Do you wait for your crush to make the next move?

[Anonymous]

Do you think this happens?
Example:
Girl's thoughts:
-talk to crush one day, hangout, and have a good time
-wait for him to contact next time so you don't look desperate

Guy's thoughts:
- "She asked me to hang out, she must be into me"
- "Why did she talk to me yesterday, but not even speak to me at all the next day? Did she lose interest?"

Yeah, it happens

No, it never happens

Other (explain)

[Dim1213]

O man that has happened so many times with me. I just can never tell if a girl likes me or just wants to be freinds. So often I wait and hope that she give some hint that I can see.
PS if you want a guy to get that you like him. Do something very obvious like hit him over the head with the fact that you like him. Guys can't catch subtle.

[Asker]

Do guys give girls subtle hints?

[Asker]

This is some of the stuff he does:
1. Make eye contact
2. Avoid eye contact
3. Make fun of his friends and look for my reaction
4. Tease me/ copy things I say
5. Steal/ hide my stuff and give it back
6. Fix his hair
7. Talk in a deeper voice
8. Act serious and manly
9. Introduce me to his friends, and talk about me
10. Compliment me
11. Ask me to hang out with him and his guy friends
12. Touch his neck or face
13. Ask for help, and offer help when I need it
14. Sit beside me
15. Apologize for every little thing

[Dim1213]

Sure we do I usually give these hints from your list.
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With the eye contact you can never be sure about it.

[Asker]

okay :)

[Dim1213]

Actually I have a question about the eyes would you please let me know what your opinoin on this question is.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2449106-stare-down-why-would-a-girl-stay-where-i-left-her-stare-at-me

[Asker]

I answered it, with my really long paragraph that involves soccer. read it before you ask what it has to do with soccer

[Dim1213]

Thanks for giving me such a good comment.🙂

[Asker]

No problem! :)

[Ram0n83]

There needs to be some kind of reciprocation from the girl.

If she never responds or has no initiative, then I can only assume that there is no interest on her part.

I don't think I'm asking too much for a return of interest, if the interest is mutual.

[Asker]

Well, I don't know if he likes me. He gives me compliments, I hang out with him and his friends occasionally and we have some awesome memories together. I was talking to his friend one day, and I have never talked to him before. He already knew who I was because apparently my crush said good things about me to him. Sometimes he teases me I guess, but not often. I sometimes give him compliments, and I have teased him once. (I don't wanna seem mean). But I have asked him and his friends to hang out. We had a great time again. Like I don't know, I might be reading too much. I don't know if he is actually interested and giving signs, or just being nice.

[Ram0n83]

Up the ante a little bit. Try a very direct flirt and see how he reacts.

And if he's speaking good things about you to other people, it's probably a good sign.

[Asker]

Okay :)

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

Sometimes. I've asked 2 out of the 3 boyfriends I've had out & don't see anything wrong with it but the ones I asked out did tend to be a lot more passive in the relationship (not taking the initiative or planning thing etc). So if I think maybe he likes me too, I'll show my interest but let him decide if he's going to ask me out.

[TsundereMatrix]

I waited for my crush to make a move but I think he's shy and/or doesn't know I like him back. He's hinted to me that he wants to hang out sometime so now I feel obligated to make a move and I'm also shy so I'm really really nervous.

[billythecat]

It depends on the guy. Of course both possibilities occur so a poll probably doesn't really help that situation at all. Be honest about your feelings

[sp33d]

I'll take the reins. You don't let a woman in behind the wheel, after all.. :D

You know what to do! Hit that dislike button.
NOW!

[Asker]

I didn't really understand what you just said, so I think it would be more fair if I just stayed neutral. lol

[sp33d]

I recommend a dictionary.

[Asker]

I have ability in science, math, and social studies but the 2 things I cannot do more than anything is gym (other than the sport I play) and language arts. My 2 worst subjects right there

[Asker]

Oh! I get it now! I didn't need a dictionary, I just had to read it again, lol

[TomBradysJersey]

I've waited and in that case it didn't work. I think guys are expected make 95% of the moves.

[Longshanks68]

We are expected to but expectations lead to disappointment

[Asker]

@Longshanks68 true

[realperson02]

since we are supposed to make the moves , i always have made the moves after my first crush. but if the girl's who had a crushed on me would have made the moves, I would definitely had appreciated that.

[IEat70sBush]

They don't ask I assume they are not interested, a pretty accurate rule of thumb I've used for the past 27 or so years.

[Justinaveragedude]

I try to make friends, see if they are wOrth pursuing or juse pretty to look at.

[Asker]

What do you so if they are just pretty to look at?

[Justinaveragedude]

I can still be friends with them, but not have any desire for anything more complex. She would be like a niece or cousin, we can get along ok, but I wouldn't looking for anything more from them.

[Asker]

Okay

[Longshanks68]

Why play games, be honest about your feelings and things will work out much better for you

[Paymonha]

Yes, i am a VERY shy man, and i can't take the lead.

[CryingSpaghetti]

I like making the first moves, but I'd also like them to sometimes so I have a little nice surprise

[Boorene]

I'd make the first move if he didn't

[that-one-person]

well a lot of girls are just really. clueless

[Pizzalover101]

It's time to day how do you think of me

[apple24]

No boys too shy

[Anonymous]

No, it never happens