Should you pursue a crush or wait for the crush to pursue you?

[Anonymous]

[Kpersaud2]

More relationships would form if women were more up front with their feelings instead of waiting on guys to make all the moves.


Pursue him and give hints you have feelings for him. If he doesn’t reciprocate after 2-3 attempts, be up front ask him out, see if he’s Interested. If not, you should move on.

[Asker]

Can I message you? I’m not sure he likes me

[Kpersaud2]

That’s what the hints are for, to see if he shows interest when you give hints at your feelings for him. Sure, message me if you would like to.

[Asker]

Okay I followed you, please follow me back so I can message you. Thanks

[Kpersaud2]

Will do.

[Asker]

Okay thank you. I just messaged you

[spartan55]

Sit around and do nothing. The guy should do all the work. Don't even look at him, he might think you are desperate and interested in him...🙄
(THAT WAS SARCASM)

[slatyb]

In your 30s? invite him to coffee or lunch or dinner, whatever works.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You never know how long you got, tomorrow is never promised.

[exitseven]

Fortune favors the bold. I would do the persuing.

[Asker]

Can I message you? The issue is I’m not sure he likes me

[exitseven]

yes but no BS.

[Asker]

Okay thank you.

[Asker]

I just messaged you

[Anonymous]

Depends, usually the guy does the pursuing but you would have to be sure it’s not one sided