Why does he stand behind me?

My ex likes to stand behind me. Whenever we are standing in a group he stands behind me, or takes a step back so that he's never in my eye sight. What does that mean?


Most Helpful Guy

  • Hmmm. Good question. From my perspective, he's standing behind you because that's what he's supposed to do, in like certain situations (ladies first). But I doubt its anything to think negatively about.

    Let's analyze. He could be:

    *standing behind you, so he can be supportive, put you first and foremost. Respect.

    *that's something he thinks makes you feel comfortable.

    *(joke) he's checking out the goods in the rear. Lol. (sorry. Had to. )

    ---or he could:

    *be uncomfortable standing next to you; does he not walk next to you when you walk down the street?

    *not want to stand next to you, because he doesn't really want to show he's with you in a crowd of people. (I've seen this before. It's a classic "I don't like pda. "

    *(joke) you smell funny. Lol

    I gave you two positive, two negative and I think you should take those, put them in your own words and ask him. It's good to be honest with one another, and obviously it makes you feel a certain way, so ask him. Of course he may be defensive about it, so make sure you don't bring it up while it's happening.

    • He could also just stand in the back because he's being protective. It's a primitive (not saying the guy is, but the action) thing to do, just watching out for you. It might be sweet depending on how he does it. =

    • I also notice that I misread the fact that's he's your ex. To put it simply, he either thinks that is how you want him to ask. Or he wants his distance from you anyways.

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What Guys Said 1

  • He doesn't want other people to think he's dating you. Physical distance = emotional distance.

    • Suppose I could see that. But it doesn't explain why he did that when he was chasing me and when we were dating and now when we are still friends.

What Girls Said 1

  • Can't look you in the eye? Maybe he is intimidated.

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