I friendzoned him. Now he has a girlfriend but I have feelings for him. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, a close guy friend of mine always asked for sex. I don't want sex without a relationship and made this as clear as possible to him. I'm almost 100% sure he liked me but he was awful at showing it. Now he is taking to a girl (not dating yet, but close) but I have feelings for him. Do I pursue him or let nature take its course and wait for them to breakup and then go after him?

[Anonymous]

I'd say move on and get over him. There are plenty of other men out there. If you made it clear that you only had sex within a relationship then he would have asked for a relationship. If you wanted a relationship you would have asked him. I think you only want him because he has another girl now. I'd just leave him alone and let him be with her.

[Ram0n83]

Going after him might agitate him at this point. If he and the other girl are getting serious, then he'll probably take her over you.

And if they split, he might turn you down, anyway. You had a chance with him and turned it down.

[linds34]

It sounds like you only became interested because he's hanging out with someone else. Let him spend time with that person and wish him luck.

[mrbuttons19]

i fell in love with my close female friend, she does stuff with other guys and tells me cause im her best friend, it destroys me. i want her love so bad and everytime she says that i die. dont wait for the relationship with the other girl to end, tell him

[Sintari]

Dang man :( hope you tell her how you really feel some day.

[Sintari]

I put a sad face down and a bored face came out instead lol. Sorry about that. Best of luck to you man.

[cupidkisses]

you lost your chance.

[rajpotchh]

make him jealous of u too if u think he likes u

[ScottSummers]

Um you should leave him alone