what's wrong with calling & canceling instead of standing me up ?

[FrancescaMilan]

I would play with him a little bit - apply some self control and stop texting him for a while. And when you pick up a call from him, make him wait a little bit, hang up accidentally or don't pick up from the first time. Give yourself the busy look...

It might be that you are putting yourself too much out there. There is too much of `you` that he is seeing. Make him chase you...

Rule number one - Stop asking him out!

Rule number two - If you are thinking of asking him out, go to rule number one again...

If it is not too late, you migh get him chase after you and asking you out. If he does, don't get too jumpy and excited. Act normal. Remember, you are busy!

[FreshDiva_Yuup]

That could be it but he's been trying to get with me for quite awhile. . . why play mind games now??

[FrancescaMilan]

Just show a little bit indiference and stop asking him out... don't play games... If he jumps towards you... okay... if not - then he`s just not that into you.... =)

[FreshDiva_Yuup]

I never asked him out though he always asked me

[NotSoBad]

How do you know he really likes you? Maybe he really likes to talk and text you, but doesn't like hanging out with you. That sounds possible. Maybe he is just Texting you because he is bored. Just stop responding to him for a few days and see what happens.